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A guy, ###, I know [ gives me a ride to church because I cannot drive, too far to walk] seems he is being legalistic and has tendencies to speak of how exact each little thing a Christian does, including watching classic movies or sci-fi or keeping or buying little things that it becomes sin 'legalistically' and that the idea you must be doing a certain thing or on a mission and no time to relax when though how you live in your 'home' like when you are bored (so he thinks this must be carefully regulated so one minute is not spent on good relaxing like control of each moment / what this does is suggests God will punish you if you enjoy yourself at all. That we are to be worn out 'working' to the bone, but no breaking off and is insinuated / I do not understand why people see it this way??
They claim God is blessing them by throwing forward their own conceived 'rules' at others. This keeping of conceived rules appearing spiritual puts a dark cloud over others' lives if they swallow that person's said ideals of daily walking as a Christian. The guy talks this way in his car to himself and if to create his own following, but is popular with that church so appears he has authority to say how things will be. He said that the fellowship at the church when after service people stay and talk is only faulty socializing and needs to go, BUT biblically fellowship is vital today. As if he wants to change that church which if one hears that from him it can make one nervous.
I want protection from his traps of making one agree privately with him. I know the Bible well and can see he is off, but it is my only provided ride now in evening services. If it is well, pray I can use my knowledge of scripture I already have to confidently show him his errors.
They claim God is blessing them by throwing forward their own conceived 'rules' at others. This keeping of conceived rules appearing spiritual puts a dark cloud over others' lives if they swallow that person's said ideals of daily walking as a Christian. The guy talks this way in his car to himself and if to create his own following, but is popular with that church so appears he has authority to say how things will be. He said that the fellowship at the church when after service people stay and talk is only faulty socializing and needs to go, BUT biblically fellowship is vital today. As if he wants to change that church which if one hears that from him it can make one nervous.
I want protection from his traps of making one agree privately with him. I know the Bible well and can see he is off, but it is my only provided ride now in evening services. If it is well, pray I can use my knowledge of scripture I already have to confidently show him his errors.
