We hear the deep sorrow and exhaustion in your heart, and we want you to know that you are not alone—God sees your struggles, your tears, and your unwavering love for your son despite the pain he has caused. You have carried this burden alone for far too long, but we stand with you in prayer, lifting your hands when they grow weary, and we speak truth into this situation with both compassion and the unshakable authority of Scripture. You have cried out to the Lord, and He *will* answer you. Let us first address the spiritual foundation of your request, for it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to the Father, and it is in His name that we find strength, wisdom, and deliverance. You did not mention His name in your plea, and we gently but urgently remind you that there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, nor is there any other name by which we can approach the throne of God.
*"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'" (John 14:6 WEB)*
*"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12 WEB)*
If you have not already surrendered your life and this situation fully to Jesus Christ, we implore you to do so now. Confess with your mouth that He is Lord, believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, and you *will* be saved (Romans 10:9). It is only through this relationship with Christ that you can walk in the victory and peace He promises, even amid storms like this one. Without Him, we are powerless—but with Him, *all things* are possible (Matthew 19:26).
Now, let us speak to the heart of your struggle. Your son’s behavior is not merely a matter of rebellion; it is a spiritual battle. The enemy has sought to destroy your family through deception, anger, and sin, but we declare that *no weapon formed against you will prosper* (Isaiah 54:17). Your son’s actions—stealing, destruction, drug use, and violence—are not just against you but against God Himself. The Bible is clear:
*"Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. 'Honor your father and mother,' which is the first commandment with a promise: 'that it may be well with you, and you may live long on the earth.' Fathers, don’t provoke your children to wrath, but nurture them in the discipline and instruction of the Lord." (Ephesians 6:1-4 WEB)*
Your son has rejected this commandment, and the consequences of his choices are severe. But take heart: God is not finished with him. The prodigal son in Luke 15 was lost in rebellion, yet his father never stopped watching for his return. You, too, must continue to pray for your son’s repentance while also setting godly boundaries. You have done all you can in your own strength—now it is time to trust God to do what only He can do.
The hard truth is that your son is now legally an adult, and his choices are his own. You are not responsible for his sin, nor are you required to enable his destructive behavior. The Bible teaches that if someone will not work, they should not eat (2 Thessalonians 3:10). While this may feel harsh, it is an act of love to refuse to fund or house a grown man who is actively rebelling against God and against you. Eviction may be the most loving thing you can do for him—sometimes, hitting rock bottom is what it takes for a person to cry out to God.
*"Don’t be deceived! God is not mocked, for whatever a man sows, that he will also reap. For he who sows to his own flesh will from the flesh reap corruption. But he who sows to the Spirit will from the Spirit reap eternal life." (Galatians 6:7-8 WEB)*
Your son is reaping the consequences of his choices, but this does not mean God has abandoned him. We must pray for his heart to be broken by the Holy Spirit, for true repentance to take root, and for him to encounter the living God in a way that transforms him. At the same time, you must protect your home, your peace, and your other children. You have a right—and a responsibility—to create a safe and godly environment. If that means legally removing your son from your home, then you must do so with courage, trusting God to provide for him even as you release him into God’s hands.
As for your new job, we pray for God’s favor upon you. He knows your needs, and He will sustain you. Do not carry the weight of shame or fear—you are not failing. You are a warrior who has fought tirelessly for her son, and now it is time to fight *for yourself* in prayer and trust. Ask God to give you wisdom with your trainer, to grant you supernatural patience, and to open doors for you to excel in this new season. He is your Provider (Philippians 4:19), and He will not abandon you.
Finally, we must address the isolation you feel. The enemy wants you to believe you are alone, but you are *not*. The body of Christ is called to bear one another’s burdens (Galatians 6:2), and we stand with you now. We encourage you to seek out a biblical, Christ-centered church where you can find support, mentorship, and godly counsel. You need brothers and sisters in Christ to walk alongside you, to pray with you, and to speak truth into your life. If counseling has failed you in the past, do not give up—ask the Lord to lead you to a counselor who is grounded in Scripture and filled with the Holy Spirit.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, lifting up this precious sister who is weary, broken, and feeling utterly alone. Lord, You see her tears, You hear her cries, and You know the depth of her love for her son. We ask You to wrap Your arms around her and remind her that she is *not* forgotten, that she is *not* abandoned, and that You are fighting for her even now.
Father, we pray for her son. His heart is hardened, his choices are destructive, and he is walking in rebellion. But You, O Lord, are the God who pursues the lost, who breaks chains of sin, and who turns hearts of stone into hearts of flesh. We plead the blood of Jesus over him and command every stronghold of addiction, anger, and deception to be broken in Jesus’ name. Convict him by Your Holy Spirit. Bring him to his knees in repentance. Let him encounter You in a way he cannot deny, that he may turn from his sin and surrender his life to You.
Give this mother the strength to set godly boundaries, even when it is painful. Grant her the courage to do what is right, not in anger, but in love and faith. Protect her home, her finances, and her other children. Provide a way for her son to leave peacefully, and open doors for him to find work, shelter, and most importantly, salvation.
Lord, we pray for her new job. Give her favor with her trainer and supervisors. Help her to learn quickly, to perform excellently, and to walk in Your peace even amid stress. Do not let her job be jeopardized by this situation—You are her Provider, and we trust You to make a way where there seems to be no way.
Father, we rebuke the spirit of isolation that has plagued her. Lead her to a community of believers who will surround her with love, prayer, and support. Heal the wounds of betrayal, exhaustion, and grief. Restore her joy, her hope, and her faith. Remind her that You are her Husband, her Father, and her Strong Tower (Psalm 61:3). Let her feel Your presence in a tangible way.
We declare that this family will be restored in Your timing and Your way. What the enemy meant for harm, You will turn for good (Genesis 50:20). We speak life, redemption, and victory over this situation. Strengthen her, Lord. Renew her mind. Fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.
Sister, we want you to know that God has not forgotten you. Keep praying, keep seeking Him, and keep trusting that He is working even when you cannot see it. Do not lose heart. The battle is not yours to fight alone—it is the Lord’s (2 Chronicles 20:15). Stand firm, and watch what He will do. We are praying for you, and we believe that God is about to move mightily in your life and in your son’s life. Stay in the Word, stay in prayer, and keep your eyes on Jesus. He is your hope, your strength, and your deliverer.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. 
