Please pray for me as I'm trying to forgive my enemies and be more forgiving in general. I'm just finding myself getting very frustrated as I feel like I have to deal with so many people with nefarious personalities constantly. I also still want justice for the great harms that have been done to me by my enemies and am praying that even as I forgive, God would still let justice be served and protect and defend me from them. Thank you.
Forgiveness
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We understand the deep struggle you are facing, and we commend you for seeking forgiveness in your heart, even as the pain and desire for justice still weigh heavily upon you. Forgiveness is not a feeling, but an act of obedience to Christ, who calls us to release the debt of those who have wronged us, just as He has forgiven us. Yet, this does not mean we ignore justice—God is a just God, and He sees the wrongs done to you. Let us turn to Scripture to guide us in this difficult journey.
The Lord Jesus teaches us in Matthew 6:14-15, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* Forgiveness is not optional for the believer; it is a command rooted in the grace we ourselves have received. Yet, we also see in Romans 12:19, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* You are not responsible for executing justice—God will handle that in His perfect timing and wisdom. Your role is to trust Him, release the bitterness, and walk in obedience, even when it feels impossible.
At the same time, your frustration is understandable. Living in a fallen world means encountering people with hardened hearts, deceitful motives, and harmful actions. But we are called to respond differently, as Ephesians 4:31-32 instructs: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* This does not mean you must trust those who have harmed you or place yourself in vulnerable positions. Wisdom and boundaries are biblical (Proverbs 22:3, *"The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty."*). You can forgive while still protecting yourself and seeking God’s justice.
Let us also remember that forgiveness is a process. It is not a one-time event but often a daily surrender to the Lord. You may find yourself needing to forgive the same person repeatedly as memories or new wounds surface—and that is okay. The key is to keep bringing those struggles to Jesus, who sympathizes with our weaknesses (Hebrews 4:15) and intercedes for us (Romans 8:34).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that the pain they carry is seen and held by You. Lord, You understand the depth of their hurt, the weight of injustice, and the frustration of dealing with those who seek harm. We ask that You would fill them with Your Holy Spirit, giving them the strength to forgive as You have forgiven them. Soften their heart where it has grown hard, and replace bitterness with Your peace. Help them to release the desire for vengeance into Your hands, trusting that You are just and will repay what is due in Your perfect timing.
Father, we also ask for Your protection over them. Shield them from further harm, and grant them wisdom to navigate relationships with discernment. Surround them with godly counsel and support, so they do not walk this path alone. When frustration rises, remind them of Your sovereignty and Your promise to never leave nor forsake them.
Lord, we pray that as they obey Your call to forgive, You would heal the wounds in their soul. Restore what has been broken, and let them experience the freedom that comes from walking in obedience to You. May they find their identity not in the wrongs done to them, but in the righteousness of Christ, who has overcome the world.
We rebuked any spirit of unforgiveness, bitterness, or resentment that may be clinging to their heart. In the name of Jesus, we command these strongholds to be broken, and we declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would bring justice where it is due. You are the righteous Judge, and we trust You to act on behalf of Your child. Let them see Your hand at work in their life, and let their story be a testimony of Your grace and faithfulness.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to meditate on the life of Joseph in Genesis 37-50. He suffered greatly at the hands of his brothers, yet he forgave them and trusted God’s plan. His words in Genesis 50:20 are a powerful reminder: *"As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to save many people alive, as is happening today."* God can turn even the deepest pain into something redemptive. Keep seeking Him, and do not grow weary in doing what is right. You are not alone in this—we are standing with you in prayer.
The Lord Jesus teaches us in Matthew 6:14-15, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* Forgiveness is not optional for the believer; it is a command rooted in the grace we ourselves have received. Yet, we also see in Romans 12:19, *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, 'Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.'"* You are not responsible for executing justice—God will handle that in His perfect timing and wisdom. Your role is to trust Him, release the bitterness, and walk in obedience, even when it feels impossible.
At the same time, your frustration is understandable. Living in a fallen world means encountering people with hardened hearts, deceitful motives, and harmful actions. But we are called to respond differently, as Ephesians 4:31-32 instructs: *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."* This does not mean you must trust those who have harmed you or place yourself in vulnerable positions. Wisdom and boundaries are biblical (Proverbs 22:3, *"The prudent see danger and take refuge, but the simple keep going and pay the penalty."*). You can forgive while still protecting yourself and seeking God’s justice.
Let us also remember that forgiveness is a process. It is not a one-time event but often a daily surrender to the Lord. You may find yourself needing to forgive the same person repeatedly as memories or new wounds surface—and that is okay. The key is to keep bringing those struggles to Jesus, who sympathizes with our weaknesses (Hebrews 4:15) and intercedes for us (Romans 8:34).
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we lift up our brother/sister to You, knowing that the pain they carry is seen and held by You. Lord, You understand the depth of their hurt, the weight of injustice, and the frustration of dealing with those who seek harm. We ask that You would fill them with Your Holy Spirit, giving them the strength to forgive as You have forgiven them. Soften their heart where it has grown hard, and replace bitterness with Your peace. Help them to release the desire for vengeance into Your hands, trusting that You are just and will repay what is due in Your perfect timing.
Father, we also ask for Your protection over them. Shield them from further harm, and grant them wisdom to navigate relationships with discernment. Surround them with godly counsel and support, so they do not walk this path alone. When frustration rises, remind them of Your sovereignty and Your promise to never leave nor forsake them.
Lord, we pray that as they obey Your call to forgive, You would heal the wounds in their soul. Restore what has been broken, and let them experience the freedom that comes from walking in obedience to You. May they find their identity not in the wrongs done to them, but in the righteousness of Christ, who has overcome the world.
We rebuked any spirit of unforgiveness, bitterness, or resentment that may be clinging to their heart. In the name of Jesus, we command these strongholds to be broken, and we declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard their heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7).
Finally, Father, we ask that You would bring justice where it is due. You are the righteous Judge, and we trust You to act on behalf of Your child. Let them see Your hand at work in their life, and let their story be a testimony of Your grace and faithfulness.
We pray all these things in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Lastly, we encourage you to meditate on the life of Joseph in Genesis 37-50. He suffered greatly at the hands of his brothers, yet he forgave them and trusted God’s plan. His words in Genesis 50:20 are a powerful reminder: *"As for you, you meant evil against me, but God meant it for good, to save many people alive, as is happening today."* God can turn even the deepest pain into something redemptive. Keep seeking Him, and do not grow weary in doing what is right. You are not alone in this—we are standing with you in prayer.
We're here with you, friend. We understand the heavy burden you're carrying, feeling frustrated and longing for justice while also being called to forgive. It's a tough spot to be in, but remember, Jesus said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). He's right there with you, ready to help you carry this load.
Let's hold onto the promise in 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Even when you feel weak and overwhelmed, God's strength is made perfect in you. Trust that He's got this, and He's working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).
We're praying that God will fill you with His peace, helping you to forgive as you've been forgiven. We ask that He'll give you wisdom to navigate these relationships, protect you from further harm, and heal the wounds in your soul. And we claim the promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is in the business of healing and restoration.
You're not alone in this. We're standing with you, praying for you, and believing with you for God's justice and your healing. Keep taking it one step at a time, one day at a time. You're doing great, and God is proud of your efforts to forgive and trust Him.
Let's hold onto the promise in 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Even when you feel weak and overwhelmed, God's strength is made perfect in you. Trust that He's got this, and He's working everything out for your good (Romans 8:28).
We're praying that God will fill you with His peace, helping you to forgive as you've been forgiven. We ask that He'll give you wisdom to navigate these relationships, protect you from further harm, and heal the wounds in your soul. And we claim the promise in Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." Trust that God is in the business of healing and restoration.
You're not alone in this. We're standing with you, praying for you, and believing with you for God's justice and your healing. Keep taking it one step at a time, one day at a time. You're doing great, and God is proud of your efforts to forgive and trust Him.
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Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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We want to thank you for allowing us the sacred privilege of lifting you up in prayer as you seek to walk in forgiveness while also longing for justice. The struggle to release bitterness while trusting God’s sovereignty over those who have wronged us is one of the deepest battles we face as believers—yet it is also where His grace shines brightest. We’ve been praying earnestly that the Lord would soften your heart toward your enemies while simultaneously guarding your spirit from the weight of unresolved anger. His Word promises that vengeance belongs to Him (Romans 12:19), and we trust He is working even now to bring both redemption and righteousness in ways we cannot yet see.
If the Lord has granted you peace or breakthrough in this area, we’d love to rejoice with you in a praise report—testimonies of His faithfulness strengthen us all. But if the burden still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to share your request again. We are here to stand with you in the long haul, interceding until God’s perfect will is accomplished in your life. May He continue to meet you in the tension between mercy and justice, reminding you that He is both your Defender and your Comfort. We’re praying for His protection to surround you like a shield and for His love to cast out every shadow of fear or resentment.
In Jesus’ name.
If the Lord has granted you peace or breakthrough in this area, we’d love to rejoice with you in a praise report—testimonies of His faithfulness strengthen us all. But if the burden still feels heavy, please don’t hesitate to share your request again. We are here to stand with you in the long haul, interceding until God’s perfect will is accomplished in your life. May He continue to meet you in the tension between mercy and justice, reminding you that He is both your Defender and your Comfort. We’re praying for His protection to surround you like a shield and for His love to cast out every shadow of fear or resentment.
In Jesus’ name.
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