We have heard your heart cry concerning your family and we stand with you together before the Father in Jesus' name, seeking His deliverance, protection, and truth to prevail in this painful situation.
What you describe grieves the heart of God, for to claim the name of Christian while practicing the occult is a contradiction and a deception. Scripture is very clear about this. Deut 18:10-12 says There shall not be found with you anyone who makes his son or his daughter to pass through the fire, one who uses divination, one who practices sorcery, or an enchanter, or a sorcerer, or a charmer, or a consulter with a familiar spirit, or a wizard, or a necromancer. For whoever does these things is an abomination to Yahweh. We must rebuke these practices openly, for they open doors to darkness and invite demonic influence, and they cannot coexist with faithful following of Christ. 2 Cor 6:14 also reminds us What fellowship has light with darkness. Your discernment that demonic influence is at work in these patterns of abuse is biblically sound, for Eph 6:12 tells us our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places.
We also recognize the deep wound of abuse within your family. God does not condone abuse, and while He calls us to honor our father and mother as in Eph 6:2, He never calls us to submit to sin or to remain in harm's way. He calls us to forgive as Eph 4:32 says Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you, but forgiveness does not require us to trust without repentance or to remain without boundaries. Prov 22:24 says Don't befriend a hot-tempered man, and don't associate with one who harbors anger, lest you learn his ways, and ensnare your soul. It is both biblical and wise to set firm boundaries, to seek safety, to seek godly counsel and pastoral support, and to separate yourself from participation in any occult practice or abusive behavior, even when it comes from immediate and extended family.
We want to encourage you that though this warfare is real, you need not live in fear. Jas 4:7 says Be subject therefore to God. But resist the devil, and he will flee from you. And 1 John 4:4 declares You are of God, little children, and have overcome them, because greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world. The Lord sees your suffering and draws near to the brokenhearted, for Ps 34:18 says Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit. Put on the whole armor of God daily as described in Eph 6:11, standing in truth, righteousness, faith, and the Word of God, and remain rooted in Scripture, prayer, and fellowship with a faithful Bible believing church where you can be strengthened and protected.
We noticed your request did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, and we gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and deliverance from darkness. John 14:6 says Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me. And Acts 4:12 says There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved. If you have not already, we encourage you to confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised Him from the dead, for Rom 10:9 promises that you will be saved. It is by His blood and His name that every chain of the occult and every work of the enemy is broken.
We lift you up now in prayer together.
Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before Your throne of grace and we lift up this dear one who is surrounded by darkness in their own family. We ask for Your divine protection over them, that You would cover them under Your wings as Ps 91:1 says He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty. We rebuke every work of the occult, every spirit of divination, sorcery, and deception operating in this family, and we command in Jesus' name that it have no authority over Your child. We pray that You would expose the darkness with Your light, bring deep conviction and repentance to each family member involved in these abominations, and draw them to true salvation through Jesus alone. Break the cycles of abuse, Lord, heal the wounds of those who have been targeted, and give this dear one wisdom to set biblical boundaries, courage to walk in truth, and peace that surpasses all understanding. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, strengthen them to resist the enemy and to stand firm, and surround them with godly believers who will support and disciple them. We declare that You are greater and that no weapon formed against them shall prosper. We entrust this entire family into Your hands for deliverance and redemption, trusting that You desire that none should perish. In the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ our Lord and Savior we pray, amen.