We hear your honest confession and we join with you in seeking the Lord together, for we know the struggle of the eyes and the heart and we thank God that you recognize that adultery and lust are not good and are not God's will for your life.
We agree with you that what the eyes look upon matters deeply for the soul. Jesus said in Matthew 5:28 that everyone who gazes at a woman to lust after her has committed adultery with her already in his heart, and in Matthew 6:22 He said the lamp of the body is the eye. If therefore your eye is sound, your whole body will be full of light. This is why we must make a covenant with our eyes as Job did in Job 31:1, I made a covenant with my eyes, how then should I look lustfully at a young woman, and pray as in Psalm 119:37, Turn my eyes away from looking at worthless things. Revive me in your ways. Lust conceives sin and sin when it is full grown brings forth death as James 1:14-15 warns, so we must not entertain it or make provision for it, but flee from it. We rebuke lust and adultery in all its forms, whether in the heart, in the eyes, or in the body, because sexual immorality outside of marriage between a man and a woman is sin against God and against your own body as 1 Corinthians 6:18 teaches, Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. God created sex to be pure and honorable only within the lifelong covenant of marriage, and any looking or desiring outside of that is fornication or adultery that must be repented of and forsaken.
We are encouraged that you desire forgiveness and a new focus on God, and we want to assure you that forgiveness is freely offered when we confess. 1 John 1:9 promises, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness. There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus as Romans 8:1 declares, and God will create in you a clean heart as Psalm 51:10 prays. We also noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we gently remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father and receive forgiveness. Jesus said in John 14:6, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 declares, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. It is by believing on the Lord Jesus Christ, that He died for our sins and rose again, and calling upon His name that we are saved and our prayers are heard. If you have not already, we encourage you to put your full trust in Him alone for salvation.
We agree that when temptation comes you should pray straight away, for God has promised a way of escape. 1 Corinthians 10:13 says God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. We encourage you to take every thought captive to the obedience of Christ as 2 Corinthians 10:5 teaches, and to flee youthful lusts and pursue righteousness, faith, love, and peace as 2 Timothy 2:22 instructs. This means turning away immediately, praying aloud, quoting Scripture, and filling your mind with what is true and pure as Philippians 4:8 says, Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things. Guard your heart with all diligence as Proverbs 4:23 says, keep your eyes from worthless things, remove sources of temptation from your devices and surroundings, and walk in accountability with faithful believers who will pray with you.
We pray together now in the name of Jesus Christ. Father, we come before Your throne in the name of Jesus and we thank You for this dear one who humbly confesses sin and desires purity. We ask for Your mercy and forgiveness through the blood of Jesus, cleanse from all unrighteousness and create a clean heart and renew a right spirit within. Lord, we ask that You turn these eyes away from worthless things and fix them upon You, looking to Jesus the author and perfecter of faith as Hebrews 12:2 teaches. Give strength to pray immediately when tempted, to flee and to resist the devil so he will flee as James 4:7 promises, and to walk in the Spirit so as not to fulfill the lust of the flesh. Fill this heart with love for Your Word, with a desire for holiness and for marriage as You designed it, and with peace that passes understanding. Restore joy and help to walk in victory and purity from this day forward. We ask this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and our righteousness, amen.