Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man (my older daughter's boyfriend), his mother and negative influences. Lord, I ask that You remove them from our lives. Lord, I ask that You keep this corrupted young man and his mother away from my younger daughter so she can focus on her school and her courtship. I pray that she will not be influence by these people. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. No weapon formed against us shall prosper. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
 

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We stand with you in prayer and we hear the deep burden you carry for your family and especially for your older daughter. We join you in pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children and we agree together that no weapon that is formed against you will prosper, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4 and Isaiah 54:17 reminds us that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail. We also claim the promise that the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7.

We want to gently and firmly address what you have rightly discerned in the spirit. Your older daughter living together outside of marriage with this young man is not marriage in the eyes of God. Scripture is clear that marriage is honorable among all and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral Hebrews 13:4. To live together as if married without the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman is fornication, and we are commanded to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18 and to let no sexual immorality be even named among you as becomes saints Ephesians 5:3. This lifestyle opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage just as you have described, and it must be called what it is so that it can be repented of and broken. We also affirm your concern that her boyfriend is not her husband, not her father, not her head and not her covering, and he has no biblical authority over her. The false sense of obligation and commitment she feels is not from the Lord, and we pray that chain is broken. We also rebuke the counsel of this young man's mother who is encouraging your daughters to live together and even to have children before marriage. That counsel is ungodly and rooted in pride and manipulation, and children are a heritage from Yahweh given within the covenant of marriage Psalm 127:3. She has no parental authority over your daughters and her overreach and disrespect toward you as their mother is not honoring to God.

We also affirm the biblical principle you raised about honoring parents. Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother Ephesians 6:1-2 and Exodus 20:12. When your daughter projects disrespect, ingratitude and an authoritative spirit toward you and her siblings to please this young man and his mother, she is walking contrary to the faith in which she was raised and grieving the Holy Spirit. We pray for her eyes to be opened.

For your younger daughter we rejoice that she is focused on her studies and on a godly courtship. We agree with you that her courtship must be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, for we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14. We pray a hedge of protection around her that she would not be swayed by the ungodly example of cohabitation, but would seek a spouse who will love her as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it Ephesians 5:25 and who honors the sanctity of marriage as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman.

For your precious son, we declare his life is fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14 and deeply valued by God. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed toward him and his disabilities, and we ask the Lord to saturate him with peace and joy and to restore the loving fellowship he once shared with his sister.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved Acts 4:12 and through Him alone we have access to Your throne of grace. We thank You for this mother who has stood faithfully in prayer for her children. Lord, we ask You to place Your hedge of protection around her and all her children as You did for Job Job 1:10, and command Your angels to encamp around those who fear You Psalm 34:7 and to guard them in all their ways Psalm 91:11. We plead the blood of Jesus over their home, over every room, every door, every window and every corner of their property, and we ask You to anoint it with Your light and drive out all darkness, division, isolation, chaos, jealousy and torment.

Lord, we ask You to frustrate every plot and scheme of the enemy to divide and destroy this family, for You have promised Yahweh will fight for you and you shall be still Exodus 14:14. We ask You to break every generational curse, word curse, manipulation, control and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate this home, and we declare in Jesus name that every chain of stubbornness, brainwashing, false obligation and ungodly soul tie between the older daughter and this young man and his mother be broken now. Lord, open her eyes to see that this man is not ready for marriage and not her husband, and that the burden she carries financially and emotionally is not hers to bear. Remove the blinders, soften her heart, and give her a hunger for righteousness and a desire to honor her parents again. Gently guide her out of this toxic entanglement, away from living together outside of marriage, and lead her back to You, back to her church family, back to honoring her work and the purposeful promotion You have blessed her with, and back to the gracious, humble, grateful and charitable woman You created her to be. Protect her workplace and keep this jealous and disruptive influence away from it. We pray the father of this young man would rise up in godly responsibility and call his son to return home alone and to walk in repentance.

Father, we place a special hedge over the younger daughter. Keep her steadfast, humble and thankful, guard her studies, her health and her faith, surround her with godly friendships and mentors, and keep this young man and his mother far from her. Let her never see cohabitation as acceptable but let her wait for a godly spouse who honors marriage.

Lord, we lift up the son with disabilities. Shine Your bright light in every dark space, restore his progress with no more setbacks, give him peaceful nights, functional language spoken in a godly manner, and surround him with wisdom for his caregivers and doctors. Let him always feel loved, accepted, included and protected, and restore the beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Restore his peace, joy and freedom.

Father, strengthen this mother with wisdom, discernment and supernatural peace. Supply all her needs according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19, and let financial blessing flow so her family may be a blessing to others. Restore what the locusts have eaten Joel 2:25, mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and let this family be a beacon of Your light. We declare these divisive plans will not stand, for You are God and You frustrate the plans of the proud. We ask all this in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
 
We have been sitting with your prayer and we hear how heavy and long this has been for you. Watching your older daughter change in how she speaks to you and to her family, feeling the strain on your home and on your younger daughter and your son, and carrying the exhaustion and hurt that comes with it year after year is a lot to bear. We see your love for all your children and your desire to guard the peace of your home.

What you describe about pressure to please, taking on responsibilities that are not yours to carry, and feeling pulled between loyalty to family and loyalty to another household is so painful. One thing that has helped many parents in similar tangles is thinking about boundaries as a kind of property line for the heart. It is the quiet work of naming what is yours to carry and what is not, and learning you can stay connected to someone you love while still being free to say yes and to say no as you need to.

A practical step that may help you steady yourself right now is to write down two or three clear, calm lines for your own home and time together, for example when and how you will engage with this young man and his mother, and what you will not take responsibility for, and then share those lines with one trusted pastor or mature friend who can stand with you when you hold them. You should not have to hold this alone, and having another wise person beside you can make it easier to stay consistent and kind.

Father, we lift this mother and her children to You in Jesus name. Surround them with Your protection and peace, guard their home and their comings and goings, give wisdom to this mother and to the caregivers and helpers around her son, keep her younger daughter steady in her studies and faith, and gently lead her older daughter into clarity, freedom and renewed closeness with You and with her family. Restore what has been strained and fill this home with Your calm and healing. Amen.
 
May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, the way You want me to know You. So that I will trust You with my life and anyway that You move in my life. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps and actions. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

Heal Me Lord Jesus Spirit, Soul, And Body
 
Your prayer has been heard and your burden has been laid before the throne of grace with great care. The Lord who hears the cries of a mother for her children is not deaf to such pleading, and He who is mighty to save is able to deliver and to keep.

There is much in your request that is right and godly to ask. You are right to seek a hedge of protection over your household, to plead the blood of Christ over your children, and to ask for that peace which surpasses all understanding to guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus. You are right to desire unity, fellowship and joy restored in your home, and to dedicate your home and every room within it to the Lord. It is a glorious thing to have such a well in the family, where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God and mention each child by name.

You are also right to see clearly what the Scriptures teach concerning marriage and purity. Marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and living together outside of that covenant is not marriage in the eyes of God. It opens the door, as you have wisely discerned, to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage. We will not ask the Lord to bless what He calls us to turn from, but we will ask Him to deliver from it. Deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and where we look for justification there must we also look for sanctification.

Take comfort in this truth, that deliverance is of the Lord and it is effectual. As Israel did not share the honor of their deliverance with God, yet willingly gave their assent to His salvation, so He brought them forth. He brought them forth also with silver and gold, enriched by His hand. Your deliverance, and your daughter's deliverance, will be solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He has found a ransom. The King's own Son has borne the penalty, and when God Himself proclaims, I have found a ransom, then deliverance is certain. Indeed, for those who trust Him, it is already accomplished.

Therefore we join you in prayer:

Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our only Savior and Redeemer, we ask for Your divine protection over this mother and her children. Surround them with Your favor, place Your hedge about them and let Your holy angels encamp around those who fear You. Let no weapon formed against them prosper, for greater is He that is in them than he that is in the world. Saturate this home with Your peace, Your joy and Your light, and remove all darkness from their path.

We ask for Your mercy upon the older daughter. Open her eyes to see the truth, that this young man is not her husband, not her head, not her father and not one to whom she owes the obligations of marriage. Break the stubborn chains, the false sense of commitment and the ungodly hold that has blinded her and changed her gracious, humble and thankful spirit. Remove the authority and control that has been exercised over her, and the financial burden that is not hers to bear. Restore to her a hunger for righteousness, a love for Your Word, a desire to honor her parents as Your commandment teaches, and a delight in the church family where she was raised. Guide her swiftly and gently out of a living arrangement that dishonors You, and lead her to a place of safety, stability and wisdom. Grant her strength to block ungodly counsel and to put You first again in her life. We pray also for this young man and his mother, that You would frustrate every divisive and manipulative plan, expose what is done in pride and selfishness, and bring them to see their need of Christ, that they might repent and be saved.

We ask for a special covering over the younger daughter. Keep her steadfast as she pursues her studies and her courtship. Guard her heart from being swayed by an ungodly example. Keep this young man and his family far from her, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her to seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage, and not to be unequally yoked. Protect her health, her faith and her future, and keep her humble and thankful.

We lift up the precious son whom You have entrusted to this family. We declare that his life is valuable, deeply loved by You and a blessing and not a burden. Rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed toward him. Shine Your bright light in every dark space, grant him peace that surpasses understanding, restore his progress, and give him patience and functional language to express his wants and needs in a godly manner. Restore the loving and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Let him be a beacon of Your light wherever he goes.

Grant this mother strength, wisdom and discernment, and keep her from being worn down by worry, fear and exhaustion. Provide for every financial need according to Your riches in glory, that this family may be a testimony of Your provision. Let this home be a place of family worship and prayer, free from ecclesiastical discord and from the archers of division and isolation. May the Lord pity this family as a father pities his children, and relieve their misery in due time.

We pray that every scheme to divide, isolate and corrupt this family will fail, for You fight for Your people. What the enemy has meant for chaos and torment, turn for deliverance, that this family may live and declare the works of the Lord. For if we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but those who have been afflicted and delivered have a song to sing of a greater salvation wrought by Jesus Christ.

We ask all these things trusting not in our own will or strength, but in Your free grace and abundant mercy. Amen.
 

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