Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen

 

[Articles]

We join with you in prayer together in Jesus' name and we stand with you for the protection and restoration of your family. We hear your cry for your children and for the unity of your home, and we bring every part of this burden before the throne of grace.

We see clearly that the Lord has placed a deep discernment in your heart about the situation with your older daughter. You have described a young man and his mother who are bringing exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment into your family, and we agree with you that this influence must be confronted in prayer and in truth. You are right to plead the blood of Jesus over your family and to ask for the hedge of protection and the full armor of God, for we wrestle not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces, and we are told to put on the whole armor of God that we may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil Ephesians 6:11. The Lord is faithful, who will establish you and guard you from the evil one 2 Thessalonians 3:3, and He will give His angels charge over you to keep you in all your ways Psalm 91:11.

We must speak plainly and lovingly about what you have shared concerning your older daughter living together with this young man outside of marriage and being told to have children before marriage. This is not marriage in the eyes of God. The Bible teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant between a man and a woman Genesis 2:24, Mark 10:6-9, and that marriage is to be held in honor among all and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers Hebrews 13:4. To live together as if married without the covenant of marriage is fornication, and we are commanded to flee sexual immorality 1 Corinthians 6:18. It opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage as you have so accurately discerned, and it cannot be blessed by God. We rebuke this ungodly counsel from this young man's mother and any other negative influence that would encourage your daughter to treat this cohabitation as marriage, and we pray that your daughter will see that this man is not her husband, not her covering, and not one to whom she owes the loyalty and obedience that belongs to the Lord and within the proper order of family. We pray she will no longer carry a false sense of obligation and commitment that God has not placed on her.

We also grieve with you over the change you see in your older daughter, that she who was once gracious, grateful, humble, charitable and faithful to biblical teaching is now projecting authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behavior toward you, her siblings and even her workplace to please this young man and his mother. The Word tells children to obey their parents in the Lord, for this is right, and to honor father and mother that it may be well with them Ephesians 6:1-3. When she demands that your family obey her new family and that your younger daughter look up to this young man, she is walking contrary to that command. We pray that the blinders will be removed and that she will again honor her parents, be thankful for her family and for the work God has given her, and return to the church family where she was raised in the ways of the Lord. Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers 2 Corinthians 6:14 is a call not only for marriage but for all close entanglements that pull a believer away from Christ.

We lift up your younger daughter together with you. We ask the Lord to put a hedge of protection around her as she lives closer to her school, to guard her heart and mind from divisive tactics, jealousy and manipulation, and to keep her steadfast in her faith. We pray she will be surrounded by godly friendships and mentors and that she will never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but will in due time seek a godly spouse, a Christian believer who will love her as Christ loves the church Ephesians 5:25 and honor the covenant of marriage.

We lift up your precious son and we thank God for his life and for the peaceful night the Lord granted him. We declare with you that he is fearfully and wonderfully made Psalm 139:14, deeply loved and a blessing and never a burden. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion that has been directed toward him because of his disabilities, and we ask the Lord to shine His light in every dark space, to restore his progress with no more setbacks, and to grant him peace that surpasses all understanding Philippians 4:7. We pray that the beautiful relationship he once had with his sister will be completely restored, and that he will always feel loved, accepted, included and protected. We pray for wisdom for you, for caregivers, doctors and his whole care team as you work to bring out the best in him daily.

We pray for you as a mother who is weary from this long battle. Do not grow weary in doing good, for in due season you will reap if you do not give up Galatians 6:9. The Lord sees your faithfulness in praying for your children when you are mocked and criticized for it, and He hears you. We ask for strength, wisdom and discernment for you, and for financial provision that He will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:19, not for selfish gain but so your family may be a testimony of His provision. We declare with you that no weapon that is formed against you will prosper Isaiah 54:17 and that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4. The Lord will fight for you and you shall hold your peace Exodus 14:14.

We pray together now. Father, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ we come before You and we plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and her children, over their home, every room, every door, every window, every hallway and every corner of their property. We ask for Your ministering angels and Your hedge of protection like that which You placed around Job Job 1:10 to encamp around them and keep them from all harm Psalm 121:7. Let the peace of God which surpasses all understanding guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus Philippians 4:7. We ask You to saturate them with Your peace, favor, unity and love and fill them with Your Holy Spirit and remove all darkness from their path. We ask You to frustrate every plot, scheme and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide and destroy this family, and to remove all division, manipulation, control and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate their home. We ask You to remove every generational curse, word curse and negative influence. We ask You to expose and block the jealousy, pride, arrogance and selfishness of this young man's mother and to stop her overreach and disrespect, and we pray that the father of this young man would intervene with truth and direct his son to return home alone and take responsibility for his own life. We ask You to gently break the stubborn chains and false obligation that bind this older daughter, open her eyes to the red flags and to the harm this environment is causing to her health, finances, relationships and future, and guide her swiftly out of this toxic and ungodly entanglement and back to You first, to her supportive family, to her church and to her purposeful work. Restore her gracious and humble personality. We pray You will restore what the locusts have eaten Joel 2:25 and that this family will be a beacon of Your light everywhere they go. We pray for safe travel and for blessed days and nights filled with Your joy, fellowship and satisfaction. We pray for godly spouses for these daughters in Your perfect timing, men who honor You and cherish the sanctity of marriage. We thank You for hearing us and we trust You to act, for You are our refuge and fortress Psalm 91:2. We pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how long you have carried this and how painful it is to watch your older daughter pull away and take on a different way of speaking and living, while you are trying to protect your younger daughter, your son and the peace of your home. It makes sense that you feel exhausted and torn between deep love for her and the need to guard what God has entrusted to you.

We are praying with you for God's protection and for His peace to rest over you and your children. One thing that has helped other parents in a similar place is learning to hold both love and clear boundaries at the same time. A boundary is simply a property line for what you can steward, like your home, your time, your words and your peace. It does not force your daughter to make a different choice, but it does let you decide calmly what you will and will not participate in, and it keeps the door open for relationship without being pulled into constant conflict.

It can help to keep communication brief, kind and consistent, to keep your home a steady place of rest for your younger children, and to lean on one or two trusted godly people who can support you personally as you walk through this so you are not carrying it alone.

Father, we lift this mother and her children to You. Surround them with Your protection and peace, guard their home, give wisdom for each conversation, and gently draw her older daughter back to You and to what is good and true. Give this family rest and renewed unity in the days ahead. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your poured out prayer has been heard, and the Lord who hears the cries of His people has not shut His ear against you. You have come as a mother burdened for years, wearied by division and disrespect, and you have done well to bring all the necessities of your household before God, to mention each child by name and to plead the blood of Jesus Christ over them. It is a glorious thing to have such a well in the family where prayer is made continually, for deliverance from sin and from every evil influence is solely by the power of God, and it is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy.

We join you in prayer for Divine protection over you and your children, for that peace which surpasses all understanding to guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and for a hedge of protection and the full armor of God to be about you in your home, in your travels, and in every dark place where the enemy would sow chaos, exhaustion, isolation and torment. We plead with you that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, for greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world, and the Lord Himself fights for you.

For your older daughter we pray with special earnestness. We do not ask God to bless what His Word calls sin, for He has ordained that marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together apart from that covenant is not marriage and opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage. We pray instead for her deliverance from the power of darkness, that the Lord who has found a ransom in His Son would break the stubborn chains, the false sense of obligation and commitment, and the ungodly influence that holds her. May the Lord open her eyes to see that this young man is not her husband, not her covering, not her father and not her master, and that the burden she carries for him is not hers to bear. We pray that she would be turned again to put Christ first, to honor her father and mother as the commandment requires, to be grateful for the purposeful work God has given her and to return to the fellowship of the church where she was raised in the ways of the Lord. May the Lord restore to her that gracious, humble, thankful and charitable spirit, and remove all that is authoritative, disrespectful and hateful which she has taken upon herself to please others. We pray that she would no longer defend or obey a relationship that dishonors God, that she would see clearly the red flags, the financial hardship and the harm to her health, her future and her family, and that she would be gently led back to a place of safety, stability and wisdom, not with regret but with freedom, peace and restoration. We ask that every scheme to divide and isolate her from her supportive family would be frustrated, and that she would know she is a child of the Most High God, not homeless and not in need of the approval of those who would draw her away.

For the young man and his mother we pray also that the Lord would frustrate every plot and divisive tactic, every word of mockery against your parenting and your prayers, every encouragement to humiliate and disrespect you, and every counsel to live together and to bear children outside of marriage. Such counsel has no authority in your daughter's life and is rooted in pride and selfishness. We pray that the Lord would expose what is ungodly, block its influence over your children, and bring conviction and repentance where there is rebellion, control and jealousy. We pray that the father of that household would act with wisdom to call his son to responsibility.

For your younger daughter we pray for a steadfast hedge about her. Keep her, O Lord, from being swayed by an ungodly example. Protect her studies, her health and her faith, surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord, and keep her pure in heart that she would never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, nor be unequally yoked, but would in due time, if it be Your will, be given a spouse who loves as Christ loves the church and honors the covenant of marriage.

For your son we lift up tender supplication. The Lord pities His children as a father pities his own, and He has special pity for the least and feeblest of His family. We pray that your son would always feel and be loved, accepted, included and protected, never a burden but a blessing as he truly is. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed toward him, and we ask the Lord to anoint your home, every room and every corner, to restore his progress, to grant him peaceful nights and days, to give him functional language and Godly manner to express his needs, and to restore the loving and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. May he be a beacon of Your light wherever he goes.

For you, we pray for strength, wisdom and discernment, for financial provision according to Philippians 4:19 not for selfish gain but that your family may be a testimony of God's provision, and for the restoration of what the enemy has sought to steal. The Lord has chastened and tried you, but He has not forsaken you. Though you have been slandered and worn down with worry, remember it is often the lot of God's servants to bear reproach among worldlings, yet God has not forgotten you. He brought Israel forth with silver and gold, and He is able to bring you forth with enrichment out of this trial. He has delivered us from worse enemies by a greater salvation, and He will deliver you in His time.

We pray that your home would be dedicated anew to Christ, filled with the Holy Spirit, with all darkness removed and saturated with His light, that you would be a family that declares the works of the Lord after affliction and deliverance, and that godly spouses would in the Lord's timing be provided for your daughters, men who will lead in righteousness.

May the Lord grant you to see deliverance come when the Lamb is honored, for our deliverance was attended with the slaying of the Lamb, and through His ransom we have certain hope. Rest in this, that God Himself has said, I have found a ransom, and therefore deliverance is sure for all who trust in Jesus Christ alone for salvation.

We continue to bear you and your children before the throne of grace, asking that the Lord would remove all generational and word curses and negative influences, that He would mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost, to the praise of His grace. In the mighty name of Jesus our Savior and Redeemer we pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.