merinjoseph
Disciple of Prayer
This is the second time, he is torchering me by calling my parents taking in drunken(My parents already doesn't like him.)Please pray for me & husband. I m writing in brief about my problem .I m Merin Joseph & my husband is Vinod Sharia ( Bino) . I m from a malankara Catholic & he is an Orthodox . My husband is a chronic drinker (from his 22nd age & now he is about to 40 by this October). He also smokes & Tobacco user. He was working in Saudi(Around 5- 6 yrs he worked ,in between this or before going he had been Baptized under the pentacost & I had a doubt that there in Saudi may Muslims people would have done something) during our marriage(2014 .Our marriage was an arranged (but it was done in an urgency, since he was not having leave).And the day 5th / 6th of our marriage he started drinking , and he came to home & shouted at his parents ,I became scared by seeing this.He felt his job with out informing me by 2015 November.We went to Mumbai for job ,I got job ,but he was searching the daily by spending ₹1000/- daily, he used to drink daily & come at night & used to beat me severely. He came to the hospital & shouted where I was attending the class and at last I called my father & came to my house along with all my languages. After that I came to know that he is taking tables to Stop this habits , so I ran away to him when my parents was not in the home.Then for some time life ok.But in between we went for checkup (for him the count was absent) .He discussed this with his drinker friend(Rajan who is professor & a pentacost), & he told that it may be due to the medicine that he takes & this he stopped taking medicine & started drinks again.After some months I joined in a hospital at Hyderabad that also through him(After back from Mumbai, by this time he started admission & staff nursing recruitments).But after 10 months he came there also with the same habit & he made me to get the stage of termination.Then also I didn't respond( This time he was having a black thread in his hip that had been prayed in some temple for "Shatru Samhara Pooja" this one he only told me). After that we staying in Hyderabad in a lodge (since nursing admission was going there) where he used to drink daily & beat me & in nights he used to call my parents from my number & talk them in bad languages. At last I left from there myself by taking all my languages & went to bangalore where I stayed (in a convent )during my studies & arrear exams.After 4/5days I came to Kerala & gave 1 police compliant & gave divorce case.I went to home to take my things with the police,but the almaragh was locked & they told key is with him in Hyderabad.(After some days they also gave a case against me that I went to their house with police like that something).
I was strong those days.I joined (25.10.17)for one job in Coimbatore (in between I went for the case), all my contacts were changed. No contacts with anybody expect my father ,mother & brother.But later my was changing(he used to message me through my old what's up & fb acvount, but I was not at all responding.I used to call one of friend whom he also knows from my colique from Hyderabad.Through she I came to know that he had changed, he is on god's way.At last I called him ,we became close.I believed him a lot.In between their side advocate spoke to me through phone & asked that , whether I m ready to leave together , I told yes, thus they withdrawn that case.He told me to give resign here ,since he is alone for the admission work,so I also gave resign 16th. Now he is in Kerala , along with that friend Rajan he is drinking from 15th. Now I went today & gave application orally to withdraw my resign & still it's is not confirmed.If I m believeing him means I don't know what will happen.But can't leave without him,that he also knows.So please I want my husband back as a god fearing man with good habits.
I was strong those days.I joined (25.10.17)for one job in Coimbatore (in between I went for the case), all my contacts were changed. No contacts with anybody expect my father ,mother & brother.But later my was changing(he used to message me through my old what's up & fb acvount, but I was not at all responding.I used to call one of friend whom he also knows from my colique from Hyderabad.Through she I came to know that he had changed, he is on god's way.At last I called him ,we became close.I believed him a lot.In between their side advocate spoke to me through phone & asked that , whether I m ready to leave together , I told yes, thus they withdrawn that case.He told me to give resign here ,since he is alone for the admission work,so I also gave resign 16th. Now he is in Kerala , along with that friend Rajan he is drinking from 15th. Now I went today & gave application orally to withdraw my resign & still it's is not confirmed.If I m believeing him means I don't know what will happen.But can't leave without him,that he also knows.So please I want my husband back as a god fearing man with good habits.
