Forgiveness And Moving On...

[Vrosales]

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 1yr. We have been living together since Feb. 14th. We do want to get married and have a family. I got divorced on March 26, 2005. I was always so faithful to my ex-husband and boyfriends when I was younger.

My boyfriend is a great stepfather to my two kids and a great spouse to me... Very loving and caring and thoughtful.

But I have cheated on him, a one-time thing. It meant nothing, just sex. Now I know how much I can lose, and how much I LOVE MY BOYFRIEND.... OH MY GOD!!! WHAT HAVE I DONE... PLEASE FORGIVE ME AND HELP ME FORGIVE MYSELF AND BE A BETTER GIRLFRIEND AND WIFE TO MY BOYFRIEND AND SOON TO BE MY HUSBAND.....

I'm so sorry and regret it. Please forgive me...... (No, he doesn't know about it, and if he would find out, it will kill him, and he will leave me)

I've made my own hell, and I find now peace...

 

[Anonymous]

For true forgiveness, you have to tell your boyfriend. I know you are scared and fear the worst, but the Bible says you must confess your sins… telling everyone online of your sin is not enough. Unfortunately, you must tell him.

I’ve never cheated but have been on the receiving end of it. Due to the pain and mistreatment of men, I too committed a great sin. When I was much younger, I was very bitter towards men. I told a man that I was pregnant when in fact I was not pregnant. I did this only to cause this man pain because I know he wasn’t ready to have any children. It was just out of pure meanness. I know I did a very terrible and immature thing and have regretted it every day. Anyway, this had a snowball effect, and a chain of events started to happen. First, I had to tell one lie to cover another lie. Then, my then-boyfriend’s ex-girlfriend (did you get that? basically seduced him and really became pregnant. She did this because she was jealous. Anyway, I had gotten myself in such a mess with all the lies and deception that I didn’t see any way out. The burden was so great that I finally confessed my sin to my Sunday school teacher who taught me that remorse and repentance was not enough. I had to confess my sin to the one that I sinned against. Oh, just great, that is the last thing I wanted to do. Anyway, I did confess my sin to my former boyfriend, and he forgave me. Now, does that mean your boyfriend will forgive you? I don’t know, and if you noticed, I’ve used the words “then-boyfriend” and “former boyfriend,” so things didn’t work out between us. Now, the story isn’t over yet. My lies produced a child under the wrong circumstances, which I regret. Oh, the child was loved, but still, it was wrong. Remember my old boyfriend wasn’t ready to be a father. Also, my lies trickled down and affected other friendships. I lost my best friend who could not forgive me because she never knew if I was telling the truth or not, so see, lies and deception doesn’t always affect just the one you’ve sinned against.

As I mentioned, I don’t know how things will turn out if you decide to tell your boyfriend the truth. God may surprise you, and your boyfriend may find a way to truly forgive you, and the both of you will have a very happy life together. I know my sister and brother-in-law have been married for 30 years. During their marriage, adultery was committed; however, they were able to overcome it. I’m happy to say my sister’s marriage is stronger now than in the past. The both of them truly love each other and have learned from their past.

As for me, if I had to do it all over again, I definitely wouldn’t have done such a stupid thing. However, God was with me to help me face my consequences, and I somehow made it through it all.

I’m not here to judge you. I’m just here to witness to you and tell you my testimony while lifting you up in prayer. God Bless…

 

[PrayingWithPower]

The Bible tells us if we confess our sins, He is faithful and just to forgive us and cleanse of all unrighteousness. The Bible also tells us to refrain from immoral behavior. God won't bless your marriage if you're living with ### before marriage, having sex with ### before marriage or being dishonest with ### in dating. God doesn't reward sin. If He did, He'd be no different than man, and we all know what kind of hope we'd have if He were a mere man.

Confessing here is a good first step, but you also need to tell your boyfriend. And, if you lose ###, that's a consequence of your actions. But, if you don't tell and you keep ###, you don't have a real relationship because ### thinks you're honest and trustworthy when you're not. Plus, with all the disease out there today, you're putting ### at risk. You also need to consider what's broken inside of you that's causing you to seek fulfillment outside of your relationship.

Also, this sin that you're living in will never be peaceful because it's contrary to God's will.

In Jesus' Name I pray that you are so convicted that you can't eat, sleep or drink until this sin is dealt with. I pray that you'll listen and receive God's word that tells us our blessings are blocked when we attempt to come before Christ with unconfessed sin. I pray that God's grace and mercy will surround you and give you the courage to be honest with this man. In Jesus' Name I pray that God remove anything from your life that is contrary to His will. In Jesus' Name. Amen

 

[J12345]

I pray that, regardless of the situation, you and your boyfriend find Jesus in it. He, your boyfriend and yourself are the only ones you should seek forgiveness from.

Please, Lord, I pray that you give this woman your forgiveness and the ability to forgive herself. I, also, pray that you take her sad, weakened spirit and make it happy. I pray that no matter her circumstances, she finds you in everything she does.

Thank you, Lord Jesus!

Amen.

 

[burres48]

I PRAY THAT THIS COUPLE WITH DEDICATED THEIR LIVES TO GOD IN SALVATION. I PRAY THAT THEY WOULD ATTEND CHURCH AND FOLLOW ALL THE COMMANDS AND DECREES OF GOD SO THAT THEY MIGHT BE BLESSED AND PROSPER AND FULFILLED THE CALLING OF THE LORD AND IN JESUS HOLY NAME AMEN.

 

[god_loves_all]

Dear Friend, I prayed to God for you.

May God bless you!

And you always be happy ....

 

[Betty Land]

Jesus remove this mountain and answer ### prayers for all her needs. Jesus we believe and know in due time everything will be all straightened out and we give You Jesus all the praise and glory and will not give up and know all these needs will be fulfilled. Thank You Jesus amen amen

Jesus remove this mountain and answer ### prayers for all her needs. Jesus we believe and know in due time everything will be all straightened out and we give You Jesus all the praise and glory and will not give up and know all these needs will be fulfilled. Thank You Jesus amen amen