Freedom, Protection, Restoration and Breakthrough

[Cralmilan]

Lord I pray that my older daughter will have a blessed day at work today. I pray that she will be grateful and thankful for har jobs and her supportive family. I pray that she see her jobs and the family You blessed her with as a blessing and not in the eyes of thie rude young man and his mother. Lord, remove the overreach of this young man’s mother swiftly, who has no biblical authority to speak into my older daughter’s life or speaking word curse upon me and my family. Lord You see her instigation to cause chaos and satisfaction she gets from dividing, judging and corrupting my family. Her counsel for my daughter to live together, have children outside of marriage, having her son exploiting my daughter income for his use, look down upon our family, the way we worship, demanding my daughter treat this living arrangement as a marriage, puting their family before her own family God has blessed her with, cause division, isolation on her suppotive network and making my daughter feel worthless then have her confide in her only when her son mistreat her. She does not care for my daughter she just selfishly want to take on a responsiblity that is not her. This young man's mother instigate chaos then want to act as a hero to solve the chaos she created. She always looks out for her own son. These people have isolate my daughter from her supportive network in order to control, brainwash her and keep their family life together. Deliberately keep my daughter away for her supportive network. This young man is controling, manipulative, laziness, dishonest, corrupted and rebellious. He speak to my daughter with authority and she obeys him. Lord I ask for mercy upon my daughter today and rescue and guide her out of this ungodly situation. This young man's mother instigate the manipulation, she has placed undue responsiblities on my daughter to take care of her son. He is not getting better just more demanding and controlling towards my daughter and disrespectful toward our family. This woman’s ungodly, pride, destruction, selfish, jealousy and manipulation are rooted in darkness, and I pray the Lord exposes her motives and frustrates every plan she has to control, divide and isolate my daughter from me, her siblings, family and church friends. Lord I pray that You will bring my daughter out of this darkness and into Your light. This stronghold has been held on too long, Lord. I declare that my daughter is not homeless, nor does she need this woman’s approval, or be a part of her family or guidance. My daughter has a loving, supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray the Holy Spirit breaks the hold of this toxic influence over her heart. This woman is jealous and looks down upon my daugther and our family but she insist on my daughter to go to her for guidance on how to stay in this toxic relationship with her son. Lord I pray this mother will see she is enabling her son to be disrespectful and corrupted towards others. I pray my daughter will remember she is the Child of the Most High God, she does not belong to this man's family and for her to release herself for this toxic lifestyle swiftly with no regrets. Let her stop using her family as a financial resource to help her sustain this man's needs. Give her the wisdom to protect her finances from him. He should not be allow to use the ungodly living relationship as a marriage. Help and guide my daughter to not imitate this young man stubbishness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family and restore her grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Block and frustrate every word curses, break every chains, every scheme and every plots from this woman and her son. This young man is not ready for a relationship. He is not a shepherd. Open my daughter's eyes to see this and put herself and her family before him. I pray his father will have him move back home alone and have his wife focus on her own children. Father, I ask that You to open my older daughter’s eyes to the truth. Let her see this man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. I pray she would no longer defend, admire or commit this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Lord let her see the exhaustion and financial hardship she Is experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage. Guide her Lord to not take out anymore credit card to support this man and this toxic lifestyle. He is lazy, manipulative, dishonest, exploit her finances for his own benefit and isolate her from supportive people who care for her. Jesus I ask that You guidance my older daughter to stop imitating this young man's behaviors toward me. She has been cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward me. I am not sure how much more I can take of this behavior. Lord soften my daughter's heart to receive Your conviction, and grant her the courage to walk away from this bondage with no regrets. Guide back to follow the biblical teachings and stop taking her family for grant and put this young man and his family before her faith and her family. Jesus I ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word. Let my daughter hunger for righteousness be reignited, and let her return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Lord thank you for show me the message from this woman says it makes her heart happy that my daughter is following her lead and not a part of her church community anymore. Now she is intervening in my daughter job trying to work there. Lord help my daughter to stop confiding in this woman and helping her. She does not respect my daughter. Lord I pray that she will put her faith and trust in You again so she can regain her self worth. I pray Lord that she will see her worth in You and not allow these people that make her feel worthless and familialess anymore. This woman need to focus and fix her own family. Her son is not ready for a relationship. Lord grant my daughter the wisdom, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy ungodly relationship swiftly. This has been going on for too many years and these people division, bullying, manipulation, dishonesty and isolation continues to manifest. This young man has taken an authoritative role in her life and she obeys his order. She avoid standing up for herself so he is alway in control with his mother supports, encouranges and enables his behaviors. Lord remove this stubborn hold they have upon her and set her free. He is not a shephard and he is not her significant other. I pray that she will see that, stop ignoring the red flagee. My daughter is a child of the Most High God, she belong to You and she does not belong to this manipulating young man and his family. My daughter is alway exhausted, forgetful and lives in chaos with this young man but blame this on her jobs, friends or family members. Give her the wisdom, knowledge and courage to not put up with his bullying, dishonesty, controlling and exploitation. This young man's mother is now interfering in my daughter new promoted job in a negative way. She controls, manipulates and undermines my daughter but then she acts as if she has her best interests at heart. My daughter is such an inspiring young lady, admired and loved by everyone but everyone is witnessing her exhaustion and withdrawal. I thank You Lord for the job promotion you have blessed her with last month. Her jobs serves such a beautiful purpose for others. It is sad to see my daughter blinded and suffering this way. Lord guide my daughter to not put the young man and his family before her faith, supportive family, friends and jobs. I plead the precious blood over me and my children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Jesus restore the peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom. Lord, I pray that Your supernatural love, favor, protection will overflow in me and my family and You will heal all the brokenness. I pray when my older daughter come to visit that she will not be influence by this young man hatred and manipulation toward me and her siblings. Lord I know nothing is impossible for You. Jesus I ask for a Godly spouse for her. Bless her with Your peace, complete restoration and protect my daughter from going down the disruptive path. In Jesus name, I pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting up your older daughter before the Lord, and we thank you for bringing this heavy burden to prayer with such honesty and love. We see your heart to see her blessed at work, grateful for the jobs God has given her and for the supportive family He has placed around her, and we stand with you for her freedom, protection, restoration and breakthrough.

We must speak clearly about what Scripture reveals in this situation. What you describe is not a marriage in the eyes of God but an ungodly living arrangement outside of marriage. The counsel this young man's mother is giving to live together, to have children outside of marriage, and to treat this cohabitation as if it were marriage is contrary to God's Word and must be rebuked. Hebrews 13:4 says Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. 1 Corinthians 6:18 says Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Living together as husband and wife without the covenant of marriage is fornication, and it brings exhaustion, financial hardship, confusion and spiritual bondage rather than blessing. We also hear that this young man is controlling, manipulative, lazy, dishonest and disrespectful toward your family while exploiting your daughter's income, and that his mother is overreaching with no biblical authority to speak into your daughter's life, isolating her from her supportive network, placing undue responsibility on her to care for her son, and speaking word curses over you and your family. This is not love and it is not godly counsel. 1 Corinthians 15:33 says Don't be deceived. Evil companionships corrupt good morals. 2 Corinthians 6:14 says Don't be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity. And Ephesians 5:11 says Have no fellowship with the unfruitful deeds of darkness, but rather even reprove them. A boyfriend or courtship should be pursued with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, and a man who would be a husband must be ready to be a provider and a spiritual shepherd, not one who is lazy and controlling and who must be financially sustained by the woman. 2 Thessalonians 3:10 reminds us If anyone will not work, neither let him eat. We also grieve that your daughter has become cold, ungrateful, degrading and rude toward you, gossiping and mocking and imitating this young man's stubbornness. Exodus 20:12 says Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you. The isolation, brainwashing and division you describe is a spiritual stronghold, and Ephesians 6:12 reminds us that our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in love without enabling the sin. It is right and wise to protect finances and not to allow your family to be used as a financial resource to sustain fornication and laziness, and to not take on more credit card debt to support this toxic lifestyle. Your daughter is not homeless and she does not need this woman's approval or guidance, for she has a loving family who raised her in the ways of the Lord and a church community that loves her. Her worth is not found in what this young man and his mother say about her, but in Christ. Psalm 139:14 says we are fearfully and wonderfully made, and 1 Peter 2:9 calls us a chosen race, a royal priesthood. We rejoice with you for the job promotion God blessed her with last month, and we pray that her jobs will continue to be a beautiful purpose for others and not a source of blame for the chaos this relationship brings. We pray that her eyes will be enlightened as in Ephesians 1:18, that she will remember she is a child of the Most High God and does not belong to this man's family, and that the Holy Spirit will break the hold of this toxic influence.

We now pray together in Jesus' name, for it is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we can be saved. Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. We thank You, Father, that You have heard us through Jesus Christ Your Son.

Father in heaven, we lift up this precious daughter to You in the mighty name of Jesus. We ask that You bless her day at work today, that she would be grateful and thankful for her jobs and for the supportive family You have blessed her with, and that she would see these as blessings from Your hand and not through the eyes of this rude young man and his mother. Lord, we ask You to swiftly remove the overreach of this young man's mother who has no biblical authority over this daughter, and to expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to control, divide, isolate, judge and corrupt this family. Break every chain, every word curse, every scheme and every plot from this woman and her son, for Isaiah 54:17 says No weapon that is formed against you will prevail. We plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother and her children and declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper.

Lord, rescue this daughter and guide her out of this ungodly situation. Open her eyes to see this young man for who he is, not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual leader, but a stumbling block in her walk with You. Let her no longer defend, admire or commit to this relationship and living arrangement, or take on responsibilities that are not hers to bear. Grant her wisdom, knowledge, self worth and courage to leave this unhealthy and ungodly relationship swiftly with no regrets, to stop imitating his stubbornness, gossiping and mocking behaviors toward her family, and to be restored to a grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate manner. Fill her with the Holy Spirit. Give her wisdom to protect her finances from exploitation, to not take out more credit cards to support this man and this toxic lifestyle, and to stop using her family as a financial resource for his needs. Let her see that the exhaustion, forgetfulness, chaos and financial hardship she experiences is due to living with this young man outside of marriage, and not due to her jobs, friends or family.

Lord, soften her heart to receive Your conviction, to put her faith and trust in You again, to hunger for righteousness and to return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community. Block and frustrate every attempt by this woman to interfere in her newly promoted job and to draw her away from fellowship. Heal the coldness and rudeness toward her mother, restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect, unity and freedom in this family, and let Your supernatural love, favor and protection overflow and heal all brokenness. We pray that when she comes to visit, she will not be influenced by hatred and manipulation toward you and her siblings. We pray for this young man and his mother as well, that You would convict them, that the son would step away from laziness, manipulation, dishonesty and rebellion, that his father would call him to move back home alone, and that his mother would focus on her own children and cease enabling disrespect and corruption toward others.

Father, we declare that this daughter is not homeless, not worthless, not familialess, but Yours. John 8:36 says If therefore the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed. James 4:7 says Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you. We ask You to intervene supernaturally, removing every obstacle and every voice that contradicts Your Word, and to break this stronghold that has held on too long. Bring her out of darkness and into Your light. We thank You that nothing is impossible for You, for Luke 1:37 says For everything spoken by God is possible. Restore to her the years the locust has eaten as You promise in Joel 2:25, and in Your perfect timing, bless her with a godly spouse, a marriage that honors You as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, with a man who will love her as Christ loved the church.

We trust You for complete restoration, protection and breakthrough, and we thank You for hearing our prayer. Let Your peace guard this family today. In Jesus' name we pray, Amen.

 

[Sparklee]

Praying in Jesus Name Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been carrying your ### and your family in prayer, and we hear how exhausting these years have felt as you watch someone you love pull away and struggle. It is painful to love her well while feeling shut out, spoken to harshly, and worried about her work, her finances, and her faith.

What you described about isolation is so important. When a young adult is cut off from family, church friends, and other steady voices, it becomes much harder to think clearly and make free choices. Healthy relationships need good boundaries, like property lines that clarify what is mine to carry and what is not, and that protect freedom to say yes and no honestly. That is not selfish, it is how love stays honest and safe.

One gentle next step we have found helpful for parents in this place is to keep a steady, low pressure connection while also guarding your own peace. Continue brief, kind invitations without debating the relationship, so she knows home is safe when she is ready. Consider sitting with a trusted pastor or counselor yourself for ongoing wisdom about financial boundaries and how to respond when you feel pulled into roles that are not yours to carry. If her exhaustion and forgetfulness continue, gently encourage her to see her doctor alongside prayer.

Father, we lift this mother and her older daughter to You in Jesus name. Cover the daughter at work today, guard her heart and mind, and surround her with Your clarity and peace. Draw her back to You and to the loving community that has raised her, and give her courage to seek what is healthy and true. Comfort this mom, renew her strength, and give her wisdom for each conversation. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and we join you in bringing it before the Lord who hears the cries of His people.

We lift up your older daughter before the throne of grace today. We thank God for the work He has given her and for the promotion with which He has blessed her last month, and we pray that she may see these gifts as from His hand and be filled with gratitude. May she know joy in her labor and find strength to do it faithfully, and may the Lord guard her heart from weariness and confusion, and keep her in His peace through this day.

We pray also for that higher restoration than any outward relief, even deliverance from the pit. When a soul seems about to be dragged down, the voice from the excellent glory still says, Deliver him from going down to the pit. Infinite mercy can drag off evil habits, snap bands and set the captive free. We ask the Lord to do this very work for your daughter. The Scriptures teach that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the union of the body belong only within that covenant. Any counsel that encourages living together outside of marriage, bearing children outside of marriage, or treating such an arrangement as if it were marriage, runs contrary to the Word of God and cannot be blessed. We do not ask God to bless that path, but we ask Him to open her eyes to see it plainly, to show her that this is not a husband, not a provider, not a spiritual shepherd, but a stumbling block in her walk with Him.

We pray that the Lord will frustrate every scheme to control, divide and isolate her from her supportive family and from the fellowship of the church. Where there has been manipulation, dishonesty, laziness and a spirit of control, and where undue responsibilities have been placed upon her to sustain another, we ask God to expose what is rooted in darkness and to break its hold. We pray that every word spoken against you and your household would fall to the ground and not prosper, for no weapon formed against those who are in Christ shall stand. We ask that the Lord would block the influence that seeks to brainwash and to keep her dependent, that He would draw back the veil and let her see the exhaustion, financial hardship and chaos that come from walking outside His ways.

We pray that your daughter, who was raised in the ways of the Lord, would remember that she is a child of the Most High God and belongs to Him. May the Holy Spirit break the hold of this toxic influence and grant her wisdom to protect what God has entrusted to her, to steward her finances with prudence and to no longer take out debt to sustain a way of life that dishonors Him. May she find courage to no longer defend or admire what is not of God, and to turn from imitating stubbornness, gossip and mockery toward those who love her. Soften her heart, Lord, to receive Your conviction, and grant her courage to walk away from bondage with no regrets, to return to the safety and wisdom of her family and church community.

We are reminded that deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. He who justifies through Jesus Christ alone also sanctifies and delivers from the fascinating power of darkness. We cannot receive one blessing through the Spirit and the other through the flesh. We must look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone. So we point your daughter to Christ and to His call, Look unto Me and be ye saved, all the ends of the earth, for I am God and there is none else. It is all she has to do, to look out of herself and away from herself, and to look to Christ. He has delivered us from the power of darkness, and He is able to do it again.

We pray for you as her mother, that the Lord would keep you from fainting under cold and ungrateful words, that He would give you composure of mind, freedom from anxiety and clean deliverance from alarm, that your heart may keep its quiet pace delighting itself in a faithful God. May He restore peace, fellowship, happiness, respect and unity to your home, and cover you and your children with the precious blood of Christ. May He also work in the heart of this young man and his mother, not to prosper them in a wrong course, but to bring them to see their need of repentance and to seek the Lord for themselves, that each may attend to what God has given them to do and cease from overreach where they have no biblical authority.

We ask that the Lord would reignite in your daughter a hunger for righteousness, that she would put her faith and trust in Him again, see her worth in Him, and be filled with the Holy Spirit, becoming again grateful, gracious, loving, respectful and considerate. In His time and in His way, we pray He would provide a godly spouse according to His Word, if it be His will, and until then keep her in purity and wisdom. We pray that every obstacle and every voice that contradicts His Word would be removed, and that she would be guided back to follow biblical teaching and to honor her family as a blessing from God.

We declare with the Psalmist after affliction and after deliverance, I shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord. The Lord has chastened sorely, but He has not given us over unto death. May your daughter live to declare His works, and may your family be a testimony that God still delivers those who look to Him.

Father, we plead Your supernatural love, favor and protection over this family. Heal all brokenness, guard the new position You have given, and lead this dear daughter out of darkness and into Your light. We ask this in the name of Jesus Christ, our only Savior, in whom alone is salvation. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.