Pauloruintel
Disciple of Prayer
Please God, help me and ### stop arguing about everything. We have lost our trust and believe in each other. Too many problems are happening to us for years. Please help us find peace and love.
Fresh start
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We understand the deep pain and weariness in your heart as you cry out for a fresh start in your relationship. The constant arguing, broken trust, and lingering problems have taken a toll, but we want to remind you that God is the God of restoration, healing, and new beginnings. He sees your struggles and longs to bring peace and love where there has been strife. However, true and lasting change can only come when we surrender our lives—and our relationships—to Jesus Christ. It is only through His name that we can approach the throne of God with confidence, and it is only through His power that hearts can be softened, trust can be rebuilt, and love can be restored.
First, we must address something vital: your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or through which our prayers are heard by the Father. Jesus Himself said, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full"* (John 16:23-24, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Salvation comes through repentance and belief in Him—*"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation"* (Romans 10:9-10, WEB). Without this foundation, any attempt to restore your relationship will lack the power and grace only He can provide.
Now, let us speak to the struggles in your relationship. The Bible teaches that marriage is a covenant before God, a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman that reflects Christ’s love for His church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are married, this is a sacred bond that requires selflessness, forgiveness, and a willingness to lay down your own desires for the sake of your spouse. If you are not married but are in a romantic relationship, we encourage you to evaluate whether this relationship is honoring to God. Are you both believers in Christ? Are you pursuing purity and waiting until marriage for physical intimacy? Are you seeking God’s will for your future together, with marriage as the goal? The Bible warns against being "unequally yoked" with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), as this can lead to division and spiritual compromise. If there is sexual immorality—whether fornication (sex before marriage) or adultery—this is sin in God’s eyes and must be repented of. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). True love does not lead to sin but seeks to honor God in all things.
The arguing and loss of trust you describe are symptoms of deeper issues—pride, unforgiveness, and possibly unrepentant sin. The Bible commands us, *"Bear with each other, and forgive each other. If anyone has a complaint against anyone, even as Christ forgave you, so you must do"* (Colossians 3:13, WEB). Forgiveness is not optional for the believer; it is a command. Holding onto bitterness will only poison your heart and your relationship. Likewise, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB). This is the path to peace.
Trust is rebuilt through consistent, godly actions over time. If there has been betrayal—whether emotional, physical, or spiritual—repentance must come first. True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking to make things right. *"He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy"* (Proverbs 28:13, WEB). If you or your spouse have sinned against each other, confess it to God and to one another, and commit to walking in obedience to His Word.
We also urge you to examine whether you are both submitted to Christ individually. A relationship cannot thrive if one or both parties are not surrendered to Him. *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Your relationship must be built on the foundation of Christ, or it will crumble under the weight of trials. Spend time in prayer *together*, reading the Bible, and seeking God’s will. If you are not already doing so, we strongly encourage you to find a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can grow in your faith and receive godly counsel.
Lastly, remember that love is not a feeling but a choice—a choice to act in the best interest of the other person, even when it’s difficult. *"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails"* (1 Corinthians 13:4-8, WEB). This is the standard God calls us to, and it is only possible through His strength.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is crying out for restoration and peace. Lord, we ask that You would draw them—and their spouse or future spouse—into a deeper relationship with You. If they do not know You as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation, that they would repent of their sins and place their faith in Jesus Christ alone. Father, forgive them for any sin that has caused division, whether it be pride, unforgiveness, sexual immorality, or rebellion against Your Word. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and renew their hearts.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on this relationship. Soften their hearts toward one another and give them the grace to forgive as You have forgiven them. Remove the spirit of strife and replace it with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Restore trust where it has been broken, and help them to walk in transparency and love. Give them wisdom to communicate with kindness and patience, and help them to seek Your will above their own desires.
If this relationship is not honoring to You, Father, we ask that You would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. If there is unbelief, rebellion, or ungodly influences, expose it and bring it into the light. Surround them with godly counsel and support, and guide them to a church where they can grow in faith.
For those who are married, we pray for a renewal of their covenant before You. Help them to love one another as Christ loves the church—sacrificially, selflessly, and faithfully. For those who are courting, we pray for purity, wisdom, and a clear path toward a godly marriage if it is Your will. Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and let their relationship be a testament to Your glory.
We rebuke the enemy’s attempts to destroy this relationship through division, bitterness, or sin. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command every spirit of strife, confusion, and unforgiveness to flee. Fill this home with Your presence, Lord, and let Your love reign.
Father, we ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can save, heal, and restore. May Your will be done, and may You receive all the glory. Amen.
First, we must address something vital: your prayer did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ. The Bible is clear that there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved or through which our prayers are heard by the Father. Jesus Himself said, *"Most certainly I tell you, whatever you may ask of the Father in my name, he will give it to you. Until now, you have asked nothing in my name. Ask, and you will receive, that your joy may be made full"* (John 16:23-24, WEB). If you have not yet placed your faith in Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so now. Salvation comes through repentance and belief in Him—*"that if you will confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord, and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart, one believes unto righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made unto salvation"* (Romans 10:9-10, WEB). Without this foundation, any attempt to restore your relationship will lack the power and grace only He can provide.
Now, let us speak to the struggles in your relationship. The Bible teaches that marriage is a covenant before God, a lifelong commitment between one man and one woman that reflects Christ’s love for His church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are married, this is a sacred bond that requires selflessness, forgiveness, and a willingness to lay down your own desires for the sake of your spouse. If you are not married but are in a romantic relationship, we encourage you to evaluate whether this relationship is honoring to God. Are you both believers in Christ? Are you pursuing purity and waiting until marriage for physical intimacy? Are you seeking God’s will for your future together, with marriage as the goal? The Bible warns against being "unequally yoked" with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14), as this can lead to division and spiritual compromise. If there is sexual immorality—whether fornication (sex before marriage) or adultery—this is sin in God’s eyes and must be repented of. *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortionists, will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). True love does not lead to sin but seeks to honor God in all things.
The arguing and loss of trust you describe are symptoms of deeper issues—pride, unforgiveness, and possibly unrepentant sin. The Bible commands us, *"Bear with each other, and forgive each other. If anyone has a complaint against anyone, even as Christ forgave you, so you must do"* (Colossians 3:13, WEB). Forgiveness is not optional for the believer; it is a command. Holding onto bitterness will only poison your heart and your relationship. Likewise, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32, WEB). This is the path to peace.
Trust is rebuilt through consistent, godly actions over time. If there has been betrayal—whether emotional, physical, or spiritual—repentance must come first. True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking to make things right. *"He who conceals his sins doesn’t prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them finds mercy"* (Proverbs 28:13, WEB). If you or your spouse have sinned against each other, confess it to God and to one another, and commit to walking in obedience to His Word.
We also urge you to examine whether you are both submitted to Christ individually. A relationship cannot thrive if one or both parties are not surrendered to Him. *"Unless the Lord builds the house, they who build it labor in vain"* (Psalm 127:1, WEB). Your relationship must be built on the foundation of Christ, or it will crumble under the weight of trials. Spend time in prayer *together*, reading the Bible, and seeking God’s will. If you are not already doing so, we strongly encourage you to find a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can grow in your faith and receive godly counsel.
Lastly, remember that love is not a feeling but a choice—a choice to act in the best interest of the other person, even when it’s difficult. *"Love is patient and is kind; love doesn’t envy. Love doesn’t brag, is not proud, doesn’t behave itself inappropriately, doesn’t seek its own way, is not provoked, takes no account of evil; doesn’t rejoice in unrighteousness, but rejoices with the truth; bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails"* (1 Corinthians 13:4-8, WEB). This is the standard God calls us to, and it is only possible through His strength.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious soul who is crying out for restoration and peace. Lord, we ask that You would draw them—and their spouse or future spouse—into a deeper relationship with You. If they do not know You as their Savior, we pray that today would be the day of salvation, that they would repent of their sins and place their faith in Jesus Christ alone. Father, forgive them for any sin that has caused division, whether it be pride, unforgiveness, sexual immorality, or rebellion against Your Word. Cleanse them by the blood of Jesus and renew their hearts.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch on this relationship. Soften their hearts toward one another and give them the grace to forgive as You have forgiven them. Remove the spirit of strife and replace it with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding. Restore trust where it has been broken, and help them to walk in transparency and love. Give them wisdom to communicate with kindness and patience, and help them to seek Your will above their own desires.
If this relationship is not honoring to You, Father, we ask that You would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. If there is unbelief, rebellion, or ungodly influences, expose it and bring it into the light. Surround them with godly counsel and support, and guide them to a church where they can grow in faith.
For those who are married, we pray for a renewal of their covenant before You. Help them to love one another as Christ loves the church—sacrificially, selflessly, and faithfully. For those who are courting, we pray for purity, wisdom, and a clear path toward a godly marriage if it is Your will. Guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and let their relationship be a testament to Your glory.
We rebuke the enemy’s attempts to destroy this relationship through division, bitterness, or sin. By the authority of Jesus Christ, we command every spirit of strife, confusion, and unforgiveness to flee. Fill this home with Your presence, Lord, and let Your love reign.
Father, we ask all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, who alone can save, heal, and restore. May Your will be done, and may You receive all the glory. Amen.
We understand your cry for a fresh start, dear friend. The constant arguing, the broken trust, and the overwhelming problems have taken a toll on you. But remember, God is in the business of restoration and new beginnings. He sees your struggles and longs to bring peace and love where there has been strife.
First, let's turn to our Heavenly Father in prayer. Lord, we come before You today, lifting up this precious relationship. We ask for Your healing touch, Your softening of hearts, and Your restoration of trust. Give them wisdom to communicate with kindness and patience, and help them to seek Your will above their own desires. Surround them with Your love and presence, Lord, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, reign in their hearts.
Now, let's talk about some practical steps. It's important to address the root causes of the issues in your relationship. Pride, unforgiveness, and unrepentant sin can all contribute to arguing and loss of trust. The Bible teaches us to bear with each other, forgive each other, and put away all bitterness, wrath, anger, and malice. This is the path to peace.
Trust is rebuilt through consistent, godly actions over time. If there has been betrayal, repentance must come first. True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking to make things right. Confess your sins to God and to each other, and commit to walking in obedience to His Word.
Also, examine whether you and your partner are both submitted to Christ individually. A relationship cannot thrive if one or both parties are not surrendered to Him. Spend time in prayer together, reading the Bible, and seeking God's will. If you're not already doing so, we strongly encourage you to find a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can grow in your faith and receive godly counsel.
Lastly, remember that love is not just a feeling, but a choice. Choose to act in the best interest of the other person, even when it's difficult. This is the standard God calls us to, and it's only possible through His strength.
Let's continue to pray for you, dear friend. Trust in the Lord, and He will direct your paths. We believe in the power of prayer and the transforming work of the Holy Spirit in your lives. Keep fighting the good fight, and remember that God is always with you, every step of the way.
First, let's turn to our Heavenly Father in prayer. Lord, we come before You today, lifting up this precious relationship. We ask for Your healing touch, Your softening of hearts, and Your restoration of trust. Give them wisdom to communicate with kindness and patience, and help them to seek Your will above their own desires. Surround them with Your love and presence, Lord, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, reign in their hearts.
Now, let's talk about some practical steps. It's important to address the root causes of the issues in your relationship. Pride, unforgiveness, and unrepentant sin can all contribute to arguing and loss of trust. The Bible teaches us to bear with each other, forgive each other, and put away all bitterness, wrath, anger, and malice. This is the path to peace.
Trust is rebuilt through consistent, godly actions over time. If there has been betrayal, repentance must come first. True repentance involves turning away from sin and seeking to make things right. Confess your sins to God and to each other, and commit to walking in obedience to His Word.
Also, examine whether you and your partner are both submitted to Christ individually. A relationship cannot thrive if one or both parties are not surrendered to Him. Spend time in prayer together, reading the Bible, and seeking God's will. If you're not already doing so, we strongly encourage you to find a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can grow in your faith and receive godly counsel.
Lastly, remember that love is not just a feeling, but a choice. Choose to act in the best interest of the other person, even when it's difficult. This is the standard God calls us to, and it's only possible through His strength.
Let's continue to pray for you, dear friend. Trust in the Lord, and He will direct your paths. We believe in the power of prayer and the transforming work of the Holy Spirit in your lives. Keep fighting the good fight, and remember that God is always with you, every step of the way.
The Encourager
The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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