FIND SOULMATE AND MARRIAGE
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We lift you up in prayer, our brother, as you seek a godly spouse and marriage that honors the Lord. The desire for companionship is a good and natural one, planted in our hearts by God Himself, who said in Genesis 2:18, *"It is not good for the man to be alone. I will make him a helper comparable to him."* Yet we must also remember that marriage is a sacred covenant before God, designed to reflect Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). Your longing for a spouse should be rooted in a desire to glorify God, not merely to fulfill personal longing.
First, we must address something important: the term *"soulmate"* is not found in Scripture. While it is often used in culture to describe a perfect or destined match, the Bible teaches that a godly marriage is built on mutual faith in Christ, commitment, and selfless love—not on romanticized notions of fate or emotional fulfillment. Proverbs 18:22 reminds us, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* A spouse is a blessing from the Lord, but we must seek Him first, trusting that He will provide in His perfect timing (Matthew 6:33).
We also encourage you to examine your heart: Are you actively preparing yourself to be a godly husband? Marriage is not just about finding the right person but about *being* the right person. Are you growing in your walk with Christ, serving in your church, and cultivating the fruits of the Spirit—love, patience, kindness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)? A godly marriage requires two people who are submitted to Christ, seeking to honor Him above all else.
If you are not already doing so, we urge you to seek a spouse *within the body of Christ*. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* A marriage between a believer and an unbeliever will face spiritual division and struggle. Your future wife should be a woman of faith who loves Jesus, submits to Scripture, and shares your commitment to biblical truth.
Additionally, we must ask: Are you pursuing this desire in a way that honors God? If you are engaging in dating relationships without the intent of marriage, or if there is any sexual immorality (including lust, pornography, or premarital relations), we urge you to repent and flee from sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage alone. If you have stumbled in this area, confess it to the Lord, turn away from it, and seek accountability with mature believers.
Finally, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no greater name by which we approach the Father, and there is no salvation apart from Him. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so now. Believe in Him, repent of your sins, and you will be saved (Acts 2:38, Romans 10:9). Only through Christ can we have confidence that our prayers are heard.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for a godly wife and marriage. Lord, we ask that You prepare his heart first—purify him, shape him, and mold him into the man You have called him to be. Remove any idols from his life, whether it be the desire for marriage above You, or any sin that would hinder Your best for him. Grant him patience to wait on Your timing, trusting that You are good and Your plans are perfect.
Father, if it is Your will, bring a godly woman into his life—a woman who loves You with all her heart, who is rooted in Your Word, and who will walk beside him in faith. Let their union be one that glorifies You, reflects Christ’s love for the Church, and bears fruit for Your kingdom. Protect him from distractions, from ungodly relationships, and from the lies of the enemy that would lead him astray. Give him wisdom to recognize Your leading and courage to walk in obedience, even if the wait is long.
If there are areas in his life that need repentance—whether in thought, word, or deed—convict him by Your Spirit and lead him to true transformation. May he seek You above all else, finding his fulfillment in Christ alone, so that if You call him to marriage, he enters it wholeheartedly for Your glory.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or despair that would tempt him to settle for less than Your best. Fill him with Your peace and joy as he trusts in You. Remind him that singleness is not a curse but an opportunity to serve You without distraction (1 Corinthians 7:32-35). Use this season to deepen his faith and prepare him for the future You have ordained.
In Jesus’ precious name, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer, immersed in Scripture, and active in a Bible-believing church. Surround yourself with godly mentors who can guide you in this season. If you have not already, consider fasting and seeking the Lord’s face with greater intensity. He hears you, He sees you, and He will lead you. Trust in Him with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). May the Lord bless you and keep you as you wait upon Him.
First, we must address something important: the term *"soulmate"* is not found in Scripture. While it is often used in culture to describe a perfect or destined match, the Bible teaches that a godly marriage is built on mutual faith in Christ, commitment, and selfless love—not on romanticized notions of fate or emotional fulfillment. Proverbs 18:22 reminds us, *"Whoever finds a wife finds a good thing, and obtains favor of Yahweh."* A spouse is a blessing from the Lord, but we must seek Him first, trusting that He will provide in His perfect timing (Matthew 6:33).
We also encourage you to examine your heart: Are you actively preparing yourself to be a godly husband? Marriage is not just about finding the right person but about *being* the right person. Are you growing in your walk with Christ, serving in your church, and cultivating the fruits of the Spirit—love, patience, kindness, and self-control (Galatians 5:22-23)? A godly marriage requires two people who are submitted to Christ, seeking to honor Him above all else.
If you are not already doing so, we urge you to seek a spouse *within the body of Christ*. 2 Corinthians 6:14 warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* A marriage between a believer and an unbeliever will face spiritual division and struggle. Your future wife should be a woman of faith who loves Jesus, submits to Scripture, and shares your commitment to biblical truth.
Additionally, we must ask: Are you pursuing this desire in a way that honors God? If you are engaging in dating relationships without the intent of marriage, or if there is any sexual immorality (including lust, pornography, or premarital relations), we urge you to repent and flee from sin (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). God’s design for intimacy is within the covenant of marriage alone. If you have stumbled in this area, confess it to the Lord, turn away from it, and seek accountability with mature believers.
Finally, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus. There is no greater name by which we approach the Father, and there is no salvation apart from Him. Jesus said in John 14:6, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."* If you have not yet surrendered your life to Christ as Lord and Savior, we implore you to do so now. Believe in Him, repent of your sins, and you will be saved (Acts 2:38, Romans 10:9). Only through Christ can we have confidence that our prayers are heard.
Now, let us pray for you:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our brother who longs for a godly wife and marriage. Lord, we ask that You prepare his heart first—purify him, shape him, and mold him into the man You have called him to be. Remove any idols from his life, whether it be the desire for marriage above You, or any sin that would hinder Your best for him. Grant him patience to wait on Your timing, trusting that You are good and Your plans are perfect.
Father, if it is Your will, bring a godly woman into his life—a woman who loves You with all her heart, who is rooted in Your Word, and who will walk beside him in faith. Let their union be one that glorifies You, reflects Christ’s love for the Church, and bears fruit for Your kingdom. Protect him from distractions, from ungodly relationships, and from the lies of the enemy that would lead him astray. Give him wisdom to recognize Your leading and courage to walk in obedience, even if the wait is long.
If there are areas in his life that need repentance—whether in thought, word, or deed—convict him by Your Spirit and lead him to true transformation. May he seek You above all else, finding his fulfillment in Christ alone, so that if You call him to marriage, he enters it wholeheartedly for Your glory.
We rebuke any spirit of loneliness, impatience, or despair that would tempt him to settle for less than Your best. Fill him with Your peace and joy as he trusts in You. Remind him that singleness is not a curse but an opportunity to serve You without distraction (1 Corinthians 7:32-35). Use this season to deepen his faith and prepare him for the future You have ordained.
In Jesus’ precious name, we pray. Amen.
Brother, we encourage you to remain steadfast in prayer, immersed in Scripture, and active in a Bible-believing church. Surround yourself with godly mentors who can guide you in this season. If you have not already, consider fasting and seeking the Lord’s face with greater intensity. He hears you, He sees you, and He will lead you. Trust in Him with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6). May the Lord bless you and keep you as you wait upon Him.
We're here with you, brother, as you long for a godly spouse and marriage. We understand that the desire for companionship is a natural one, but it's also an opportunity for us to seek God's will above our own. Let's remember that God has a plan for your life, and it's one that will ultimately bring Him glory.
We join you in praying for a soulmate, but let's reframe that a bit. Instead of a soulmate, let's ask God for a partner who will help us grow in our faith and reflect Christ's love for the Church. Let's pray for a spouse who will walk beside us in faith, who loves Jesus with all their heart, and who is rooted in God's Word.
While we wait, let's prepare ourselves to be the best version of ourselves. Are we growing in our walk with Christ? Are we serving in our church? Are we cultivating the fruits of the Spirit? Remember, marriage isn't just about finding the right person; it's about being the right person.
Let's also ensure we're seeking this desire in a way that honors God. If there are any areas in our lives that don't align with His standards, let's confess them, turn away from them, and seek accountability with mature believers.
Brother, let's trust in God's perfect timing. Let's be patient, trust that He sees us, and that He has a plan for our lives. Let's not settle for less than His best. Let's use this season to deepen our faith and prepare for the future He has ordained for us.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Let's keep praying, keep seeking, and keep trusting. God is with us every step of the way.
We join you in praying for a soulmate, but let's reframe that a bit. Instead of a soulmate, let's ask God for a partner who will help us grow in our faith and reflect Christ's love for the Church. Let's pray for a spouse who will walk beside us in faith, who loves Jesus with all their heart, and who is rooted in God's Word.
While we wait, let's prepare ourselves to be the best version of ourselves. Are we growing in our walk with Christ? Are we serving in our church? Are we cultivating the fruits of the Spirit? Remember, marriage isn't just about finding the right person; it's about being the right person.
Let's also ensure we're seeking this desire in a way that honors God. If there are any areas in our lives that don't align with His standards, let's confess them, turn away from them, and seek accountability with mature believers.
Brother, let's trust in God's perfect timing. Let's be patient, trust that He sees us, and that He has a plan for our lives. Let's not settle for less than His best. Let's use this season to deepen our faith and prepare for the future He has ordained for us.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Let's keep praying, keep seeking, and keep trusting. God is with us every step of the way.
EnricoLange
Beloved of All
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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