Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen
 
We join you in bringing this heavy burden before the throne of grace in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for it is only through Him that we have access to the Father and it is only by His name that we are saved and protected. We thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus over your family and we stand in agreement with you for divine protection, restoration and peace that surpasses all understanding.

We hear your cry for protection from exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment, and we agree that the Lord is your refuge and fortress. He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty, we will say of Yahweh, He is our refuge and our fortress, our God in whom we trust Psalm 91:1-2. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4. We pray for that hedge of protection and the full armor of God over you and your children, that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil Ephesians 6:11, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood but against the principalities and powers of darkness Ephesians 6:12. We ask the Lord to command His ministering angels to encamp around you and keep you in all your ways Psalm 91:11.

We must lovingly and firmly address what you have rightly discerned about your older daughter. Your concern that she is living together outside of marriage as if it were marriage is biblically accurate and needs to be called what Scripture calls it, fornication. Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. We are told to flee sexual immorality, every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body 1 Corinthians 6:18. This living arrangement is not a marriage in God's eyes, it opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage as you have witnessed, and it cannot be blessed by God. We rebuke the ungodly counsel that encourages her to live together and even to have children before marriage, and we rebuke the spirit of control, manipulation, jealousy, division and disrespect that this young man and his mother are operating in. We also rebuke the dishonor being shown to you as her parent, for children are commanded to honor your father and mother, which is the first commandment with a promise Ephesians 6:2-3, and to obey your parents in the Lord Ephesians 6:1. When she projects an authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful spirit and demands that your family obey her new ungodly allegiance, she is walking contrary to the biblical teaching she was raised in.

We pray for your older daughter with great compassion, for we see how this stubborn hold and false sense of obligation has blinded her and stolen her gracious, humble, thankful and charitable personality. We pray that the Lord will remove the blinders and break the chains of emotional and spiritual control, that she will see clearly that this young man is not her husband, not her father, not her head and not one ready for the covenant responsibilities of marriage. We pray she will remember she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless and she does not need the approval of this woman who mocks your parenting and your prayers. We ask God to restore to her a hunger for righteousness and to gently draw her back to putting Him first, to honoring her parents, to faithfulness in her church family and to diligence and gratitude in the purposeful job He has blessed her with. We thank God with you for her promotion and we pray her workplace will be protected from jealous and disruptive interference. We pray she will no longer be unequally yoked with an unbeliever 2 Corinthians 6:14 but will, if it is God's will for her to marry, wait for a godly spouse, a man who will love her as Christ also loved the church Ephesians 5:25 and who will honor the covenant of marriage as God intended. We ask the Lord to frustrate every plot and scheme to divide and isolate her and to restore the years that have been stolen Joel 2:25.

We also lift up your younger daughter and we join you in asking for a special hedge of protection over her. We pray she will remain steadfast in her faith, humble and thankful, honoring her parents, and that she will not be swayed by the ungodly example of living together outside of marriage. We pray the Lord will block every divisive tactic aimed at her and keep her pure and focused on her studies, her health and her walk with the Lord, surrounding her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. We pray she will never see fornication as an acceptable path but will pursue courtship with the goal of marriage to a Christian believer.

We lift up your beloved son and we declare his life is precious, valuable and deeply loved by God, fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed toward him and toward his disabilities. We pray the Lord will shine His bright light in every dark space, grant him peace that surpasses all understanding Philippians 4:7, restore his progress with no more setbacks, and give him peaceful nights and joyful days. We pray he will always feel loved, accepted, included and protected, and that his relationship with his sisters will be completely healed and restored. We ask for wisdom for you, for his caregivers, doctors and care team as you work to bring out the best in him daily.

We pray for you, for strength, wisdom and discernment not to grow weary in well doing Galatians 6:9. We ask that the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7, and that God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19. We dedicate your home anew to the Lord and ask Him to anoint every room, door, window and hallway and fill your dwelling with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness, saturating your surroundings with His light. We declare with you that every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt and destroy your family will fail, for Yahweh will fight for you, and you shall be still Exodus 14:14.

Father, we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children, covering them with Your protection, peace and favor. Break the stubborn hold, remove the false obligation, expose and frustrate every manipulative plan, and gently guide this older daughter back to freedom, to her family, to her faith and to Your truth. Restore unity, joy, fellowship and togetherness in this family forever, and let this home be a beacon of Your light everywhere they go. We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
 
We hear how heavy and long this road has been for you, and how painful it is to watch your older daughter change under pressures you can see so clearly while she cannot. Loving her while feeling disrespected, exhausted, and divided at home takes a real toll, and we are praying for your strength and steadiness as you keep caring for all three of your children.

What you describe fits what many families experience when boundaries grow unclear. A boundary is simply like a property line that helps each person know what is theirs to carry, their choices, values, time and responsibilities, and what is not. When those lines blur, a person can feel a false sense of obligation to carry burdens that were never hers, and find it hard to say yes and no freely even with people she loves. Learning to hold that line with calm clarity is not rejecting your daughter, it is protecting your own heart and home so you can love her well over the long haul.

One steady next step that often helps is to get support for yourself as you sort those lines. Consider sitting with a trusted pastor or counselor just for you, to decide what you will and will not allow in your home and conversations, how you will stay warmly connected to your older daughter without debating the relationship, and how you will keep a hedge of protection around your younger daughter and son. You do not have to figure all of this alone.

Father, we lift this mother and her children to You in Jesus' name. Cover their home with Your peace and protection, guard their hearts and their travel, and give this mom wisdom and rest. Gently lead her older daughter back to clarity, safety and freedom, keep her younger daughter and son steadfast and joyful, and restore unity and kindness in their family in Your time. Amen.
 

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