Financial security is an illusion. No matter how much you have you will always "need/want" a little bit more, for "financial security". You have made it this far in your life so you must be financially secure, except in your mind. God wants yo to see yourself as He sees you, financially secure,now.
Read Psalm 123. The Lord is my shepherd, I shall not want. He makes me to lie down in green pastures,He leads me beside the still waters. He restores my soul. He leads me in paths of righteousness for His names sake. Yea, though I walk through the valley of death I will fear no evil. For you are with me, your rod and staff they comfort me. You set before me a table in the midst of my enemies. You anoint my head with oil. My cup runneth over. Surely goodness and mercy shall follow me all the days of the rest of my life. And I will dwell in the house of the Lord forever.
Read it again and again, commit it to memory. Read it like it it applies to your situation, "NOW". The future is not yours to see, or care about, or fret about, or worry about, or be anxious about. We are supposed to live in the "now" part of our lives, not the future, not the past.
Intimidation is a weapon of the demonic realm. You cannot be "made" to feel guilty. A person "decides" to feel guilty, or intimidated. The other person may be jealous and envious of what you have. Love them, and decide what that love would look like.
In the name of Jesus, I bless you with the life, blessings, and courage of God.