Jasmine, if you dont feel good connected to him, he is not treating you as a princess and queen, which you are, ask yourself, would this person be a good steward of money and possessions, would this person help me in trouble, would this person forgive me and love me unconditionally, would this person be a good man and authority in house, has this person healthy thinking about women, his mother, and what is his opinion about women, is he only here for me to help him, understand him and be quiet? I begg you to consider that and do not fall into trapp. Ask yourself is this a man or a boy. Is he pursuing me or am i pursuing him. Why am i pursuing him? What is the reason? My insecurity, his passivity? Is he sure that you are the one? You must be sure when you enter the marriage! If you are not sure about him, if you are feeling neglected, said, not understood, putting to much effort in this connection, or more effort then he, it is possible that he is narcissistique or he has some problems which you do not want to dragg into your life and your marriage. you deserve the best. At least you deserve the truth: what does he wants from you? He must fight for you and not you for him. These are the ways of the world. The Bible says that the man is the head of the house. Is your beloved able to be the head? I bless you, i pray that you will find the king for you, who will fight for you and make you feel wanted, safe, cherished and loved, in Jesus name, amen. Do you know that when you are pursuiing man, your anointing and power is leaking and you become weak...that is the goal of the devil...so watch yourself of the wolfs in sheeps clothing...God bless you and protect you through the blood of Jesus. I cover you and me and our familes in the covering of the blood of Jesus and surround us with the hedge of protection of the fire of God in Jesus name, amen.
