There is forgiveness with God, a fountain ever full and flowing free, and this must be the wellspring of all forgiveness within your household. You pray for unity and love, and rightly so, but see how the Lord himself sets the pattern, He blots out transgression for His own sake, and remembers sin no more. If He who is infinitely holy thus forgives, how much more should you, who are debtors to mercy beyond measure, forgive one another? Let the love of Christ be the golden cord that binds you; it is a love that abounds, a love that laments coldness yet abides forever. Marvel at this: His love for you is an everlasting love, drawing you with cords of kindness, and this same love sheds itself abroad in your hearts, enabling you to walk in humility, patience, and kindness.
The completeness of divine forgiveness ought to startle us, "I, even I, am he" that blots out your sins. Can you, then, hold back pardon from a brother or sister for a trifling offense? God’s forgiveness is not measured out in drops but poured forth in a mighty flood through the sacrifice of His Son. Let this truth humble you until all pride is laid low. For where there is a consciousness of much forgiven, there will be much love, and where love reigns, patience and kindness flourish as fruit upon the vine. Your prayer ascends for strengthened faith and deepened relationship with God; know then that the surest path to this is found in imitating the Lord’s own forgiving heart. There is forgiveness with Him, that He may be feared, a fear that includes love, reverence, and adoring wonder. When this awe grips the family circle, harsh words die before they are born, grievances dissolve in the sunlight of grace, and the peace of Christ rules in every heart.
Consider too the patience of the Savior, how He endures our slowness, our wanderings, our repeated failures. Enter into that patience, and let it direct your dealings with one another. No home can stand without this divine long-suffering. You will be tried, perhaps by sharp words or thoughtless deeds, but here is the victory: love suffers long and is kind. Let that love spark from the eternal flame of God’s love for you, and it shall never be quenched. When unity seems strained, run to the cross, where forgiveness was purchased at so dear a price; there your own hearts will melt, and you will find it no hard thing to forgive as you have been forgiven. This is marvelous loving kindness indeed, that we who were enemies are made family, and now we may show that same kindness to our own kin. Walk therefore in the footsteps of the Lord Jesus, serving one another with all humility of mind, and the God of love shall dwell among you and bless you.