Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting your family before the throne of grace and we thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over yourself and your children, for it is only through His name that we have bold access to the Father and it is the name by which we are saved. We stand with you in agreement for divine protection, for peace that surpasses all understanding, and for the complete restoration of your family unity.

We see the heavy burden you have carried as you watch your older daughter entangled in a relationship that has brought exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect and chaos into your home. We hear your cry about the disrespect from this young man, the enabling and ungodly counsel of his mother, and the painful change in your daughter who was once gracious, humble, charitable, thankful and obedient to biblical teaching. We agree with you that no weapon formed against you shall prosper as it is written in Isaiah 54:17 and that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world in 1 John 4:4.

We must lovingly and firmly address what the Lord calls sin in this situation so that prayer may be aligned with repentance and truth. Your older daughter is living together with this young man outside of marriage and treating that arrangement as if it were marriage. Scripture is clear that this is fornication and it is not God's will. Marriage is to be held in honor among all and the marriage bed is to be undefiled in Hebrews 13:4, and we are commanded to abstain from sexual immorality and to flee it in 1 Thessalonians 4:3 and 1 Corinthians 6:18. A boyfriend is not a husband, and a girlfriend is not a wife. Courtship should be with the purpose of discerning marriage to a fellow believer in Christ, not a prolonged living arrangement that opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage as you have so accurately described. We also affirm that marriage as God ordained it is a lifelong covenant between one man and one woman, and any relationship outside that design cannot honor Him. We also grieve with you that your daughter has been counseled by this woman to have children before marriage, which is contrary to God's design for family and purity.

We also address the dishonor and disobedience that has entered. Children are commanded to honor their father and mother in Ephesians 6:1-3 and Exodus 20:12, that it may be well with them. For your daughter to demand that your family obey this young man and his mother, to distance herself from you and her siblings, and to project his authoritative and disrespectful manner toward you and toward her workplace is not of the Lord. It reveals a controlling and divisive influence that Scripture warns us about when it says to have no fellowship with the unfruitful works of darkness in Ephesians 5:11 and to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers in 2 Corinthians 6:14. The loyalty and authority this woman demands over you and your children is ungodly and rooted in pride, and we ask the Lord to expose and frustrate every divisive scheme.

We pray together now for you and your household.

Father in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother, her older daughter, her younger daughter and her precious son. We ask for Your hedge of protection and for Your ministering angels to encamp around them as in Psalm 34:7 and Psalm 91:1. We put on the full armor of God on behalf of this family according to Ephesians 6:11 that they may stand against the schemes of the enemy. We declare the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus in Philippians 4:7, and that You will supply every need according to Your riches in glory in Philippians 4:19.

Lord we lift up the older daughter to You. Have mercy upon her and open her eyes to the truth that this young man is not her husband, not her father, not her covering and not ready for the responsibilities of marriage. Remove the blinders, break the stubborn hold, the false obligation and false commitment that keeps her bound, and the brainwashing and control that has changed her gracious personality. Convict her to repent for living outside of marriage and to flee from fornication. Draw her back to putting You first, to honoring her parents, to returning to her church family, to being grateful for the purposeful work and promotion You have graciously given her, and to stewarding her finances with wisdom rather than bearing a burden that is not hers. We ask that You frustrate every plan of this young man and his mother to isolate and divide, that You block their influence from her workplace and her life, and that You lead her swiftly and gently out of this toxic and ungodly dwelling into safety, stability and wisdom. Restore to her a humble and teachable spirit and let her seek a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church and honor the covenant of marriage in Ephesians 5:25, if it be Your will for her to marry.

Father we lift up the younger daughter. Place a hedge of protection around her heart, her studies, her health and her faith. Keep her steadfast and humble, honoring her parents and thankful for the family You have blessed her with. Guard her from being swayed by the ungodly example of cohabitation and from the divisive tactics of this young man and his mother. Surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in Your ways and let her never see living together outside of marriage as acceptable. Keep her path bright and remove all darkness from it.

Lord we lift up the beloved son. Thank You for his life, for his value and for the blessing he is to this family. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed at him and every word that would make him feel like a burden. Saturate him with Your peace and joy, grant him Your patience, and give him functional language and godly manner to express his wants and needs. We anoint this home to You, every room, door, window, hallway and corner of the property, and we ask You to restore his progress, to grant him peaceful nights and to let him always feel loved, accepted, included and protected. Restore the beautiful relationship he had with his sister and let him be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes.

Father we also pray for this mother who intercedes so faithfully. Strengthen her with wisdom and discernment, renew her strength as she waits on You in Isaiah 40:31, and let her not grow weary in doing good in Galatians 6:9. Provide financial blessing not for selfish gain but so her household may be a testimony of Your provision. Let Your light shine through this family and restore the years that have been stolen as You promise in Joel 2:25. We declare that every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt and destroy this family will fail, for You fight for them as You promise in Exodus 14:14. We ask that even this young man and his mother would come to repentance and know the truth, but that their ungodly influence would be completely removed and blocked from this family.

We entrust your family to the Good Shepherd who never leaves nor forsakes His own. Continue to pray, to set boundaries in love, and to speak truth with grace, trusting that the Lord who began a good work will be faithful to complete it. We pray all these things in the mighty and saving name of Jesus Christ our Redeemer, Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy and long this road has been for you, and how much you love each of your children. Watching your older daughter change, feeling disrespected in your own home, and trying to protect your younger daughter and your son while you are exhausted yourself is a lot to carry. It makes sense that you feel both grief and a deep desire for peace to return.

One insight that often helps parents in a painful season like this is remembering that love and limits can go together. A boundary is simply a way of naming what is yours to care for, your home, your values, your time and energy, and what belongs to another adult to own, even when you disagree with their choices. That does not mean turning away from your daughter, but it can keep you from being worn down by trying to carry what is not yours to carry, and it helps keep your home a steady, safe place for your younger daughter and your son. When you can be clear and calm about what is okay in your home and what is not, you preserve freedom in the relationship instead of constant tug of war.

It may help to choose one or two clear, consistent boundaries for your home and talk them through with a trusted pastor or counselor who knows your family. Keep a gentle, open line with your older daughter that lets her know she is loved without requiring your family to follow the direction of others.

Father, we lift this mother and her children to You in Jesus' name. Cover them with Your peace and protection, guard their home and their travels, and give this mother wisdom, strength and rest. Gently lead her older daughter to safety, clarity and renewed faith, keep her younger daughter and her son secure and joyful, and restore unity and kindness in their family in Your time. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been brought before the Lord with deep care and burden, and we join you in seeking His mercy and deliverance for your household.

The Lord hears the cry of a parent who pleads for her children, and there is a well in the family where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God, and mention each child by name, and all the troubles of the past and all the expected difficulties of the coming day. You have done this, and we do the same with you now.

We do not ask God to bless what He has not called blessed. His Word teaches that salvation is through Jesus Christ alone, and that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together outside of that covenant is not marriage and is not His design for good. It opens the door, as you have rightly discerned, to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage. Therefore our prayer is not that He would prosper that arrangement, but that He would in His grace open eyes, break chains, and bring deliverance.

Deliverance is of the Lord. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. He alone has found a ransom, for His own Son has borne the penalty of our iniquities, and when the Lamb was slain the captives were brought forth. He makes deliverance effectual and He brings His people forth. We pray that He would do so for your older daughter, that the false sense of obligation and commitment that holds her would be removed, that she would see clearly that this young man is not her husband, not her head, not her father, and not one ready for the responsibilities of marriage, and that the burden she carries for him is not hers to bear.

We plead the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children and ask the Lord to set a hedge of protection about you, to clothe you in the full armor of God, and to give charge to His ministering angels concerning you. We pray that He would frustrate every plot and scheme to divide, isolate and corrupt your family, that He would expose motives rooted in pride and selfishness, and that He would block the overreach and ungodly counsel that encourages what Scripture forbids. We ask that He would keep this influence far from your younger daughter and from your son, and far from the workplace where your older daughter has been blessed with purposeful promotion. May the Lord protect her studies, her health, her finances and her faith, and keep her humble and thankful.

We pray for your older daughter that the Lord would gently guide her to put Him first again, to honor her parents as His Word commands, to return to the fellowship of her church family, and to hunger for righteousness. May He restore to her that gracious, humble, grateful and charitable spirit which delights in Him, and remove the authoritative and disrespectful manner she has taken on. May He remind her that she is a child of the Most High God, that she is not homeless and not without a loving and supportive family who raised her in the ways of the Lord, and that she need not change her faith or forsake His teachings to please any other.

We pray for your younger daughter that she would remain steadfast, that she would not be swayed by an ungodly example, but would seek the Lord and be surrounded by godly friendships and mentors who encourage her in His ways, and in time, if the Lord wills, be joined to a man who loves as Christ loves the church and honors the covenant of marriage. We pray for your son, that the Lord would shine His bright light in every dark place, grant him peace that surpasses all understanding, guard him from hatred and mockery, and restore the loving fellowship he shared with his sister. We declare with you that his life is valuable and deeply loved by God, and we ask for wisdom for you and for his caregivers and doctors to bring out the best in him daily, with progress and without setback.

For you, we pray for strength and discernment, that the peace of God which surpasses all understanding would guard your heart and mind in Christ Jesus, and that the Lord would provide for your home according to His riches, not for selfish gain but that you may be a testimony of His provision. We pray that He would anoint your home, every room and doorway, with His light, that you would know safe travel and be a beacon of His light in all you do, and that what has been torn would be mended and what has been lost restored.

The Lord has chastened and tried His people, but He also delivers, and those who have known affliction have much to declare of His works. We trust that He who delivered His people with silver and gold, who brought them forth because He is faithful, will in His time and way bring deliverance to your house. The Lord shall fight for you, and you shall hold your peace.

We continue with you in prayer, asking all this in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, deliver, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. I ask this for them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.