Our hearts break for this father who is walking through such deep pain and despair. The loss of his wife and the separation from his child have left him crushed, and the enemy is whispering lies of hopelessness, tempting him to believe that ending his life is the only way out. But we stand firmly on God’s Word, which declares that **suicide is not the answer**—it is a permanent solution to a temporary struggle, and it robs God of the chance to redeem this situation for His glory. The Lord sees this father’s suffering, and He is near to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18). We must lift him up in urgent prayer, pleading for God’s intervention, strength, and supernatural peace to flood his soul.
First, we must address the spiritual battle at hand. The enemy seeks to steal, kill, and destroy (John 10:10), and right now, he is attacking this man’s mind with despair. But **Jesus is the Overcomer**, and He has already won the victory. We command every spirit of depression, hopelessness, and suicide to flee in the mighty name of Jesus Christ. The Word of God says, *"No weapon that is formed against you will prevail"* (Isaiah 54:17), and we declare that this father **will not be destroyed** by this trial. Instead, the Lord will use it to draw him closer, to refine him, and to restore what has been broken.
To this father, we say: **You are not alone.** Even if you feel abandoned by those you love, God has not forsaken you. *"I will never leave you nor forsake you"* (Hebrews 13:5). Your child needs you—not just physically, but as a father who walks in faith, strength, and the love of Christ. The pain you feel now is real, but it is not the end of your story. The Lord can turn this around. He can soften your wife’s heart, restore your family, and give you a testimony of His faithfulness. But you must **choose life** (Deuteronomy 30:19). You must fight for your child, for your future, and for the purpose God still has for you.
We also urge you to **seek godly counsel and support**. Isolation fuels despair, but community brings strength. Reach out to your pastor, a trusted brother in Christ, or a biblical counselor who can walk with you through this. *"Bear one another’s burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ"* (Galatians 6:2). If you are struggling with thoughts of self-harm, please call out to Jesus right now and ask Him to fill you with His peace. Then, take practical steps to get help—whether through a crisis hotline, a mentor, or your church family. You are **not** beyond hope.
Now, let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up this precious father who is drowning in sorrow. Lord, You see his tears, You hear his cries, and You know the depth of his pain. We ask You to **wrap him in Your arms** and remind him that he is loved, valued, and not forgotten. Break the chains of depression and despair that are binding him. Fill him with Your supernatural peace that surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7).
Lord, we rebuke the spirit of suicide that is whispering lies to him. Satan has no authority here—**this man belongs to You**. Strengthen him, Lord, in his inner being (Ephesians 3:16). Give him the courage to face another day, to fight for his child, and to trust You with his future. Remind him that You are his Provider, his Healer, and his Redeemer.
Father, we pray for his wife’s heart. Soften it, Lord. If this separation is not Your will, then **restore this marriage**. Bring conviction where needed, humility where there is pride, and reconciliation where there is brokenness. Let her see the pain she has caused and be moved to return—not out of guilt, but out of a desire to honor You and rebuild this family. And if restoration is not Your plan, then give this father **wisdom, grace, and provision** to navigate this season as a godly single parent.
Lord, we ask for divine intervention in the legal and emotional battles he may face. Open doors for him to spend time with his child. Let no weapon formed against him prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Surround him with brothers and sisters in Christ who will stand in the gap for him, encourage him, and help bear his burdens.
Most of all, Father, **draw him closer to You**. Let this trial drive him to his knees, where he will find You faithful. Remind him that You are his ever-present help in trouble (Psalm 46:1). Give him a vision for the future—one where he walks in victory, raises his child in Your ways, and testifies of Your goodness.
We declare that **this story is not over**. You, Lord, are the God of restoration, of miracles, and of new beginnings. We trust You to work all things together for good (Romans 8:28), even in this. Give this father **hope**, **strength**, and **a reason to keep fighting**.
In the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer, we pray. **Amen.**
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To the one who submitted this request: Thank you for standing in the gap for this father. We encourage you to **continue praying fervently** and to reach out to him if possible. Remind him of God’s love and the hope we have in Christ. If he is open, share the Gospel with him—sometimes, our darkest moments are when we most need to surrender our lives fully to Jesus. And if you sense he is in immediate danger, **do not hesitate to get him professional or emergency help**. We are all part of the body of Christ, and we must act when one of our own is in crisis.
*"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit."* —Psalm 34:18 (WEB)
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
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