I went to an online forum the other day on a certain social media website seeking help for a medical problem I've been having (and I think I need to limit my interactions with this website because many of the people in there are very mean-spirited) and the responses that I got were so hateful. As I said, the people on this website are usually very mean-spirited but my interactions with this website had been positive recently so I was hoping someone would be understanding and I would actually get help for the problem I was posting about but I did not.
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We hear the deep hurt and disappointment in your words, and we want you to know that your pain is seen and valid. It’s heartbreaking when we reach out for help, only to be met with cruelty instead of compassion. The world can be a harsh place, especially in spaces where anonymity emboldens people to tear others down rather than lift them up. We’re so sorry you experienced that, and we want to remind you that you are not alone in this.
First, we must address the spiritual reality behind these interactions. The Bible warns us about the influence of the enemy, who comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). Mean-spiritedness, hatred, and cruelty are not of God—they are tools of the enemy to discourage, isolate, and wound. We rebuke in the name of Jesus every spirit of hatred, mockery, and division that was sent your way through those responses. We declare that those words have no power over you, and we break their hold on your heart and mind. You are a child of God, created in His image, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
We also want to encourage you to guard your heart and mind in these online spaces. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 4:23, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life." It’s wise to limit your interactions with places that consistently bring negativity, especially when they leave you feeling wounded or discouraged. You don’t need to subject yourself to that kind of treatment. Instead, seek out communities—whether online or in person—that reflect the love and kindness of Christ. There are people who will listen, pray for you, and offer godly wisdom without judgment.
As for your medical concern, we want to lift this up to the Lord in prayer. He is the Great Physician, and nothing is too hard for Him. We also encourage you to seek help from trusted medical professionals who can provide the care you need. God often works through the hands and minds of those He has called to the medical field. Don’t give up on finding answers, but do so in a way that protects your peace and your spirit.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts on behalf of our brother/sister who has been hurt by the cruelty of others. Lord, we ask that You would heal the wounds in their heart and mind caused by these hateful words. Wash over them with Your peace and remind them of Your unfailing love. We rebuke every spirit of discouragement, fear, and isolation that has tried to take root, and we declare that You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
Father, we lift up their medical concern to You. You know every detail of their body and every need they have. We ask that You would guide them to the right doctors, treatments, and solutions. Give them wisdom and discernment as they seek help, and surround them with people who will support and encourage them. Lord, we trust in Your healing power, whether it comes through medicine, a miracle, or both. Strengthen their faith and remind them that You are always with them.
We also pray for those who responded with cruelty. Lord, soften their hearts and open their eyes to the pain they cause. Let them see the error of their ways and turn to You for transformation. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the One who heals, restores, and saves. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to cling to God’s promises. The world will often disappoint, but He never will. Spend time in His Word, where you’ll find truth, comfort, and encouragement. Psalm 34:18-19 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." You are not forgotten, and you are deeply loved by the One who matters most. Keep your eyes on Him, and don’t let the cruelty of others define your worth or your future.
First, we must address the spiritual reality behind these interactions. The Bible warns us about the influence of the enemy, who comes to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10). Mean-spiritedness, hatred, and cruelty are not of God—they are tools of the enemy to discourage, isolate, and wound. We rebuke in the name of Jesus every spirit of hatred, mockery, and division that was sent your way through those responses. We declare that those words have no power over you, and we break their hold on your heart and mind. You are a child of God, created in His image, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17).
We also want to encourage you to guard your heart and mind in these online spaces. The Bible tells us in Proverbs 4:23, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it are the issues of life." It’s wise to limit your interactions with places that consistently bring negativity, especially when they leave you feeling wounded or discouraged. You don’t need to subject yourself to that kind of treatment. Instead, seek out communities—whether online or in person—that reflect the love and kindness of Christ. There are people who will listen, pray for you, and offer godly wisdom without judgment.
As for your medical concern, we want to lift this up to the Lord in prayer. He is the Great Physician, and nothing is too hard for Him. We also encourage you to seek help from trusted medical professionals who can provide the care you need. God often works through the hands and minds of those He has called to the medical field. Don’t give up on finding answers, but do so in a way that protects your peace and your spirit.
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts on behalf of our brother/sister who has been hurt by the cruelty of others. Lord, we ask that You would heal the wounds in their heart and mind caused by these hateful words. Wash over them with Your peace and remind them of Your unfailing love. We rebuke every spirit of discouragement, fear, and isolation that has tried to take root, and we declare that You are their refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1).
Father, we lift up their medical concern to You. You know every detail of their body and every need they have. We ask that You would guide them to the right doctors, treatments, and solutions. Give them wisdom and discernment as they seek help, and surround them with people who will support and encourage them. Lord, we trust in Your healing power, whether it comes through medicine, a miracle, or both. Strengthen their faith and remind them that You are always with them.
We also pray for those who responded with cruelty. Lord, soften their hearts and open their eyes to the pain they cause. Let them see the error of their ways and turn to You for transformation. We ask all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the One who heals, restores, and saves. Amen.
In the days ahead, we encourage you to cling to God’s promises. The world will often disappoint, but He never will. Spend time in His Word, where you’ll find truth, comfort, and encouragement. Psalm 34:18-19 says, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Many are the afflictions of the righteous, but Yahweh delivers him out of them all." You are not forgotten, and you are deeply loved by the One who matters most. Keep your eyes on Him, and don’t let the cruelty of others define your worth or your future.
We're really sorry to hear about your experience. It's never easy to reach out for help and be met with such harsh responses. We want you to know that you're not alone, and we're here for you. Let's pray together, shall we?
First, let's ask God to heal the hurt in your heart. Lord, we come to You with our ###'s pain. Please wrap them in Your love and comfort. Help them to feel Your presence and know that they are deeply valued and cherished by You. We ask that You would heal any wounds caused by these hateful words and replace them with Your peace and joy.
Next, let's lift up your medical concern to the Lord. Father, You know exactly what's going on with our ###'s body. Guide them to the right doctors, treatments, and solutions. Give them wisdom and discernment as they seek help, and surround them with supportive people. We trust in Your healing power, whether it comes through medicine, a miracle, or both. Strengthen their faith and remind them that You are always with them.
Lastly, we pray for those who responded cruelly. Lord, soften their hearts and open their eyes to the pain they cause. Help them to see the error of their ways and turn to You for transformation.
In the days ahead, remember to cling to God's promises. He's always there for you, even when the world lets you down. Spend time in His Word, where you'll find truth, comfort, and encouragement. You're not forgotten, and you're deeply loved by the One who matters most. Keep your eyes on Him, and don't let the cruelty of others define your worth or your future.
We're here for you, and we'll keep you in our prayers. If you ever need to talk or have any other prayer requests, just let us know. We're in this together.
First, let's ask God to heal the hurt in your heart. Lord, we come to You with our ###'s pain. Please wrap them in Your love and comfort. Help them to feel Your presence and know that they are deeply valued and cherished by You. We ask that You would heal any wounds caused by these hateful words and replace them with Your peace and joy.
Next, let's lift up your medical concern to the Lord. Father, You know exactly what's going on with our ###'s body. Guide them to the right doctors, treatments, and solutions. Give them wisdom and discernment as they seek help, and surround them with supportive people. We trust in Your healing power, whether it comes through medicine, a miracle, or both. Strengthen their faith and remind them that You are always with them.
Lastly, we pray for those who responded cruelly. Lord, soften their hearts and open their eyes to the pain they cause. Help them to see the error of their ways and turn to You for transformation.
In the days ahead, remember to cling to God's promises. He's always there for you, even when the world lets you down. Spend time in His Word, where you'll find truth, comfort, and encouragement. You're not forgotten, and you're deeply loved by the One who matters most. Keep your eyes on Him, and don't let the cruelty of others define your worth or your future.
We're here for you, and we'll keep you in our prayers. If you ever need to talk or have any other prayer requests, just let us know. We're in this together.
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