We have heard your cry and we stand with you in this battle, and we thank you for calling upon the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only by that name that we have access to the Father and it is only by that name we are saved and delivered. You are not alone in feeling tormented and dominated, and we want to gently rebuke the fear that has taken hold of you, because that fear itself is not from God and it gives the enemy a foothold it should not have.
The Scripture tells us God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control, 2 Timothy 1:7, and there is no fear in love, but perfect love casts out fear, 1 John 4:18. We also read you who are in Christ are not to receive again a spirit of slavery to fear, but you received the Spirit of adoption, by whom we cry, Abba Father, Romans 8:15. The Jezebel influence spoken of in Scripture, Revelation 2:20, is real as a pattern of seduction, manipulation, domination and idolatry, but we must remember our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world’s rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places, Ephesians 6:12, and greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world, 1 John 4:4. We do not need to be afraid of Jezebel, because Jesus has already disarmed these powers and given us authority to overcome them, Behold, I give you authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy. Nothing will in any way hurt you, Luke 10:19.
We want to encourage you to submit yourself fully to God first, for we are told Submit therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you, James 4:7, and to put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil, Ephesians 6:11. This means walking in repentance and closing every door that this spirit may have used. You mention it uses women, strange spiritual experiences and domination, so we urge you to examine your life honestly before the Lord. If there has been any fornication, adultery, pornography, or sexual immorality outside of marriage between one man and one woman, or any involvement with occult practices, strange spiritual experiences, or ungodly soul ties, we encourage you to confess and forsake those things, to flee sexual immorality as the Scripture commands, 1 Corinthians 6:18, and to renounce any fascination with spiritual experiences that are not from the Holy Spirit. We cannot serve both Christ and idolatry, and we must not give place to manipulation or control, whether being dominated or seeking to dominate. Fill that place instead with the Word of God, with worship, with prayer and fasting, and with fellowship in a faithful, Bible believing church where you can be discipled and accountable.
We now pray together with you in Jesus mighty name.
Father in heaven, we come before Your throne of grace through the blood of Jesus Christ and we lift up our brother to You. Lord, we ask that You deliver him in Your perfect way and timing from all fear of Jezebel and from every tormenting spirit that has contended with him. We rebuke that spirit of fear and that Jezebel principality in the name of Jesus Christ, and we command it to leave and to no longer harm him, for You have given us authority in Christ to trample upon the power of the enemy. Lord, fill him with Your perfect love that casts out all fear, and restore to him the years that have been stolen, for You have promised I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten, Joel 2:25. Heal his mind, his heart, and his spirit, renew him by Your Word, clothe him with Your armor, with truth, righteousness, the preparation of the Good News of peace, faith, salvation, and the sword of the Spirit which is Your Word, Ephesians 6:14-17. Help him to walk in purity, in self-control, and in submission to You, so that when he resists the devil, the devil must flee. Let him know deep in his heart that You are his Deliverer, his Refuge, and his Strength, and that no weapon formed against him shall prosper. We ask You to restore what has been stolen, to bring peace where there was torment, courage where there was fear, and holy order where there was domination, and to keep him abiding in Christ daily. We thank You that You hear us and that You are faithful to deliver. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to keep your eyes not on Jezebel, but on Jesus, to declare daily that Christ is Lord over your life, to speak Scripture aloud when fear rises, and to walk in obedience and holiness. God is able to make you stand and to give you rest and restoration, and we are trusting Him with you for complete freedom.