We lift you up before the Lord, dear sister, and we thank Him for your heart of trust in His timing and provision. You have many burdens on your shoulders, yet you still seek His will, and that is a beautiful testimony of faith. Let us first address the most important matter—your relationship with Christ. We notice you did not mention the name of Jesus in your request, and we want to gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. Jesus Himself said, *"I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me"* (John 14:6, WEB). If you have not yet surrendered your life fully to Him, we urge you to do so, for there is no greater foundation for your prayers, your marriage, or your future than a personal relationship with Jesus Christ. He is the One who saves, heals, and restores, and without Him, we can do nothing (John 15:5).
Now, let us turn to the matters you’ve brought before us. You long for marriage, and that is a godly desire. Scripture tells us, *"It isn’t good for man to be alone"* (Genesis 2:18, WEB), and marriage is a sacred covenant designed by God to reflect Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). However, we must also caution you to seek a *godly* husband—a man who loves the Lord with all his heart, who will lead you and your family in righteousness, and who will cherish you as Christ cherishes the Church. Too often, believers enter into marriages without first seeking God’s will, only to find themselves "alone" even within the marriage, as you described. This happens when we rely on our own understanding rather than waiting on the Lord. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). We encourage you to pray not just for *a* husband, but for the *right* husband—the one God has prepared for you, if it is His will. And while you wait, use this season to draw closer to the Lord, to heal from past wounds, and to grow in your faith. A godly marriage begins with two whole individuals submitted to Christ.
As for your son, we understand your concern, and we join you in praying for his direction. It is time for him to step into the responsibilities and purpose God has for him, but remember, you cannot force his path—only the Lord can guide his steps. *"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it"* (Proverbs 22:6, WEB). You have done your part as a mother; now, trust God to work in his heart. Pray that your son seeks the Lord above all else, that he finds his identity in Christ, and that he walks in wisdom and obedience. If he is struggling with laziness or fear, pray that the Lord convicts him and gives him the courage to move forward. *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control"* (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB).
Your upcoming dental procedure is also a concern, and we ask the Lord to grant you peace and healing. Medical procedures can be stressful, but we serve a God who is our Healer. *"Yahweh, my God, I cried to you, and you have healed me"* (Psalm 30:2, WEB). We pray that the Lord’s hand would be upon the doctors, that there would be no complications, and that your recovery would be swift and complete. If fear or anxiety tries to creep in, remember: *"Don’t be afraid, for I am with you. Don’t be dismayed, for I am your God. I will strengthen you. Yes, I will help you. Yes, I will uphold you with the right hand of my righteousness"* (Isaiah 41:10, WEB).
The situation with your house and the trial is deeply troubling. It is clear you are dealing with ungodly people who seek to take advantage of you, and we rebuked this spirit of deceit and greed in the name of Jesus. *"Yahweh examines the righteous, but the wicked and him who loves violence his soul hates"* (Psalm 11:5, WEB). We pray that the Lord exposes every lie, every corrupt intention, and every hidden agenda of those who seek to harm you. May their "true colors" be revealed not just to you, but to the court, so that justice prevails. We also pray for your attorney—that the Lord would give them wisdom, discernment, and favor in the courtroom. This battle is not yours alone; it is the Lord’s. *"Don’t be afraid of them, for I am with you to deliver you," says Yahweh* (Jeremiah 1:8, WEB). Trust that God is your Defender and your Provider. Even if the financial burden feels overwhelming, remember: *"My God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:19, WEB). He is not unaware of your struggles, and He will make a way.
Now, let us pray together over these matters:
*"Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up our sister who seeks Your will in every area of her life. Lord, we thank You that she desires marriage, and we ask that You prepare her heart for the godly husband You have for her—if it is Your will. Help her to wait patiently, to seek You above all else, and to trust that Your timing is perfect. Remove any fear or past hurts that may hinder her from fully embracing the marriage You have designed for her. May she find her completeness in You first, so that when You bring her spouse, it will be a union built on Christ.
Father, we pray for her son. Stir his heart to seek You above all else. Give him direction, wisdom, and the courage to step into the purpose You have for him. If he has been idle or fearful, convict him and lead him to repentance. Open doors for him that no man can shut, and may he walk in Your favor.
Lord, we ask for Your healing touch upon her body as she prepares for this dental procedure. Be with the doctors, guide their hands, and let there be no complications. Grant her peace that surpasses all understanding, and may she feel Your presence with her every step of the way.
Father, we come against the schemes of the enemy in this legal battle. Expose every lie, every corrupt motive, and every hidden agenda. Let the truth prevail, and may those who seek to harm her be put to shame. Give her attorney wisdom and favor, and let justice be served. We declare that no weapon formed against her shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Provide for her financially, Lord, and let her see Your hand moving mightily in this situation.
Finally, Father, we ask that You strengthen her faith. Remind her that she is not alone—that You are her Provider, her Healer, her Defender, and her Father. May she find her rest in You, knowing that You are working all things together for her good (Romans 8:28).
We pray all these things in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen."*