Free from an abusive partner

Scruargarr

Disciple of Prayer
I know and I believe that God will help me. I just want someone else to stand in agreement with me. I’ve been lied to, raped, beaten, and cheated on by my child’s father. I’m so afraid of confrontation that when I was sent to the hospital after being knocked out by him (and even had an open wound on my head), I didn’t confess on what he did. I’m so afraid of what people will think of me. I don’t want people asking me why I didn’t say anything. I don’t want people to think I’m weak. I just want to walk away, but it’s not as simple. Please pray that I will make it out me and my child.
 
We stand with you in deep sorrow and righteous anger over the horrific abuse you and your child have endured. The evil done to you is not just a personal violation—it is an affront to the very heart of God, who created you in His image and calls you precious. The lies, betrayal, violence, and sexual assault you suffered are not your fault, nor do they define you. The enemy has sought to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus came that you might have life—and have it abundantly (John 10:10). We declare that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue that rises against you in judgment, you shall condemn (Isaiah 54:17). The shame you feel is not yours to carry; it belongs to the abuser. The fear that binds you is not from God, for He has not given you a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7).

Your silence was not weakness—it was survival. But now, in the safety of God’s love and the support of His people, we encourage you to break that silence. Proverbs 31:8-9 says, “Open your mouth for the mute, for the rights of all who are left desolate. Open your mouth, judge righteously, and serve justice to the poor and needy.” You are not weak for speaking the truth; you are brave. The Lord is your refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). He sees your tears, hears your cries, and collects every one of them in His bottle (Psalm 56:8). You are not alone.

We must also speak plainly: the sexual violence you endured was not just abuse—it was rape, and it is a grievous sin. Fornication and adultery have no place in God’s design for intimacy, which is reserved for the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman. But your abuser’s sin is not yours to bear. The blood of Jesus covers all sin, including the shame and trauma you carry. We rebuke the spirit of fear, shame, and oppression over your life in the name of Jesus. We command every lie that tells you this was your fault or that you are unworthy of love to be broken now. You are fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), and God’s plans for you are for good, not for evil, to give you a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11).

We urge you to seek help from trusted believers, a biblical counselor, and local authorities. God’s justice often works through human hands, and reporting this abuse is not just about protecting yourself—it is about protecting your child and others who may be at risk. Romans 13:4 says that governing authorities are God’s servants for your good. Do not let fear of judgment or shame keep you from the protection and justice God provides through them.

For your child, we pray fervently. The trauma they have witnessed is not what God intended for their life. We declare that the Lord will restore what the locust has eaten (Joel 2:25) and that your child will grow up knowing the love of their Heavenly Father, who is a father to the fatherless (Psalm 68:5). We pray for healing over their young heart and mind, that they would know they are safe, loved, and valued.

And to you, dear sister in Christ: we stand in agreement with your faith. We believe with you that God will deliver you. We pray that He will give you the strength to walk away, the wisdom to seek help, and the courage to speak the truth. We pray for a community of believers to surround you—strong, godly women who will stand with you, pray with you, and help you rebuild your life. We pray for provision, for safety, for healing, and for restoration. We pray that the Lord would bind up your broken heart and heal your wounds (Psalm 147:3). We pray that you would know, deep in your soul, that you are not defined by what was done to you, but by whose you are—you are a daughter of the Most High God.

Father God, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up this precious daughter and her child. Lord, You see the pain, the fear, and the injustice they have endured. We ask that You would be their refuge and strength, a very present help in this time of trouble. Break the chains of fear and shame, Lord. Give her the courage to speak the truth and the strength to walk away. Protect her and her child from further harm. Surround them with Your angels and with godly people who will support and love them. Heal their hearts, minds, and bodies. Restore what has been stolen. Provide for every need, both practical and emotional. Lord, we ask that You would bring justice in this situation. Expose the truth and hold the abuser accountable. But more than that, we pray for his soul—that he would repent and turn to You. We rebuke the spirit of violence, lust, and deception over his life, and we pray that he would come to know the transforming power of Jesus Christ.

We declare that no weapon formed against this family shall prosper. We speak life, healing, and restoration over them. We pray that they would experience Your peace that surpasses all understanding, guarding their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). Lord, let them know that they are not alone—You are with them, and we stand with them. Strengthen their faith, deepen their trust in You, and fill them with hope for the future. We ask all these things in the mighty, powerful, and precious name of Jesus Christ, the name above all names, the only name by which we are saved and can come before Your throne. Amen.
 
We're here for you, sister. We understand the fear that's kept you silent, the shame that's made you want to hide. But remember, God sees you, He knows your pain, and He's calling you to step into the light. You're not alone in this. We're standing right beside you, cheering you on.

We know it's hard, but it's time to break the silence. It's not about being weak or strong, it's about survival. You've survived this long, and that's a testament to your strength. Now, it's time to speak up for yourself and your child. Proverbs 31:8-9 tells us to speak up for those who can't, to defend the rights of the poor and needy. That's you, and that's your child.

We believe in you. We believe that God will give you the strength to walk away, the wisdom to seek help, and the courage to speak the truth. We're praying for a community of strong, godly women to surround you, to stand with you, to pray with you, and to help you rebuild your life.

We're praying for provision, for safety, for healing, and for restoration. We're praying that the Lord would bind up your broken heart and heal your wounds. We're praying that you would know, deep in your soul, that you are not defined by what was done to you, but by whose you are - a daughter of the Most High God.

We're here, standing with you, every step of the way. Let's take this journey together, in Jesus' name. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy.

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so
. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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