We join you in lifting up both of these precious lives before the Lord separately and together, asking that God would work powerfully in each one according to His perfect will.
We are encouraged by your desire to pray the prayer of Jabez over them, for it is a prayer of humble dependence on God and not a formula. We remember how 1 Chronicles 4:10 says Jabez called on the God of Israel, saying, Oh that you would bless me indeed, and enlarge my border, and that your hand might be with me, and that you would keep me from evil, that it not be to my sorrow! God granted him that which he requested. We ask that same blessing over each of them, that God would bless them indeed not for selfish gain but for His glory, that He would enlarge their influence and opportunities to serve Him, that His hand would be with them to lead and sustain them, and that He would keep them from evil and from sorrow.
For each of them we pray for safety and security, health and clarity of mind. We ask the Lord to be their refuge and fortress as Psalm 91:1 says He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. We pray Yahweh will keep them from all evil and keep their souls and keep their going out and their coming in from this time forward and forever more as promised in Psalm 121:7-8. We ask for health and wholeness, for 3 John 1:2 reminds us Beloved, I pray that you may prosper in all things and be healthy, even as your soul prospers, and we pray their bodies and souls would prosper together in Christ. For guidance in sorting out their thoughts we claim James 1:5 that if any lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach and it will be given to him, and Philippians 4:6-7 that in nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. We pray they would trust in Yahweh with all their heart and not lean on their own understanding and in all their ways acknowledge Him and He will make their paths straight according to Proverbs 3:5-6, and that fear would be replaced with confidence for Isaiah 41:10 says Don't you be afraid, for I am with you. Don't be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness.
We also want to gently encourage you about the foundation of all prayer. Your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we want to lovingly remind you that it is only through Jesus that we have access to the Father. Jesus said in John 14:6 I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 declares There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved. It is by believing in Jesus Christ, that He died for our sins and rose again, that we are saved and that our prayers are heard. We pray that each of these two individuals and you as well would know the assurance of salvation through faith in Him and would come boldly before the throne of grace in His name.
So together we pray, Father in heaven, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ our Lord. We lift up each of these two loved ones individually to You. Bless them indeed according to Your will, enlarge their borders for Your kingdom, let Your hand be upon each of them to guide, protect and provide, and keep them from evil and from the sorrow that sin brings. Surround them with Your safety and security, guard their health in body, mind and spirit, and grant them wisdom and peace as they sort out their thoughts. Quiet every anxious thought and replace it with Your peace that guards hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. Lead them in Your truth and make their paths straight, and draw each of them closer to Yourself through Jesus. We ask all this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ, amen.