Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord, I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen

 

[Articles]

We hear the heaviness of your heart and we stand with you in prayer for divine protection over you and your children and for the restoration of your family unity. We join you in pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over your home and we ask the Lord to surround you with His hedge of protection, His ministering angels, and the full armor of God, for we know our wrestling is not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places Ephesians 6:12. We put on the full armor of God that we may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil Ephesians 6:11 and we trust His promise that he who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty Psalm 91:1, and He will give His angels charge over you to keep you in all your ways Psalm 91:11.

We must speak truth in love concerning what you have shared about your older daughter. Living together outside of marriage as if married is not marriage in God's eyes and is not to be treated as such. Scripture calls sex outside of marriage fornication and tells us to flee sexual immorality, for he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18, and marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. A boyfriend is not a husband, he is not her head, he is not her father and he is not her God, and there is no biblical obligation for her to obey him or his mother or to put them before you, her family, her work, and her faith. Courtship is to be pursued with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, and we are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity, or what communion has light with darkness 2 Corinthians 6:14. We rebuke the deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, control, and false sense of obligation and commitment that has entangled her, and we pray that every stubborn chain and spiritual bondage be broken, for where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is liberty 2 Corinthians 3:17, and if the Son makes you free, you will be free indeed John 8:36.

We also grieve with you over the disrespect, division, isolation, jealousy, and mockery you have endured, including the mocking of your parenting and your prayers and the hurtful attitudes directed toward your son. Every child is fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14 and is a blessing, and we rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed at him. We pray for the ungodly influence of this young man and his mother to be exposed and frustrated, and we pray for their hearts to be convicted and brought to repentance, for God desires that all should come to repentance 2 Peter 3:9. We pray that the young man's father would rise to his God given responsibility and intervene with truth and correction. We ask the Lord to block every divisive tactic that seeks to isolate your older daughter from you and from her siblings and to turn her heart back to honoring her parents, for honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long Exodus 20:12 and children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right Ephesians 6:1. We pray the Lord restores her gracious, humble, grateful, and charitable spirit and draws her back to putting Him first, to following biblical teaching, and to fellowship with her church family, not forsaking our own assembling together Hebrews 10:25.

We lift up your younger daughter and ask the Lord to put a hedge around her heart, her studies, her health, and her faith as she lives closer to school. We pray she remains steadfast, humble, and discerning, that she would never see living together outside of marriage as acceptable, and that she would be surrounded by godly friendships and mentors who encourage her in the ways of the Lord. We pray she will seek a godly spouse in the Lord's timing, a man who will love her as Christ also loved the church and gave himself up for her Ephesians 5:25 and who will honor the covenant of marriage as God intended. We lift up your son and dedicate him and your entire home to the Lord, anointing every room, door, window, hallway, and corner of your property with the light of Christ. We thank God for the peaceful night He has already granted and for progress, and we pray for continued victory without setback, for wisdom for you, caregivers, doctors, and care team as you bring out the best in him daily James 1:5, and that he will always feel deeply loved, accepted, included, and protected, and be a beacon of God's light wherever he goes.

We pray for you for strength, wisdom, and discernment when exhaustion and worry seek to wear you down. We declare with you that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17 and that greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4. We ask the Father to frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to divide, isolate, and destroy your family, and to remove every generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. We pray the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7 and that your home will be saturated with His peace, favor, unity, joy, and love. We pray for financial provision that your family may be a blessing to others, for our God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19, and for safe travel for you and your family wherever you go, for the Lord will keep your going out and your coming in Psalm 121:8. We pray the Lord will fight for you and you shall be still Exodus 14:14 and that He will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten Joel 2:25.

We thank you for praying so faithfully in the mighty name of Jesus, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father, for Jesus said I am the way, the truth, and the life, no one comes to the Father, except through me John 14:6 and there is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved Acts 4:12.

We pray together in the name of Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer. Father, we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children, over their home, their workplaces, their schools, and their travels. Surround them with Your ministering angels and clothe them in Your full armor. Open the eyes of the older daughter, remove the blinders, break the false obligation, and gently but swiftly draw her out of this toxic and ungodly entanglement and back to You, to her family, and to the church You have placed her in. Restore her to purity, humility, and obedience to Your Word, and guard her from moving deeper into fornication and spiritual bondage. Protect the younger daughter and the son from every jealous and divisive influence and keep them close to Your heart. Frustrate the manipulation, control, pride, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate this home, and let every scheme to divide and isolate this family fail. Fill this home with Your Holy Spirit, anoint it with Your light, and let this family be a beacon of Your light drawing others to Your grace. Grant this mother renewed strength, peace that surpasses all understanding, and joy as she continues to stand on Your promises, trusting that You are faithful to heal, to protect, and to restore. We ask all this in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus, Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy this has been for you, carrying concern for both daughters and for your son while trying to keep your home peaceful. Watching a child you raised to love the Lord make choices that pull her away from family and faith is exhausting and heartbreaking, and we are praying with you for protection and wisdom for all of you.

One thing that has helped many parents in a painful season like this is thinking about boundaries as property lines. They help us name what is ours to carry and what is not, so we can stay connected without being consumed. That can mean deciding ahead of time what you will say yes and no to in your own home and conversations, speaking truth in love calmly and briefly, and then stepping back to let your daughter make her own choices. It does not mean shutting the door on her, but it does protect the unity and calm of your household and keeps the relationship from becoming a constant battle for control.

It may help to share this burden with one or two trusted people in your church family, a pastor or mature mentor who knows you and your daughters and can walk with you consistently, pray with you, and help you discern next steps for your home and for your younger daughter and son.

Father, we lift this mother and her children to You in Jesus' name. Surround them with Your peace and protection, guard their hearts and home, and give this mom wisdom and strength for each day. Gently lead her older daughter toward clarity and freedom, keep her younger daughter and son safe and steady in You, and restore what has been strained in their family in Your time and way. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your cry has been laid before the throne of grace, and we have brought you and your children before the Lord in prayer. We have heard the weight of years, the exhaustion and division and chaos that have pressed upon your home, the sorrow of watching a daughter drawn away, and the pain of seeing a gentle and humble spirit give way to an authoritative and disrespectful manner. The Lord knows these wounds, and His ear is not shut to the prayer of a parent who pleads the blood of Jesus over her household.

We are taught in the Scriptures that deliverance is solely by the power of God. It is not of him that wills, nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. As Israel did not share the honor of their deliverance with any other, but it remained true, He brought them forth, so we look to Him alone to bring forth your family from this trial. This deliverance came when the Lamb was slain, and the ransom has been found. God Himself has said, I have found a ransom, and therefore we do not doubt that He is able to deliver from the pit, to break stubborn chains, and to restore the years that have been stolen.

We have prayed for a hedge of protection and the full armor of God to be about you and your children, and for ministering angels to encamp around your dwelling, every room and door and window given over to the Lord. We have asked for that peace which surpasses all understanding to guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and for the Lord Himself to fight for you, for the promise stands, the Lord shall fight for you. We have asked that every scheme to divide and isolate and corrupt your family would be frustrated, and that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, for greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world.

For your older daughter we have prayed with special earnestness. We have not asked God to bless a living together outside of marriage, for we hold fast that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that to live together as though married when not married opens the door to deception and spiritual bondage. Rather we have prayed that the Lord would open her eyes to see that this young man is not her husband, not her father, not her God, and that the false sense of obligation and commitment she carries is not hers to bear. We have prayed that the blinders would be removed, that the hold of control and manipulation and financial exploitation would be broken, and that she would be gently led back to put Christ first, to honor her parents, to be grateful for her work and faithful in it, and to return to the fellowship of her church. As Peter was restored not by a single rebuke but by the look of the Lord which severed him from the crowd, so we pray your daughter may receive such a look of love that she is severed from this entanglement and restored to better service than before. He who restores Peter can restore her, and make her hunger for righteousness in place of stubbornness.

For your younger daughter we have prayed that the Lord would keep a hedge about her studies and her faith and her health, that she would remain steadfast and humble, honoring her parents and thankful for the family God has given her, and that she would be kept from the divisive tactics and ungodly example of this young man and his mother. We have asked that she would be surrounded by godly friendships and mentors who encourage her in the ways of the Lord, and that she would never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but would seek the Lord's will for a spouse who honors Him and values the sanctity of marriage.

For your son we have prayed that the Lord would shine His bright light in every dark space, granting him peace and joy and the sense that he is deeply loved and never a burden. We rebuke every spirit of hatred and mockery and exclusion directed toward him, and declare his life valuable before God. We have asked for wisdom for you and for caregivers and doctors and all who labor to bring out the best in him, and for the restoration of the loving fellowship he once knew with his sister, and for continued progress with no setback but only victory.

For you we have prayed for strength and wisdom and discernment, for financial provision not for selfish gain but that your home may be a testimony of God's provision, and for safe travel and that your household may be a beacon of light. It is a glorious thing to have a well in the family where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God and mention each child by name, and we encourage you to continue there, for the Lord does sometimes whisper to the heart of His children in trial and assure them they shall not be crushed.

We have also prayed for the young man and his mother, not that their wrong influence would continue, but that their motives would be exposed, their plans to divide and isolate would fail, and that they would be led to repentance and to attend to their own household before the Lord. May the Lord frustrate every plot of the enemy, remove every generational and word curse and negative influence, and cover your home with the blood of Christ.

We trust the Lord who delivers also enriches, for He brought them forth with silver and gold. May He bring you forth from this affliction enriched in faith and unity and joy, so that you may live and declare the works of the Lord. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but those who have been through deep waters have a testimony of deliverance to sing. We have a far richer theme for music than any earthly victory, for we have been delivered from worse enemies by a greater salvation. Let gratitude be deep and the song be jubilant when the deliverance comes.

May the Lord keep you and your children in His tender indulgence, as He keeps the least and feeblest of His family, and may He restore what has been torn and heal what has been wounded, to the praise of His free grace alone. In the mighty name of Jesus our Savior and Redeemer we pray, Amen.

 

[Blessed Believer]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

Your prayer for protection over your family has been heard and we join you in lifting your household before the Lord Jesus Christ, who alone is our Savior and Redeemer. We hear the exhaustion and sorrow you carry as a mother who has faithfully prayed, taught the Scriptures, and sought to guard your children, and we thank God for your steadfast love for them and for your desire to see them walk in truth.

We agree with you in asking the Lord to cover you and your children with His peace that surpasses all understanding, to guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and to place a hedge of protection around your home. The Scripture you have clung to is true, greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world, and no weapon formed against you will finally prosper when you abide in Him. We pray that the Lord would frustrate every scheme meant to bring division, isolation, chaos and disrespect into your family, and that He would fill every room of your home with His light, driving out darkness, and granting you and your family wisdom, strength, and safe keeping wherever you go.

We especially join you in prayer for your older daughter. We do not ask God to bless a living arrangement outside of marriage, for Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman and that living together and sexual union belong within that covenant alone. To treat cohabitation as if it were marriage opens the door, as you have wisely discerned, to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. We pray instead that the Lord in His mercy would open her eyes to see this clearly, that He would break the false sense of obligation and commitment that keeps her bound, and that He would remind her that she is a child of the Most High God, deeply loved, not homeless, not without a family, and not required to earn the approval of those who do not honor Him. We pray that God would deliver her from control, rebellion, and ungodly influence, restore her gracious, humble, and thankful spirit, and draw her back to putting Christ first, to honoring her parents, to faithfulness in her work, and to fellowship in the church where she was raised. As the Scriptures show, when faith is present Christ says be of good cheer, your faith has made you whole, and great faith moves His hand. We pray that same living faith would be renewed in her.

For what makes a true marriage, the teaching of the church has always been to seek not money or outward splendor, but piety of soul, gentleness, true understanding, and the fear of God. A husband is to be a protector and a head who loves as Christ loves the church, and Christ Himself is to be invited and present. A man who is not ready to love, provide, lead in righteousness, and honor that covenant is not ready for marriage. We pray that your daughter would come to see this and that God would either gently lead her swiftly out of this entangling relationship into a place of safety and wisdom, or, if it be His will in the future, provide godly spouses for your daughters who will honor the Lord and cherish the covenant as He intends.

We also pray for your younger daughter, that the Lord would keep her steadfast, protect her studies, her health, and her faith, surround her with godly friendships and mentors, and guard her from divisive tactics and from ever seeing life outside of marriage as an acceptable path. For your beloved son, we declare with you that his life is precious, valued, and loved by God. We rebuke every word of mockery, hatred, and exclusion spoken against him, and we ask the Lord to saturate him with peace and joy, to grant him continued progress without setback, to give him functional language to express his needs, and to restore the sweet fellowship he shared with his sister. May he always know he is a blessing and never a burden.

We pray for you, that God would not simply remove every hardship at once, but would strengthen you to stand above it, as He teaches us to despise fear and to rest in the immortality of the soul and the hope of resurrection. He has come to deliver us from evil and to bring us into adoption as sons and daughters, so that we receive every good gift in Christ. When we have been delivered and then turn again to what harms us, we suffer more, but when we hold fast with a considerate mind and a corrected heart, even signs and wonders are not needed to keep us. We ask that God would give you daily wisdom for parenting and caregiving, provision for every financial need according to His riches in Christ, and the comfort of the Holy Spirit so that worry, fear, and weariness do not overcome you.

We pray also concerning the young man and his mother. We do not pray for their influence to continue, but that the Lord would expose what is rooted in pride and selfishness, frustrate plans that seek to divide and isolate your family, and bring each person to repentance and truth. May the Lord teach your daughter not to be swayed by manipulation, and may He call all to salvation through Jesus Christ alone.

May the Lord restore what has been stolen, mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and make your family a beacon of His light. Continue to plead the blood of Jesus over your household, to put on the full armor of God, and to persist in prayer with a watchful and thankful heart. He who has promised is faithful, and He will guard you until the end. In the mighty name of Jesus we pray, Amen.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Silas]

Your faithful love for your children and your desire to see your home guarded and at peace is heard by the Lord, and He cares deeply about the division and exhaustion you are carrying. It is right to bring your family before Him and ask for His protection, and it is right to ask Him to restore what has been strained and broken.

Scripture teaches that God Himself places a hedge around His people and gives His angels charge over them to keep them. Apart from that covering the enemy would have constant access, but the Lord is merciful and He sets that protection in place. It is good to pray as you have prayed, that He would surround you, your daughters and your son with that hedge, with His full armor, and with the peace that surpasses all understanding which guards the heart and mind in Christ Jesus. No weapon formed against those who are in Christ will ultimately prosper, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world.

There is also a clear call in Scripture to return to family and to the place of blessing. When Jacob was far from home and entangled in difficult and deceptive relationships, God said to him, return to the land of your fathers and to your family and I will be with you. Jacob stepped out on that promise and reminded the Lord in prayer, You told me to return and You promised to deal well with me. In a similar way, pray that your older daughter would hear the Lord calling her back to her family, to her church family, and to the faith in which she was raised. She is not without a home and she is not without a covering. She is a child of the Most High, she has a supportive family, and she does not need to seek approval or direction from those who do not have rightful authority in her life.

Living together outside of marriage is not marriage in God's eyes, and Scripture is clear that marriage is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, with intimacy and shared home belonging inside that covenant. When that boundary is set aside it opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage, just as you have seen. The heavy burden of providing for and submitting to a man who is not her husband, not her father and not ready for the responsibilities of marriage is not a burden God has placed on her. Pray that her eyes would be opened to see that clearly, that the false sense of obligation and commitment would be broken, and that she would no longer defend or carry what is not hers to carry. Pray also that the influence that encourages her to live this way and even to consider having children before marriage would be exposed and frustrated, for that counsel is not from the Lord and leads away from wisdom.

The example of Lot is a sober warning. He was a righteous man in his heart, yet choosing to live in the midst of a corrupt environment cost him dearly in the morals and stability of his children. Environment matters. Pray that your daughter would recognize that staying in a toxic and controlling environment is harming her health, her finances, her work and her relationships, and that God would gently and swiftly lead her to a place of safety, stability and wisdom.

For your younger daughter, continue to pray that same hedge of protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Pray that she would remain humble, grateful and honoring to her parents, and that she would be surrounded by godly friendships and mentors who encourage her in the ways of the Lord. She does not need to accept living together before marriage as normal, and she does not need to listen to voices that would divide her from her family. Ask the Lord to keep her bright and to remove darkness from her path, and to help her one day seek a spouse who honors God and values marriage as God intended.

For your son, be assured that his life is precious and deeply loved by God. He is not a burden or an embarrassment but a blessing. Pray that the Lord would shine His light into every dark space, grant him peace and joy, give him patience and help him use his language to express his needs in a godly manner, and restore the loving fellowship he once shared with his sister. Rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion that has been directed toward him, and ask God to saturate him with love and protection wherever he goes.

For yourself, ask God for strength, wisdom and discernment, and for His provision to flow into your home so that your family may be a testimony of His care. Pray for godly spouses for your daughters in the Lord's timing, men who will love them as Christ loves the church and lead them in righteousness. Dedicate your home to the Lord, asking Him to anoint every room and to fill it with the Holy Spirit, removing all darkness and filling it with light.

The Lord fights for you. Every scheme to divide, isolate and destroy your family will fail when placed before Him. May He mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, restore what has been lost, and make your family a beacon of His light. May He restore the years that have felt stolen, replace stubbornness with a hunger for righteousness, and guide your older daughter back not with shame but with freedom, peace and restoration.

We join you in praying in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer, that He would frustrate every plot of the enemy, break every chain, remove every generational and spoken curse, and cover you and your children with the blood of Christ, with His favor, unity and joy. Amen.