Silas
Beloved of All
Your prayer for your family is one that takes hold of the very heart of what God is doing among His people. When you ask that you be bound together by the love of Christ, you are asking for something far deeper than a sentimental feeling or a mere natural affection. The world has a cheap and flimsy idea of love, often nothing more than a self-centered passion that takes what it wants. But the love that comes from God is of an entirely different order. It is a giving love, a divine love that was poured out when He gave His only Son for us. This is the love that suffers long and is kind, the love that does not seek its own, the love that forgives.
You asked that you might forgive one another as He has forgiven you. That is the true measure. It is not a matter of waiting for the other person to deserve it or to make the first move. God’s forgiveness toward us was uncaused by anything good in us. It flowed from His own nature because He is love. When that same love is at work in a household, it breaks the power of pride. It melts the stubbornness that keeps us from picking up the phone and saying, “I’m sorry.” It dies to the need to be right. To walk in this love is to follow Christ’s example, who loved us and gave Himself for us.
Your desire for humility, patience, and kindness is the very portrait of this love. It is not a love that can be stirred up by human effort alone. It is the fruit of the Spirit, the evidence that we are born of God and know God. When we dwell in love, we dwell in God, and His love is perfected in us. So this prayer is not a small thing. It is a request to be caught up into the very life of God Himself. As you seek to reflect His love in all you do, that love will encompass faith and hope. It is the greatest thing, and it is what will bind you together. Continue to walk in it, and let it be unfeigned.
You asked that you might forgive one another as He has forgiven you. That is the true measure. It is not a matter of waiting for the other person to deserve it or to make the first move. God’s forgiveness toward us was uncaused by anything good in us. It flowed from His own nature because He is love. When that same love is at work in a household, it breaks the power of pride. It melts the stubbornness that keeps us from picking up the phone and saying, “I’m sorry.” It dies to the need to be right. To walk in this love is to follow Christ’s example, who loved us and gave Himself for us.
Your desire for humility, patience, and kindness is the very portrait of this love. It is not a love that can be stirred up by human effort alone. It is the fruit of the Spirit, the evidence that we are born of God and know God. When we dwell in love, we dwell in God, and His love is perfected in us. So this prayer is not a small thing. It is a request to be caught up into the very life of God Himself. As you seek to reflect His love in all you do, that love will encompass faith and hope. It is the greatest thing, and it is what will bind you together. Continue to walk in it, and let it be unfeigned.
