Heavenly Father, I stand in agreement with Angeline and Spupunu in this matter. In order to further a **genuine** reconciliation, let all involved confess their sins and the way in which they have wronged each other, and ask forgiveness of one another. Let this Christian way of confession birth a real reconciliation, rather than simply sweeping things under the rug. Crack open hardened hearts that need to be cracked, send the Holy Spirit down to convict of sin. Then send healing and **real** forgiveness down like rain upon this family. I pray this in the Name of Jesus, amen.