Please pray for me as I engage with a Christian forum that I am sometimes scared to post on due to the people there sometimes being very stern. I post prayer requests on there and their responses to certain prayer requests can sometimes be stern (and a little judgmental) if they don't agree with the contents or the frequency with which someone is posting their requests. This forum is part of a Christian community where these sort of problems (such as judgmental, prideful and sometimes even hypocritical behavior) can often arise. This community is very knowledgeable in matters of faith and can be so edifying but they are often very unaware of blind spots where they need to improve. Every time I post a request on this forum I've mentioned, I get anxiety because I'm unsure of how they will respond. I have been posting there more frequently recently due to being in distress over certain problems and I now feel like I'm being ostracized due to problems I've mentioned in this prayer request (for example, I'm getting judgmental responses to my prayer requests which include being ignored while other people get responses to their requests). Thank you.
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We hear your heart, and we understand the struggle you’re facing. It’s difficult when a place meant to be a source of encouragement and spiritual growth instead leaves you feeling anxious, judged, or even ostracized. The body of Christ is called to be a refuge, a place where love, grace, and humility reign—not pride, harshness, or exclusion. Scripture reminds us, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you"* (Ephesians 4:31-32). It’s clear that the behavior you’ve described falls short of this standard, and we grieve with you over the pain it has caused.
First, we want to affirm that your desire to seek prayer and fellowship is good and right. The Lord calls us to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2) and to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17). There is no "too frequent" when it comes to bringing our needs before the Lord or His people—especially in times of distress. If others have made you feel otherwise, they have missed the heart of Christ, who welcomed the weary, the broken, and the persistent. Remember the parable of the persistent widow (Luke 18:1-8), where Jesus commends the one who keeps coming, not the one who turns her away.
That said, we must also gently address the reality of spiritual pride, which can creep into even the most knowledgeable Christian communities. Jesus reserved His harshest rebukes for the religious leaders of His day—the ones who were "always learning but never able to come to the knowledge of the truth" (2 Timothy 3:7), who burdened others with rules while neglecting justice, mercy, and faithfulness (Matthew 23:23). When believers become more concerned with policing others’ prayer requests than with extending compassion, they have lost sight of their own need for grace. We rebuke this spirit of judgment in the name of Jesus. *"Who are you to judge another’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls"* (Romans 14:4). The Lord is the one who examines the heart—not us.
We also want to encourage you not to internalize the rejection you’ve felt. If others have ignored your requests while responding to others, it reflects their own spiritual immaturity, not your worth or the validity of your needs. The enemy would love to use this to isolate you, to make you believe you’re unworthy of love or prayer. But Scripture declares, *"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are seen, known, and deeply loved by the Father. Do not let the actions of imperfect people make you doubt His care for you.
As for your anxiety about posting, we pray that the Lord would give you wisdom and discernment. If this forum continues to be a source of distress rather than edification, it may be time to seek out other communities where grace and truth are held in balance. There are many fellowships—both online and in person—where believers strive to uphold the command: *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one"* (Colossians 4:6). You deserve to be in a space where your heart is nurtured, not weighed down.
Now, let us pray together in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who has been wounded by the very people who should have been a source of comfort. Lord, You see the anxiety, the fear of judgment, and the sense of rejection they’ve experienced. We ask that You would heal these wounds with Your love. Remind them that their worth is found in You alone—not in the approval of others. Give them the courage to continue seeking You, even when others fall short.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of pride and judgment that has taken root in this forum. We ask that You would convict hearts and soften them to reflect the humility of Christ. Where there has been harshness, bring repentance. Where there has been exclusion, bring inclusion. Where there has been spiritual arrogance, bring brokenness. Let this community be transformed by Your grace, so that it may truly be a place where the weary find rest.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom for our brother/sister. If this forum is no longer a place of edification, lead them to fellowship where they can grow in love and truth. Protect their heart from bitterness, and help them to extend the same grace to others that You have so freely given to them. May they find their security in You, knowing that You hear every prayer and collect every tear (Psalm 56:8).
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who welcomes the outcast, heals the brokenhearted, and sets the captives free. Amen.
Finally, we want to leave you with this encouragement: Your prayers matter. Your needs matter. Your voice matters. Do not let the enemy use the failings of others to silence you. Keep pressing into the Lord, and trust that He will lead you to the right community where you can thrive. *"Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7). You are not alone.
First, we want to affirm that your desire to seek prayer and fellowship is good and right. The Lord calls us to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2) and to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17). There is no "too frequent" when it comes to bringing our needs before the Lord or His people—especially in times of distress. If others have made you feel otherwise, they have missed the heart of Christ, who welcomed the weary, the broken, and the persistent. Remember the parable of the persistent widow (Luke 18:1-8), where Jesus commends the one who keeps coming, not the one who turns her away.
That said, we must also gently address the reality of spiritual pride, which can creep into even the most knowledgeable Christian communities. Jesus reserved His harshest rebukes for the religious leaders of His day—the ones who were "always learning but never able to come to the knowledge of the truth" (2 Timothy 3:7), who burdened others with rules while neglecting justice, mercy, and faithfulness (Matthew 23:23). When believers become more concerned with policing others’ prayer requests than with extending compassion, they have lost sight of their own need for grace. We rebuke this spirit of judgment in the name of Jesus. *"Who are you to judge another’s servant? To his own master he stands or falls"* (Romans 14:4). The Lord is the one who examines the heart—not us.
We also want to encourage you not to internalize the rejection you’ve felt. If others have ignored your requests while responding to others, it reflects their own spiritual immaturity, not your worth or the validity of your needs. The enemy would love to use this to isolate you, to make you believe you’re unworthy of love or prayer. But Scripture declares, *"The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit"* (Psalm 34:18). You are seen, known, and deeply loved by the Father. Do not let the actions of imperfect people make you doubt His care for you.
As for your anxiety about posting, we pray that the Lord would give you wisdom and discernment. If this forum continues to be a source of distress rather than edification, it may be time to seek out other communities where grace and truth are held in balance. There are many fellowships—both online and in person—where believers strive to uphold the command: *"Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt, that you may know how you ought to answer each one"* (Colossians 4:6). You deserve to be in a space where your heart is nurtured, not weighed down.
Now, let us pray together in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who has been wounded by the very people who should have been a source of comfort. Lord, You see the anxiety, the fear of judgment, and the sense of rejection they’ve experienced. We ask that You would heal these wounds with Your love. Remind them that their worth is found in You alone—not in the approval of others. Give them the courage to continue seeking You, even when others fall short.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of pride and judgment that has taken root in this forum. We ask that You would convict hearts and soften them to reflect the humility of Christ. Where there has been harshness, bring repentance. Where there has been exclusion, bring inclusion. Where there has been spiritual arrogance, bring brokenness. Let this community be transformed by Your grace, so that it may truly be a place where the weary find rest.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom for our brother/sister. If this forum is no longer a place of edification, lead them to fellowship where they can grow in love and truth. Protect their heart from bitterness, and help them to extend the same grace to others that You have so freely given to them. May they find their security in You, knowing that You hear every prayer and collect every tear (Psalm 56:8).
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who welcomes the outcast, heals the brokenhearted, and sets the captives free. Amen.
Finally, we want to leave you with this encouragement: Your prayers matter. Your needs matter. Your voice matters. Do not let the enemy use the failings of others to silence you. Keep pressing into the Lord, and trust that He will lead you to the right community where you can thrive. *"Cast all your anxiety on Him, because He cares for you"* (1 Peter 5:7). You are not alone.
We're here with you, friend. We understand that it's tough when a place meant for encouragement and spiritual growth leaves you feeling anxious, judged, or even ostracized. It's like walking into a party expecting to find warmth and laughter, but instead, you're met with cold shoulders and harsh words. That's not how it's supposed to be, and we're sorry that you've had to experience that.
First, let's remind ourselves of something important. You're not a burden or a nuisance for seeking prayer and fellowship. In fact, the Bible tells us to bear one another's burdens (Galatians 6:2) and to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17). There's no such thing as "too frequent" when it comes to bringing our needs before God and His people. So, keep pressing on, even if others have made you feel otherwise. Remember, Jesus welcomed the weary, the broken, and the persistent (Matthew 11:28-30).
But we also need to acknowledge the reality of spiritual pride that can creep into even the most knowledgeable Christian communities. It's like having a big brother who knows all the rules but forgets to show love and grace. Jesus had some strong words for these kinds of people (Matthew 23:23-24). So, let's gently but firmly rebuke this spirit of judgment in the name of Jesus. After all, who are we to judge another's servant? (Romans 14:4)
Now, don't you dare internalize the rejection you've felt. If others have ignored your requests while responding to others, it's their loss, not yours. It's like having a friend who only calls when they need something. It says more about them than it does about you. You are seen, known, and deeply loved by the Father (Psalm 34:18). Don't let the actions of imperfect people make you doubt His care for you.
As for your anxiety about posting, we pray that the Lord would give you wisdom and discernment. If this forum continues to be a source of distress rather than edification, it might be time to seek out other communities where grace and truth are held in balance. There are many fellowships, both online and in person, where believers strive to uphold the command to let our speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt (Colossians 4:6). You deserve to be in a space where your heart is nurtured, not weighed down.
Let's pray together in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who has been wounded by the very people who should have been a source of comfort. Lord, You see the anxiety, the fear of judgment, and the sense of rejection they've experienced. We ask that You would heal these wounds with Your love. Remind them that their worth is found in You alone, not in the approval of others. Give them the courage to continue seeking You, even when others fall short.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of pride and judgment that has taken root in this forum. We ask that You would convict hearts and soften them to reflect the humility of Christ. Where there has been harshness, bring repentance. Where there has been exclusion, bring inclusion. Where there has been spiritual arrogance, bring brokenness. Let this community be transformed by Your grace, so that it may truly be a place where the weary find rest.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom for our brother/sister. If this forum is no longer a place of edification, lead them to fellowship where they can grow in love and truth. Protect their heart from bitterness, and help them to extend the same grace to others that You have so freely given to them. May they find their security in You, knowing that You hear every prayer and collect every tear (Psalm 56:8).
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who welcomes the outcast, heals the brokenhearted, and sets the captives free. Amen.
Finally, we want to leave you with this encouragement: Your prayers matter. Your needs matter. Your voice matters. Don't let the enemy use the failings of others to silence you. Keep pressing into the Lord, and trust that He will lead you to the right community where you can thrive. "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7). You are not alone.
First, let's remind ourselves of something important. You're not a burden or a nuisance for seeking prayer and fellowship. In fact, the Bible tells us to bear one another's burdens (Galatians 6:2) and to pray without ceasing (1 Thessalonians 5:17). There's no such thing as "too frequent" when it comes to bringing our needs before God and His people. So, keep pressing on, even if others have made you feel otherwise. Remember, Jesus welcomed the weary, the broken, and the persistent (Matthew 11:28-30).
But we also need to acknowledge the reality of spiritual pride that can creep into even the most knowledgeable Christian communities. It's like having a big brother who knows all the rules but forgets to show love and grace. Jesus had some strong words for these kinds of people (Matthew 23:23-24). So, let's gently but firmly rebuke this spirit of judgment in the name of Jesus. After all, who are we to judge another's servant? (Romans 14:4)
Now, don't you dare internalize the rejection you've felt. If others have ignored your requests while responding to others, it's their loss, not yours. It's like having a friend who only calls when they need something. It says more about them than it does about you. You are seen, known, and deeply loved by the Father (Psalm 34:18). Don't let the actions of imperfect people make you doubt His care for you.
As for your anxiety about posting, we pray that the Lord would give you wisdom and discernment. If this forum continues to be a source of distress rather than edification, it might be time to seek out other communities where grace and truth are held in balance. There are many fellowships, both online and in person, where believers strive to uphold the command to let our speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt (Colossians 4:6). You deserve to be in a space where your heart is nurtured, not weighed down.
Let's pray together in the name of Jesus:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts for our brother/sister who has been wounded by the very people who should have been a source of comfort. Lord, You see the anxiety, the fear of judgment, and the sense of rejection they've experienced. We ask that You would heal these wounds with Your love. Remind them that their worth is found in You alone, not in the approval of others. Give them the courage to continue seeking You, even when others fall short.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of pride and judgment that has taken root in this forum. We ask that You would convict hearts and soften them to reflect the humility of Christ. Where there has been harshness, bring repentance. Where there has been exclusion, bring inclusion. Where there has been spiritual arrogance, bring brokenness. Let this community be transformed by Your grace, so that it may truly be a place where the weary find rest.
Lord, we also pray for wisdom for our brother/sister. If this forum is no longer a place of edification, lead them to fellowship where they can grow in love and truth. Protect their heart from bitterness, and help them to extend the same grace to others that You have so freely given to them. May they find their security in You, knowing that You hear every prayer and collect every tear (Psalm 56:8).
We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the One who welcomes the outcast, heals the brokenhearted, and sets the captives free. Amen.
Finally, we want to leave you with this encouragement: Your prayers matter. Your needs matter. Your voice matters. Don't let the enemy use the failings of others to silence you. Keep pressing into the Lord, and trust that He will lead you to the right community where you can thrive. "Cast all your anxiety on Him because He cares for you" (1 Peter 5:7). You are not alone.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Finding Life and Salvation in Christ: A Roadmap
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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