Fathers' health, marital issues

[CheeryleesaMarykj]

My father ### is due for a bypass operation tomorrow at nine am. I have prayed for healing. His ### years old and very precious to me.

My husband and I are sure of only one thing. That we love each other. But there is no bond between us. He spends his days on the computer and I spend my days being a traditional Indian wife. Both of us fulfil our roles to perfection.

He is not saved and he and his family worship idols and other things in ignorance. They still praise God Almighty. It's been ### years and I am so lonely, so misunderstood and so emotionally neglected by my spouse. I am tired of seeing him devote himself to all but me. I long for a true Christian marriage. Please pray for me. He is looking for employment too.

Thank you

 

[Articles]

Lord, we thank you that you for the blessings that you have given us. Help us to honor you in every part of our lives. We place this request at your throne. Please hear and reply according to your perfect will and timing. Grant us the peace to know that you are in control. In Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Danilo Da Silva]

Dear friend, I'm sure that not only me will pray for you, but I want to advise you on something so little but very important. I'm sure you know the word that says, you ask and don't receive because you do it wrongly.

So as for your marital life, I plead that you have a different approach. I mean, if God loved us so much and gave to us His only Son, can't you love your partner enough to fast for his change, can't you love him so much to act differently with him... dear will be happy to give you some advice that can really help.

 

[Action238]

Lord in the name of Jesus cover this marriage with Your divine love. Lord touch your daughter and bring her to the place of Joy and Peace. Fill her with Your holy spirit and speak to her heart clearly. Let her see she is not fighting her husband but principalities in high places. Let her reach out in love and live as it is established. Let her reach out to her husband with Your love. Cover him and their home with the fullness of Your Truth and bring them to the Purpose and desire of Your heart may their feet walk in obedience all the days of their lives. Lord touch her dad and lift him from this sickbed. Lord you are the Almighty and Creator of all things we are asking for Your mercy and grace to meet and bring a miracle and blessing to her life. Lord fill her heart with Your divine love and may she live in it and upon it no matter what is before her. Lord let her know without doubt that You live and protect and love her. Thank You Lord for her precious life and let her speak love and show love to her husband in Jesus name. Thank You Lord for Your Spirit and for Your promises. In Jesus name...

 

[The Beloved of God]

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O God, the source of all health and healing.

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Be near this one and the family during this time of recovery.

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Although we know You are in control, there may be apprehensive about what must be faced.

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You made us, loved us, and have provided the needed skill to perform a healing.

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Sustain them by Your grace so that our strength and courage that will not fail.

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Heal this one according to Your will.

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Amen.

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[w8onhim]

Father I know that there is nothing impossible with you. I pray that you would touch ###'s husband's heart. Drawing him to the saving power of Jesus Christ. I pray he would make a decision to turn away from his idols and make Jesus Christ is Lord and Savior. I pray father that you would bless ### with the marriage that she desires. One in which she and her husband can worship and serve you as one. In Jesus name I pray, Amen

 

[CheeryleesaMarykj]

Hallo all, and God bless you for the encouragement and agreement in prayer.

I take your advice in His spirit. In fact, only today I have prayed that He show me what is lacking in me as a wife. My problem is that my spouse is emotionally distant from me. He believes that he is in no way responsible for my emotional happiness. To be frank, I have made my peace with this and try to live with it. It's a very long story and I have posted my testimony on www.testimonyshare.com as 'my testimony and the beginning of a love story'. As per that, truly I live as the Proverbs 31 woman and am honoured to say that my first husband is Jehovah my creator. But the flesh falls...and at this moment of my life, the evil one brings much testing. My husband and I were fine but recently fell out on a silly issue of child rearing and it just went to pieces. He has given me an ultimatum that he will not touch me until I say he can. I have just had enough and would rather avoid the whole thing than try to repair it. I am miserable when he is so cold to me. At this time with my father ill, I need his support but I have never got it when I need it. BUT....I continue to warfare in His word and spirit. The Lord has told me the battle is His. I stand firm in Him and in my weakness His strength is made perfect.

Don't misunderstand me, I don't mistreat my husband, and I love him to bits. But it's a joint Indian family and not my household. I am just the background glorified housekeeper....albeit well kept!