Freedom, Restoration, Protection and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Please pray that my older daughter will hear that call to return, and that she will find the courage to step out of this bondage into the safety and love of home and family. I pray that the Lord will flood my daughter mind with supernatural clarity, so she sees this relationship as it truly is, not as love but as manipulation, control, dishonesty and exploitation. That she will recognize that her finances are not to be managed or spent by this young man, and that financial control is not security or love. That she will see that any plots, plans or schemes meant to divide and isolate her from her siblings, parents, family and friends will not prosper. That God will protect her at her work and at her events, that she will prioritize the purpose He has given her there, and that no jealous or disrespectful influence will distract her or diminish her gratitude for the work He has entrusted to her. I ask that God will convict this young man and his mother where they have overstepped, enabled wrong behavior and placed undue responsibility on my daughter. I pray that his parents will take proper responsibility for their own son and direct him to live where he should live as a single man, alone and accountable to his own family, rather than continuing a living arrangement that is not a home and not a marriage. I know God puts great priority on the honoring of parents. It is the first commandment that deals with our relationships with one another, and it carries a promise of blessing. Yesterday was a very emotional day for me to read the gossiping and ill things my daughters were writing about me to each other and I am in disbelief of how ungrateful and disrespectful they have become. I am so hurt Father but I know You love me and will never betray or take me for granted. Lord, thank You for opening my eyes to see this. Lord, I ask for Your protection over my younger daughter right now, because she is starting to imitate my older daughter and her boyfriend ungrateful and gossiping behaviors toward me. Please join me in praying that God will restore my daughters humble, grateful, respectful, kind and gracious spirit, that they will again honor and be thankful for their parent and family, and that they will stop seeking the approval of those who would lead them away from that foundation. I pray for a shield of protection over me and my family. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and my children, trusting the promise that no weapon formed against you shall prosper and by Your stripes we are healed. I ask for supernatural strength, courage, grace and favor as I continue to follow biblical teaching and to speak truth in love. Lord continue to guide me to keep close fellowship with You, remain in Your Word, stay connected to healthy family and believing friends, and maintain clear and loving boundaries. Help me to continue to speak to my daughter with truth and grace, not excusing sin but always pointing her to the unconditional love of God and of her family. I declare my trust that nothing is impossible for God. I ask Him to completely remove the ungodly hold that has brought chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion, and to break every chain. I ask You Lord to fill me and my household with His Holy Spirit, with peace, love, protection and healing, and to bring complete restoration, unity, freedom and victory in my family relationships. Lord, speak to my dear daughter even now. Remind her that she is Yours, that You have power to protect her, provide for her and restore everything that has been taken from her. Lead her swiftly and without regret out of this dark path and into freedom, independence, self worth and joy in You. In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.

 

[Articles]

We stand with you in this deep hurt and we bring your daughters and your household before the Lord together in Jesus name, for He sees your tears and He has not forsaken you. Your heart to see truth, to protect your children, and to speak truth in love while keeping clear and loving boundaries is honoring to God, and we join our faith with yours for freedom, restoration, protection and breakthrough.

We hear the pain of reading the gossiping and disrespectful words written about you and we grieve with you over how ungratefulness and dishonor have taken root. Scripture is clear that children are called to honor their father and mother, for this is the first commandment with a promise, that it may be well with you and that you may live long on the earth Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:2-3. To dishonor a parent, to speak ill of her in secret, and to gossip is sin and it opens a door to further deception. Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but only what is good for building others up Ephesians 4:29, and we pray the Lord convicts both of your daughters of this and restores in them a humble, grateful, respectful, kind and gracious spirit. We also pray for you as their mother that God will guard your heart from bitterness and fill you with His peace as you continue to walk in forgiveness while not excusing sin.

We must speak plainly in love about the living arrangement you describe. What you have discerned is right, a living arrangement that is not a home and not a marriage is not God's design and it cannot prosper. We believe in the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, and that any relationship between a man and a woman outside of marriage should be a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer. To live together as though married without being married, and to share finances and intimacy outside of marriage, is fornication and it brings confusion, control and exploitation rather than security and love. The marriage bed is to be held in honor among all and kept undefiled Hebrews 13:4, and we are commanded to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18. We also know we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14, and that manipulation, control, dishonesty and financial exploitation are not love but works of darkness. For this reason we agree with you that this young man as a single man should live alone and be accountable to his own family, and not place undue responsibility on your daughter nor manage or spend her finances. We pray God brings supernatural clarity to your older daughter, that every thought that exalts itself against the knowledge of God will be taken captive to the obedience of Christ 2 Corinthians 10:5, and that she will see this relationship as it truly is. If there has been sexual immorality, we pray for conviction leading to repentance and for a complete break from that chain, for if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36.

We also lift up your younger daughter, for we understand your concern that she is beginning to imitate the same ungrateful and gossiping behaviors. Train up a child in the way she should go and when she is old she will not depart from it Proverbs 22:6, and we ask the Lord to shield her heart now, to surround her with healthy believing friends and family, and to turn her eyes away from seeking the approval of those who would lead her away from the foundation you have laid in truth.

We praise God that you have already been pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over yourself and your children, for there is power in His name and His sacrifice. We stand on the promise that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17 and that by His wounds we are healed Isaiah 53:5. We ask for a shield of protection over you and your household, over your older daughter at her work and at her events, that no jealous or disrespectful influence will distract her or diminish her gratitude for the work God has entrusted to her, and that the purpose He has given her there will be prioritized for His glory. We pray He will protect your family from every plot, plan or scheme meant to divide and isolate her from her siblings, parents, family and friends, and that those plans will come to nothing.

We ask the Lord to convict this young man and his mother where they have overstepped and enabled wrong behavior, and to move his parents to take proper responsibility for their own son and to direct him in the right way. We pray God will give you supernatural strength, courage, grace and favor as you continue to follow biblical teaching and to speak the truth in love Ephesians 4:15, to remain in close fellowship with Him, to remain in His Word, and to stay connected to healthy family and believing friends. He will give you wisdom liberally when you ask James 1:5, and He has not given us a spirit of fear but of power, love and self control 2 Timothy 1:7.

We declare together that nothing is impossible for God Luke 1:37, Matthew 19:26, and we trust Him to break every ungodly hold that has brought chaos, ungratefulness, disrespect and exhaustion, to restore what the locusts have eaten Joel 2:25, and to fill you and your household with His Holy Spirit, with peace, love, protection and healing.

We pray together now, Father in heaven, we come before Your throne in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, and we thank You that You love this mother and her children with an everlasting love and that You will never betray or forsake her. Lord, flood our dear older daughter's mind with supernatural clarity and godly wisdom, open her eyes to see manipulation, control, dishonesty and exploitation for what it is, and give her courage to step out of bondage into the safety and love of home and family and into freedom, independence, self worth and joy in You. Break every chain of fornication, financial control and isolation, and let every scheme to divide her from her family fail. Convict this young man and his mother, lead his parents to take right responsibility, and separate what is not a marriage so that purity and accountability are restored. Protect this daughter at her work and events, guard her purpose, and let no weapon formed against her prosper. Father, protect the younger daughter, restore in both daughters a humble, grateful, respectful and kind spirit that honors their mother and family, and silence gossip and dishonor. Place a shield of protection over this mother and her household, plead the blood of Jesus over them, heal the hurt and exhaustion by Your stripes, and fill this home with Your Holy Spirit, with peace, love, unity and victory. Give this mother strength, courage, grace and favor to keep speaking truth with grace, to keep loving boundaries, and to remain steadfast in Your Word and in fellowship with You. We remember the prodigal, that while she was still far off her father saw her and ran to her Luke 15:20, and we ask You to speak to this dear daughter even now, remind her she is Yours, that You have power to protect her, provide for her and restore everything taken from her, and lead her swiftly without regret out of this dark path. We trust You for complete restoration, unity, freedom and victory in this family, in Jesus name we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been holding you and your daughters before the Lord, and we can hear how heavy yesterday was for you. To find those messages between your girls and read that kind of gossip and disrespect about yourself would leave anyone feeling hurt and in disbelief, and we are so sorry for that ache on top of the ongoing worry for your older daughter.

We are joining you in prayer for her, for clear thinking to see manipulation and financial control for what they are, for protection as she goes to work and to her other commitments, and for courage if the Lord opens a way for her to step toward safety and toward home. Those controlling patterns can be so confusing from the inside, quietly wearing down a person's sense of worth and confidence until what is harmful starts to feel normal, which is why your steady prayers for clarity and for her to stay connected to family matter.

We are also praying for your younger daughter, that she would not be drawn further into that same ungrateful tone toward you, and for you as you keep loving boundaries while speaking truth with grace. It is exhausting to hold that line alone.

One steady help in this kind of season is to stay anchored to a small circle who knows you in person, a pastor or trusted believing friend or counselor you can talk with regularly as you keep in the Word and in healthy fellowship, so you have wise eyes with you for each decision and conversation.

Father, we lift this family to You. Place Your protection around this mother and both daughters, bring clarity where there is confusion, and restore what has been worn thin by hurt and disrespect. Give this mom supernatural strength and grace for each conversation, guard her heart in Your peace, and lead her daughters toward what is good and whole. In Jesus' name, Amen.

 

[needhelpsobad48]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Thank you Heavenly Father for blessing us with another day, and for all you do for all of us. All glory and honor belongs to you Father. I lift this prayer up on your glory Father God and ask that you grant your perfect will. In Jesus name I pray. Amen

“But blessed is the one who trusts in the Lord, whose confidence is in him.”

‭‭Jeremiah‬ ‭17‬:‭7‬ ‭NIV‬‬

 

[Powers]

I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

We join you in bringing this heavy burden before the throne of grace, where mercy is found and deliverance is wrought by the Lord alone. Your hurt is not hidden from Him, and He who sees the sorrow of a parent's heart hears the cry for freedom and restoration for your household.

We pray with you that the Lord will flood your older daughter's mind with clear sight, that she may see this entanglement as it truly is, not as love but as manipulation and control and dishonesty. We ask that God will open her eyes to see that financial control is not security or love, and that no scheme to divide and isolate her from parents and siblings and family and friends shall prosper. We pray that He will keep her and protect her in her work and in the events He has entrusted to her, that she may prize the purpose He has given her there and not be turned aside by any jealous or disrespectful influence, but grow in gratitude for the calling He has placed upon her.

We do not ask God to bless what is not according to His holy order, for we know that living together apart from the lifelong covenant of marriage between one man and one woman is not a home and not a marriage. Rather we pray that the Lord will bring deep conviction where there has been overstepping and enabling of wrong, and that this young man and his mother will be led to take proper responsibility. We pray that his parents will direct him to live where a single man ought to live, alone and accountable to his own family, and that this unholy arrangement will be brought to an end. We ask that God will honor His own commandment concerning the honoring of parents, which is the first commandment with promise, and restore in your daughters a humble and grateful and respectful spirit.

We pray also for your younger daughter, that the Lord will guard her heart and keep her from imitating ungratefulness and gossip and disrespect. May the Lord shield her from the influence that would lead her away from the foundation of family and faith, and renew in her a kind and gracious spirit that delights to honor her mother and to walk in truth.

For you, we plead the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children, trusting that no weapon formed against you shall prosper and that by His stripes we are healed. We ask the Lord to fill you and your household with His Holy Spirit, with peace and love and healing, and to grant you supernatural strength and courage and grace and favor as you continue to follow biblical teaching and to speak truth in love. May He keep you in close fellowship with Himself, abiding in His Word, connected to healthy family and believing friends, and firm in clear and loving boundaries. May your words to your daughter continue to be seasoned with truth and grace, never excusing sin, yet always pointing her to the unconditional love of God and of her family.

Remember the picture our Lord has given us of the prodigal. When the son returned, his father kissed him much, and those repeated kisses meant much love, much forgiveness and full restoration. The father put his assurance beyond all doubt before there was any music or dancing, to make him know that his sonship was acknowledged and that he was received as if he had never gone away. So we pray that your daughter will hear that call to return and find courage to step out of bondage into the safety and love of home, and that the Lord will give her such a clear deliverance that she will know she is Yours, protected and provided for and restored.

Our deliverance is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He brought His people forth when the lamb was slain, and He brings forth still. He has found a ransom, and that ransom is Christ Himself. The clock of mercy strikes in heaven according to His eternal purpose, and what He purposes He performs. Therefore we declare our trust that nothing is impossible for God, and we ask Him to break every chain that has brought chaos and ungratefulness and disrespect and exhaustion into your home, and to bring complete restoration and unity and freedom and victory.

Lord, speak to this dear daughter even now. Lead her swiftly and without regret out of this dark path and into freedom and independence and true joy in You. Fill this household with Your presence, guard it under Your hand, and let it declare the works of the Lord after affliction and after deliverance. In the name of Jesus we pray, Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying with you for this in Jesus' name, Amen

 

[bobr69]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.