Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen

 

[Zedekiah]

The heavenly Father is not done inscribing his word in my heart. And the act of praying. And the act of denying myself pleasures and indulgences that were evil and gross agaiant his plan for marriage. His plan for love. Chastity and sobriety. The Lord continue to watch over you and your son thank you God for watching over ###. Thank you Lord Yeahua for bringing us togeyber today to pray to you and Father God. Thank you holy spirit for entering our hearts as we continue to till this soil of our hearts for you to grow in us. Lord Yeshuas name amen.

 

[Articles]

We stand with you in prayer together and we hear the weight and exhaustion you are carrying for your family and especially for your older daughter. We join you in pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children and we ask the Lord to surround your home with His peace that surpasses all understanding and with His hedge of protection and with His ministering angels.

We want to speak clearly and lovingly about what you have described because it is at the heart of the spiritual battle for your daughter. You have said your older daughter is living together with this young man outside of marriage and treating that lifestyle as if it were marriage, and that his mother is encouraging her to continue in that way and even to have children before marriage. The Word of God teaches that this is fornication and it is sin before the Lord. We must not call it marriage when it is not marriage. Marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman that honors God, and it is honorable in all things as taught in Hebrews 13:4. Living together outside of marriage opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage as you have rightly discerned, and Scripture calls us to flee sexual immorality in 1 Corinthians 6:18. Forgiveness does not mean remaining in a sinful or toxic living arrangement or continuing to be financially burdened and controlled by a man who is not her husband. We rebuke the ungodly counsel that tells her to simply forgive and stay while continuing in sin, and we rebuke the spirit of control, manipulation, jealousy and division that is trying to isolate her from you, from her siblings, from her church family and from the faith in which she was raised. We also affirm that a courtship should be with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, and that we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers as taught in 2 Corinthians 6:14. A boyfriend is not a husband, he is not her father, he is not her spiritual head, and he is not to have the authority of a husband over her.

We also hear your pain about the disrespect and the dishonoring of parents that has entered your home. The Lord commands children to honor their father and mother in Exodus 20:12 and again in Ephesians 6:1. When your daughter projects that authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behavior toward you and toward her siblings and demands that your family obey this young man and his mother as if they were her new family, that is not of the Lord. That young man's mother has no biblical authority to act as a parent in your daughter's life, to mock your parenting or your prayers, or to mentor your daughters into disobedience. Her jealousy and overreach are rooted in pride and selfishness and we ask the Lord to expose those motives and to frustrate every plan to divide and corrupt your family as you have prayed in Exodus 14:14 where the Lord will fight for you.

We pray together now for your family.

Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before You together on behalf of this mother and her children. Lord we thank You that You are our refuge and fortress in Psalm 91:2 and that no weapon that is formed against us will prosper in Isaiah 54:17 and that greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world in 1 John 4:4. We put on the whole armor of God in Ephesians 6:11 and we ask You to command Your angels to encamp around this family in Psalm 34:7 and Psalm 91:11. Lord we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother, over her older daughter, her younger daughter and her son, over their home, every room, every door, every window and over their travel and their workplace. Saturate them with Your Holy Spirit and let Your light drive out all darkness.

Lord we lift up the older daughter to You. Have mercy upon her and open her eyes to see the truth that this young man is not her husband and this lifestyle is not marriage. Remove the blinders, break the stubborn chains, and remove the false sense of obligation and commitment that has been placed upon her. We ask You to break the ungodly hold, control and brainwashing that this young man and his mother have over her. Restore to her a humble, gracious and thankful spirit, and draw her back to putting You first, to honoring her parents again, to being grateful for the work You have given her and for the promotion You have blessed her with, and to returning to her church family. Convict her to block these negative influences and to flee this toxic living environment swiftly and to no longer defend this relationship or carry financial burdens that are not hers to bear. Lead her into godly wisdom and keep her from moving deeper into this bondage. We pray that if it is Your will for her to marry, You will bring a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church in Ephesians 5:25 and who will honor the covenant of marriage.

Lord we place a hedge of protection over the younger daughter. Keep her steadfast in her faith and protect her heart, her studies, her health and her future. Block this young man and his mother and every divisive influence from preying upon her good character. Surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in Your ways and help her to see that living together outside of marriage is never an acceptable path, but that she should seek a spouse who honors You.

Father we lift up the precious son. We declare his life is valuable and deeply loved by You. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed toward him and toward his disabilities. Saturate him with Your peace and joy, grant him Your patience and wisdom to use his functional language in a godly manner to express his wants and needs, and restore his progress, his peace, his joy and the beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Let him always feel loved, accepted, included and protected and never a burden, and let him be a beacon of Your light wherever he goes. Grant wisdom to his mother, caregivers, doctors and care team as they work to bring out the best in him daily.

Lord we pray for this mother who has been worn down by worry, chaos, isolation and disrespect. Let the peace of God which surpasses all understanding guard her heart and mind in Christ Jesus in Philippians 4:7. Supply all her needs according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus in Philippians 4:19 and restore the years that the enemy has stolen in Joel 2:25. Mend what has been torn, heal the unity, joy and fellowship of this family, and let their home be dedicated to You and be a beacon of Your light.

We declare together that every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt and destroy this family will fail, for You fight for us. We ask all of this in the mighty and only saving name of Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer, through whom we have access to the Father. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been praying with you as you carry this heavy burden for your family. To love your children so deeply and watch confusion and disrespect grow in your home, especially with your older daughter pulling away, is exhausting and heartbreaking. We hear how much you want peace and unity restored, and protection over each of your children.

One thing that stood out to us is how hard you are trying to hold everything together while others are pulling in different directions. In seasons like this, it can help to remember that loving well also includes having clear boundaries. A boundary is simply knowing what is yours to carry and what is not, and where your home and your peace need to be guarded. It does not mean shutting your daughter out, but it does mean you can be steady and kind while also being clear about what is and is not okay in your own home and in your relationships.

A couple of gentle next steps that may help you find steadier ground:

Keep the door open with your older daughter in small, calm ways, even a brief check-in or prayer text, so she knows your love is not dependent on agreement. At the same time, decide peacefully what you will and will not allow in your home and with your younger children, and hold that line consistently.

Lean on one or two trusted, godly people nearby, a pastor or mature mentor, who can walk with you personally and help you think through next decisions for your family.

Father, we lift this mom and her children to You in Jesus' name. Surround them with Your peace and protection, guard their home, and give this mother wisdom, strength and rest. Draw each child close to You, guide the older daughter to clarity and safety, keep the younger daughter and son sheltered in Your care, and restore what has been strained in this family in Your time and way. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been laid before the Lord with many tears, and we join our hearts with yours in seeking His mercy and deliverance for your household.

We hear the weariness in your words, the heaviness of division and disrespect, the pain of watching a beloved daughter walk in a way that grieves you and dishonors the Lord. It is right that you should bring this burden to the throne of grace, for there only is help to be found. The Scripture teaches us that troubles do not spring out of the dust, but the Lord Himself sits as a Refiner at the door of the furnace. When affliction comes, even when it comes distinctly through the malice or folly of others, we may see the hand of a Father who chastens those whom He loves. This truth may wisely moderate our anger against second causes, and turn our eyes more fully to Him who is able to deliver.

You have pleaded the blood of Jesus, and therein is your hope. We are reminded that God has found a ransom. Deliverance was not devised by man, but invented by Divine love. The Lord says, Deliver him from going down to the Pit, I have found a ransom. That ransom is Christ Jesus our Lord, who alone is the way of salvation. There is no other name by which we must be saved, and no other sacrifice that can cover sin and cleanse the conscience. It is this same Christ who is able to save from the power of sin as well as from its guilt. Deliverance from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin, and we must look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone for it.

We pray with you that the Lord would set a hedge about you and your children, and give His angels charge over you, and clothe you in the whole armor of God. We ask that He would frustrate every scheme to divide and isolate and corrupt your family, and that He would keep your home as an ark of safety. As Noah and his family found all their fellowship within the ark, so may your house be consecrated to the Lord, every room and door given to Him, that your communion may be in Christ and your delight in His ways. Family prayer is the nutriment of family piety, and we exhort you to continue steadfast in it, even when mocked or despised by others.

For your older daughter, our prayer is not that God would bless a path that His Word calls sin, for He has ordained that marriage should be the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the intimacies of marriage belong only within that covenant. To treat a life lived together outside of marriage as though it were marriage opens the door to deception, to spiritual bondage, and to the very exploitation and confusion you have described. We therefore do not ask the Lord to prosper that arrangement, but to open her eyes to see it truly, to break the false sense of obligation that binds her, and to grant her repentance and freedom. We pray that she would remember she is a child of the Most High God, that she has a loving family and a church home, and that she need not seek the approval of those who would draw her from the faith in which she was raised. May the Lord gently lead her to honor her parents, to be grateful and humble, to return to the fellowship of the saints, and to put Christ first in her life again. May He restore to her that gracious and thankful spirit which once adorned her, and remove the authoritative and disrespectful manner she has lately taken up.

For your younger daughter, we pray a special keeping. May the Lord preserve her in the way of truth, guard her studies and her health, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the Lord. We pray that she may never be swayed to think that living together outside of marriage is an acceptable path, but that she would hold fast to the sanctity of marriage and seek, in the Lord's time, a spouse who honors Christ and loves as Christ loves the church. Keep her, O Lord, from the divisive tactics of those who would prey upon her good character.

For your son, whom God has given as a blessing and not a burden, we pray for that peace which passes all understanding to guard his heart. We rebuke every word of hatred and mockery spoken against him, and declare his life to be precious in the sight of God. May the Lord grant you and all who care for him wisdom, patience, and joy, and restore to him and to his sister that loving fellowship which has been strained. May he be kept in safety and know himself deeply loved and included.

For yourself, we pray for strength and discernment, and for that peace of God which shall keep your heart and mind through Christ Jesus. We pray that the Lord would provide for your needs according to His riches in glory, not for selfish gain but that you may be a testimony of His provision. We pray that He would restore the years that have been eaten away by strife, and mend what has been torn.

We ask all this not because there is merit in us, but because God is gracious and has found a ransom. May He who has delivered us from the power of darkness continue to deliver you, and may you yet live to declare the works of the Lord in the midst of your family.

We commit you and your children into the hands of our faithful Redeemer, praying in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our only Savior. Amen.

 

[Wernad]

May the Lord surround this family with His divine protection, break every toxic hold and ungodly influence over their daughter, and restore unity, peace, and righteousness in their home. May He open her eyes to deception, remove false obligation, and gently guide her back to His will, her family, and her faith. May the younger daughter and son be shielded from all harm, manipulation, and division. *"No weapon that is formed against you shall prosper"* (Isaiah 54:17). *"So if the Son sets you free, you will be free indeed"* (John 8:36). *"The Lord fights for you; you need only to be still"* (Exodus 14:14). *"The peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus"* (Philippians 4:7). Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.