Please pray that my family's finances will improve especially as we start making friends at church and getting invited places. I fear us struggling to maintain friendships if we can't go out to certain things we are invited to and I have this fear I think mainly due to an experience I had in high school where someone who bullied me (and also bullied me in adulthood and is continuing to bully me now) used the fact that they had more money and resources than me and a nice house to have parties in (which my family home was in bad repair and had many problems so no one could even come in my house) to isolate me from my friends and take my friends from me. I also didn't have freedom like other people to go out all the time as my mom was strict.
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We understand the deep concerns you’ve shared about your family’s finances and the fear of being left out or judged because of past wounds. It’s clear that old pains from high school—where materialism and bullying were used to isolate you—are still affecting your heart today. But we want to remind you that your worth and your family’s worth are not found in wealth, social status, or the ability to keep up with others. Your identity is in Christ, who sees your heart and knows your struggles. He is your Provider, your Defender, and your Peace.
The fear of man—and the fear of rejection—can be a snare, but Scripture tells us in Proverbs 29:25, *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe."* Your security is not in what others think or in how much you can spend, but in the Lord, who owns everything and delights in caring for His children. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 6:31-33, *"Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."* Your focus must remain on Him, not on the temporary approval of people or the fear of missing out.
As for the bullying you’ve endured—even into adulthood—we grieve with you over the cruelty you’ve faced. But we also declare over you the truth of Romans 12:19: *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* The Lord sees the injustice, and He will vindicate you in His perfect timing. Your responsibility is to forgive (not because the person deserves it, but because Christ has forgiven you) and to trust God to handle what is beyond your control. Holding onto bitterness will only harm *you*—not the one who hurt you. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*
Now, regarding your finances: we pray that the Lord will provide for your family’s needs *and* give you wisdom to steward what you have. It’s important to remember that godly friendships are not built on material things or outings, but on love, faithfulness, and shared faith in Christ. If you are unable to accept every invitation, trust that the Lord will bring the *right* friendships into your life—ones that are not conditional on your financial situation. True brothers and sisters in Christ will not judge you for what you lack; they will walk with you in humility and grace. Proverbs 14:20-21 says, *"The poor person is shunned even by his own neighbor, but the rich person has many friends. He who despises his neighbor sins, but blessed is he who has pity on the poor."* If someone rejects you because of your finances, they are not the kind of friend you need. The Lord will surround you with those who reflect His heart.
We also encourage you to be open with trusted believers in your church about your struggles. You may find that others have faced similar challenges and can offer support, prayer, or even practical help. There is no shame in needing assistance—Scripture tells us in Galatians 6:2, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."* But be cautious not to compare your journey to others’. Contentment is a gift from God, and He may be using this season to teach you to rely on Him more deeply.
Lastly, we must address the root of your fear: the enemy wants to use your past to keep you in bondage to anxiety and insecurity. But 2 Timothy 1:7 declares, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* You have the authority in Christ to reject those lies and walk in freedom. When fear rises, speak Scripture over yourself. When old wounds ache, remind yourself that you are *chosen*, *valued*, and *loved* by the King of kings—no matter what anyone else says or does.
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**Let us pray:**
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious brother/sister to You, asking that You would meet every need in their family according to Your riches in glory. Lord, You own the cattle on a thousand hills, and You are not unaware of their struggles. We ask that You would open doors of provision—whether through unexpected income, wise stewardship, or the generosity of Your people. Give them creativity to manage what they have and discernment to know when to say yes or no to invitations without fear or shame.
Father, we also pray for deep healing over the wounds of bullying and rejection. You see the pain caused by those who used wealth as a weapon to isolate and humiliate. We ask that You would break the power of those memories and replace them with Your truth: that their worth is found in Christ alone. Remove the fear of man and fill them with a holy confidence that comes from knowing they are Your beloved child.
We rebuke the spirit of comparison and the lie that they must "keep up" to be accepted. Surround them with godly friendships that are built on love, not material things. If there are relationships in their life that are conditional or unhealthy, give them the courage to step back and trust You for better ones.
Lord, we also pray for their heart toward the one who bullied them. Soften any hardness, release any bitterness, and help them to forgive as You have forgiven them. Protect them from further harm and let Your justice prevail in Your perfect timing.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Let them rest in the knowledge that You are their Provider, their Defender, and their Friend. May they seek first Your Kingdom, trusting that all else will be added unto them. We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
The fear of man—and the fear of rejection—can be a snare, but Scripture tells us in Proverbs 29:25, *"The fear of man proves to be a snare, but whoever puts his trust in Yahweh is kept safe."* Your security is not in what others think or in how much you can spend, but in the Lord, who owns everything and delights in caring for His children. Jesus Himself said in Matthew 6:31-33, *"Therefore don’t be anxious, saying, ‘What will we eat?’ ‘What will we drink?’ or, ‘With what will we be clothed?’ For the Gentiles seek after all these things; for your heavenly Father knows that you need all these things. But seek first God’s Kingdom and his righteousness; and all these things will be given to you as well."* Your focus must remain on Him, not on the temporary approval of people or the fear of missing out.
As for the bullying you’ve endured—even into adulthood—we grieve with you over the cruelty you’ve faced. But we also declare over you the truth of Romans 12:19: *"Don’t seek revenge yourselves, beloved, but give place to God’s wrath. For it is written, ‘Vengeance belongs to me; I will repay, says the Lord.’"* The Lord sees the injustice, and He will vindicate you in His perfect timing. Your responsibility is to forgive (not because the person deserves it, but because Christ has forgiven you) and to trust God to handle what is beyond your control. Holding onto bitterness will only harm *you*—not the one who hurt you. Ephesians 4:31-32 says, *"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."*
Now, regarding your finances: we pray that the Lord will provide for your family’s needs *and* give you wisdom to steward what you have. It’s important to remember that godly friendships are not built on material things or outings, but on love, faithfulness, and shared faith in Christ. If you are unable to accept every invitation, trust that the Lord will bring the *right* friendships into your life—ones that are not conditional on your financial situation. True brothers and sisters in Christ will not judge you for what you lack; they will walk with you in humility and grace. Proverbs 14:20-21 says, *"The poor person is shunned even by his own neighbor, but the rich person has many friends. He who despises his neighbor sins, but blessed is he who has pity on the poor."* If someone rejects you because of your finances, they are not the kind of friend you need. The Lord will surround you with those who reflect His heart.
We also encourage you to be open with trusted believers in your church about your struggles. You may find that others have faced similar challenges and can offer support, prayer, or even practical help. There is no shame in needing assistance—Scripture tells us in Galatians 6:2, *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ."* But be cautious not to compare your journey to others’. Contentment is a gift from God, and He may be using this season to teach you to rely on Him more deeply.
Lastly, we must address the root of your fear: the enemy wants to use your past to keep you in bondage to anxiety and insecurity. But 2 Timothy 1:7 declares, *"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control."* You have the authority in Christ to reject those lies and walk in freedom. When fear rises, speak Scripture over yourself. When old wounds ache, remind yourself that you are *chosen*, *valued*, and *loved* by the King of kings—no matter what anyone else says or does.
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**Let us pray:**
Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious brother/sister to You, asking that You would meet every need in their family according to Your riches in glory. Lord, You own the cattle on a thousand hills, and You are not unaware of their struggles. We ask that You would open doors of provision—whether through unexpected income, wise stewardship, or the generosity of Your people. Give them creativity to manage what they have and discernment to know when to say yes or no to invitations without fear or shame.
Father, we also pray for deep healing over the wounds of bullying and rejection. You see the pain caused by those who used wealth as a weapon to isolate and humiliate. We ask that You would break the power of those memories and replace them with Your truth: that their worth is found in Christ alone. Remove the fear of man and fill them with a holy confidence that comes from knowing they are Your beloved child.
We rebuke the spirit of comparison and the lie that they must "keep up" to be accepted. Surround them with godly friendships that are built on love, not material things. If there are relationships in their life that are conditional or unhealthy, give them the courage to step back and trust You for better ones.
Lord, we also pray for their heart toward the one who bullied them. Soften any hardness, release any bitterness, and help them to forgive as You have forgiven them. Protect them from further harm and let Your justice prevail in Your perfect timing.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Let them rest in the knowledge that You are their Provider, their Defender, and their Friend. May they seek first Your Kingdom, trusting that all else will be added unto them. We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
We're here with you, friend, and we want you to know that your concerns are valid and your fears are understood. It's true that old wounds can run deep, and it's okay to feel anxious about finances and friendships. But remember, your worth is not determined by your bank account or the invitations you receive. You are a child of God, loved and valued beyond measure.
Let's trust that God will provide for your family's needs, just as He promises in Matthew 6:31-33. He knows what you need and He cares for you deeply. Instead of worrying about what others think or have, let's focus on seeking God's kingdom and His righteousness. As you do, He will guide you in managing your finances wisely and discerning which invitations to accept.
We also want to encourage you to be open with trusted believers in your church about your struggles. You might find that others have gone through similar challenges and can offer support, prayer, or even practical help. Remember, there's no shame in needing assistance, and God calls us to bear one another's burdens (Galatians 6:2).
Lastly, let's address the root of your fear. The enemy wants to keep you in bondage to anxiety and insecurity, but God has given us a spirit of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). You have the authority in Christ to reject those lies and walk in freedom. When fear rises, speak Scripture over yourself. When old wounds ache, remind yourself that you are chosen, valued, and loved by the King of kings.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious brother/sister to You, asking that You would meet every need in their family according to Your riches in glory. Lord, You own the cattle on a thousand hills, and You are not unaware of their struggles. We ask that You would open doors of provision, whether through unexpected income, wise stewardship, or the generosity of Your people. Give them creativity to manage what they have and discernment to know when to say yes or no to invitations without fear or shame.
Father, we also pray for deep healing over the wounds of bullying and rejection. You see the pain caused by those who used wealth as a weapon to isolate and humiliate. We ask that You would break the power of those memories and replace them with Your truth: that their worth is found in Christ alone. Remove the fear of man and fill them with a holy confidence that comes from knowing they are Your beloved child.
We rebuke the spirit of comparison and the lie that they must "keep up" to be accepted. Surround them with godly friendships that are built on love, not material things. If there are relationships in their life that are conditional or unhealthy, give them the courage to step back and trust You for better ones.
Lord, we also pray for their heart toward the one who bullied them. Soften any hardness, release any bitterness, and help them to forgive as You have forgiven them. Protect them from further harm and let Your justice prevail in Your perfect timing.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Let them rest in the knowledge that You are their Provider, their Defender, and their Friend. May they seek first Your Kingdom, trusting that all else will be added unto them. We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Let's trust that God will provide for your family's needs, just as He promises in Matthew 6:31-33. He knows what you need and He cares for you deeply. Instead of worrying about what others think or have, let's focus on seeking God's kingdom and His righteousness. As you do, He will guide you in managing your finances wisely and discerning which invitations to accept.
We also want to encourage you to be open with trusted believers in your church about your struggles. You might find that others have gone through similar challenges and can offer support, prayer, or even practical help. Remember, there's no shame in needing assistance, and God calls us to bear one another's burdens (Galatians 6:2).
Lastly, let's address the root of your fear. The enemy wants to keep you in bondage to anxiety and insecurity, but God has given us a spirit of power, love, and self-control (2 Timothy 1:7). You have the authority in Christ to reject those lies and walk in freedom. When fear rises, speak Scripture over yourself. When old wounds ache, remind yourself that you are chosen, valued, and loved by the King of kings.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up this precious brother/sister to You, asking that You would meet every need in their family according to Your riches in glory. Lord, You own the cattle on a thousand hills, and You are not unaware of their struggles. We ask that You would open doors of provision, whether through unexpected income, wise stewardship, or the generosity of Your people. Give them creativity to manage what they have and discernment to know when to say yes or no to invitations without fear or shame.
Father, we also pray for deep healing over the wounds of bullying and rejection. You see the pain caused by those who used wealth as a weapon to isolate and humiliate. We ask that You would break the power of those memories and replace them with Your truth: that their worth is found in Christ alone. Remove the fear of man and fill them with a holy confidence that comes from knowing they are Your beloved child.
We rebuke the spirit of comparison and the lie that they must "keep up" to be accepted. Surround them with godly friendships that are built on love, not material things. If there are relationships in their life that are conditional or unhealthy, give them the courage to step back and trust You for better ones.
Lord, we also pray for their heart toward the one who bullied them. Soften any hardness, release any bitterness, and help them to forgive as You have forgiven them. Protect them from further harm and let Your justice prevail in Your perfect timing.
Finally, Father, we ask that You would fill them with Your peace that surpasses understanding. Let them rest in the knowledge that You are their Provider, their Defender, and their Friend. May they seek first Your Kingdom, trusting that all else will be added unto them. We pray this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
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The Encourager
I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
Healed Spirit Soul And Body
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Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Isaac Samuel Lubwama
Faithful Servant
Praying for this request in Jesus Name.
We want to thank you for allowing us the honor of lifting your family’s financial needs before the Lord these past few days. It has been our joy to stand with you in prayer, not only for provision but also for the healing of those deep wounds from your past—wounds that still whisper lies of inadequacy and fear today. We know how heavy it can feel to carry both the practical weight of financial strain and the emotional burden of old hurts, especially when the enemy tries to use them to steal the relationships and community God is calling you into now.
We’ve been praying specifically that the Lord would open doors for your family’s finances to align with His abundance, not just so you can say “yes” to invitations, but so you can extend them too—creating a home filled with warmth, hospitality, and the kind of love that draws others to Christ. We’ve also asked God to break the power of those past experiences where wealth was wielded as a weapon against you. The Lord sees how the enemy has tried to twist something as simple as social gatherings into a source of shame or exclusion, and we declare that He is redeeming it. Your worth is not tied to what you can afford or the size of your home, but to the fact that you are deeply loved by the Father, who calls you His own.
If God has already begun to move in this area—whether through unexpected provision, a new sense of peace, or even a small step toward deeper friendships—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs to keep trusting Him. But if the wait feels long or the fear still lingers, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We are here to keep interceding, to remind you that you’re not alone, and to speak truth over the lies that try to creep in. The God who provided manna in the wilderness and turned water into wine at a wedding feast is the same God who holds your family’s needs in His hands.
May He continue to meet you in this season, not just in your bank account, but in the quiet places of your heart where old wounds still ache. May He show you that the friendships He is building for you now are founded on His love, not on material things. And may you sense His presence so tangibly that every invitation—whether you can accept it or not—becomes an opportunity to trust Him more.
We’re still standing with you in faith.
We’ve been praying specifically that the Lord would open doors for your family’s finances to align with His abundance, not just so you can say “yes” to invitations, but so you can extend them too—creating a home filled with warmth, hospitality, and the kind of love that draws others to Christ. We’ve also asked God to break the power of those past experiences where wealth was wielded as a weapon against you. The Lord sees how the enemy has tried to twist something as simple as social gatherings into a source of shame or exclusion, and we declare that He is redeeming it. Your worth is not tied to what you can afford or the size of your home, but to the fact that you are deeply loved by the Father, who calls you His own.
If God has already begun to move in this area—whether through unexpected provision, a new sense of peace, or even a small step toward deeper friendships—we’d love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could be the very encouragement someone else needs to keep trusting Him. But if the wait feels long or the fear still lingers, please don’t hesitate to post this request again. We are here to keep interceding, to remind you that you’re not alone, and to speak truth over the lies that try to creep in. The God who provided manna in the wilderness and turned water into wine at a wedding feast is the same God who holds your family’s needs in His hands.
May He continue to meet you in this season, not just in your bank account, but in the quiet places of your heart where old wounds still ache. May He show you that the friendships He is building for you now are founded on His love, not on material things. And may you sense His presence so tangibly that every invitation—whether you can accept it or not—becomes an opportunity to trust Him more.
We’re still standing with you in faith.
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