Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen
 
We stand with you in this heavy burden and we join our faith with yours for the protection, peace and restoration of your family in the mighty name of Jesus Christ.

We hear your cry against exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment and we agree that the Lord is your refuge and fortress. We thank you for pleading the blood of Jesus over yourself and your children, for that is our covering and our hope. We declare with you that no weapon that is formed against you will prosper, for this is the heritage of the servants of the Lord as it is written in Isaiah 54:17, and greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world as it is written in 1 John 4:4. We also declare that the Lord will fight for you and you shall hold your peace according to Exodus 14:14.

We must speak clearly in love about what has been revealed in your request concerning your older daughter. You have shared that she is living together with this young man outside of marriage and treating that arrangement as if it were marriage, even being advised to have children before marriage. Scripture is clear that this is fornication and it is outside of God's design. Marriage is to be held in honor among all and the marriage bed is to be undefiled as it is written in Hebrews 13:4, and we are commanded to flee sexual immorality as it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18. Living together outside of marriage opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage just as you have discerned, and it can never carry the covering, commitment and blessing that God gives to the covenant of marriage between a man and a woman for life. We do not condemn your daughter, we love her and we pray for her freedom, but we must call this what it is and pray that her eyes will be opened to see that this young man is not her husband, not her head, and not one to whom she owes the loyalty and obedience that belongs to the Lord and within marriage. We also gently rebuke the disrespect and dishonor that has been directed toward you as her mother. The command to honor your father and your mother is the first commandment with a promise as it is written in Ephesians 6:2, and when that order is broken there is confusion in the home.

We also discern the ungodly influence of this young man and his mother. It is not right for this woman to mock your parenting, to mock your prayers, to encourage your daughters to humiliate you, or to position herself as a spiritual mother demanding loyalty and giving counsel that directly opposes biblical teaching. That is rooted in pride and selfishness and we pray that the Lord will frustrate those schemes and expose them. We are called to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers as it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14, and to seek counsel from those who walk in wisdom and the fear of the Lord. The advice to live together and to bear children outside of marriage is not godly counsel and must be rejected.

We pray for your older daughter with great compassion. We see that she was once gracious, grateful, humble, charitable and faithful to biblical teaching, and we believe the Lord can restore that gracious spirit. We pray that the false sense of obligation, the stubborn hold and the spiritual blindness will be broken. We pray that she will be delivered from carrying a burden that is not hers to bear, including financially carrying this young man, and that she will remember she is a child of the Most High God with a loving and supportive family and a purposeful work that God has blessed, including this recent promotion which we thank God for. We pray she will once again put the Lord first, return to her church family, honor her parents, and be thankful for the work the Lord has given her. We pray for a hedge of protection around her workplace and that every jealous and disruptive influence be kept far from it.

We pray for your younger daughter that the Lord will keep her pure, steadfast and humble. We ask for a hedge of protection over her as she lives closer to her school, that no prey would come near her and that she would never see living together outside of marriage as acceptable. We pray she will stay rooted in her faith, honor you, and be surrounded by godly friendships and mentors who encourage her in the ways of the Lord. We pray she will one day, if it is the Lord's will for her to marry, seek a godly spouse who loves her as Christ loved the church as it is written in Ephesians 5:25, and who honors the covenant of marriage.

We pray for your precious son. We declare that his life is fearfully and wonderfully made and deeply valued by God. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion that has been directed toward him because of his disabilities, and we declare that he is not a burden but a blessing. We pray the Lord will shine His light in every dark space, grant him peace that surpasses all understanding as it is written in Philippians 4:7, restore his progress with no more setbacks, grant him peaceful nights, functional language spoken in a godly manner to express his needs, and surround him with love, acceptance and inclusion. We pray the beautiful relationship he had with his sister will be completely restored.

We pray for you, for strength, wisdom and discernment as you stand in the gap for your family. Do not grow weary in doing good for in due season you will reap if you do not give up as it is written in Galatians 6:9. Put on the whole armor of God that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil as it is written in Ephesians 6:11, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood but against principalities and powers as it is written in Ephesians 6:12. We pray the Lord will send His ministering angels to encamp around you as it is written in Psalm 34:7 and Hebrews 1:14, anoint every room, door, window and corner of your home, and saturate your surroundings with His light. We pray for safe travel, for financial provision according to Philippians 4:19 that your home may be a blessing to others, and for the peace of God to guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, we come before You only through the name of Jesus Christ Your Son, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved and have access to Your throne of grace. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and over each of her children, her older daughter, her younger daughter and her son. We ask for Your divine hedge of protection, Your full armor and Your ministering angels to surround them day and night.

Lord, we ask You to break every stubborn chain, every false obligation, every word curse, generational curse and negative influence that has sought to divide, isolate and bring chaos into this family. Frustrate every plot and scheme of the enemy to destroy unity and corrupt what You have called good. Remove the controlling, authoritative, disrespectful and hateful influence of this young man and the jealous, manipulative influence of his mother far from this family. Let that mother focus on her own household and release these children from her hold.

Father, have mercy upon the older daughter. Open her eyes to see the red flags, the financial hardship, the harm to her health, relationships and future, and the toxicity of living outside of Your design for marriage. Gently and swiftly lead her out of this entanglement, back to You, back to her family, back to her church, back to honoring her parents, and back to the gracious humble woman You created her to be. Restore to her freedom, peace and joy and restore the years that have been stolen as You have promised in Joel 2:25.

Protect the younger daughter and keep her pure and steadfast. Protect the son and let him feel deeply loved and protected every day. Fill this home with Your Holy Spirit, with unity, fellowship, togetherness and satisfaction. Let this family be a beacon of Your light everywhere they go. We trust You to mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded and restore what has been lost, for You are our healer and deliverer. We pray all these things in the mighty and matchless name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
 
We hear the weight you are carrying and how painful it has been to watch your older daughter change and feel division growing in a home you have tried to keep loving and faithful. Wanting protection and peace for your children while feeling disrespected and worn down is exhausting, and we are grateful you brought it to the Lord so honestly.

One thing that has helped other parents in a similar tangle is thinking of boundaries as property lines. You cannot make your daughter's choices for her, and carrying her relationship as if it were yours will only drain you further. You can be clear about what you will and will not take responsibility for in your own home, time and conversations, and keep loving her without trying to control her. That clarity preserves freedom and keeps a door open.

It may help to sit with a trusted pastor or mentor this week and name one or two steady boundaries you can keep calmly, for example how you will respond when disrespect happens in your home and how you will stay in caring contact with your older daughter without debating the living arrangement each time. Keep covering your younger daughter and son with that same steady presence and let your pastor know how they are doing too.

Father, we lift this mom and her children to You in Jesus' name. Surround their home with Your peace and protection, guard their hearts and give this mother wisdom and rest. Gently lead her older daughter back to You, to family and to healthy community, and keep her younger daughter and son safe and encouraged in their faith and daily lives. Give them all a sense of Your nearness today. Amen.
 
Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, deliver, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. I ask this for them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.
 
Your earnest and burdened prayer has been heard, and it is a glorious thing to have such a well in the family where in prayer with the children you can bring all the necessities of the household before God and mention each child by name.

The Lord knows the exhaustion and division and chaos of which you speak, and He is not deaf to the cry of a mother who pleads the blood of Jesus Christ over her children. We are reminded that deliverance from sin and deliverance from the power of darkness is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs but of God that shows mercy. He alone brings forth His people and He makes their deliverance effectual. When the lamb was slain, the captives were brought forth also with silver and gold, enriched and not left poor. So we look to our heavenly Father altogether and alone for the deliverance of your household.

We join you in praying for a hedge of protection about you and your children, that the peace of God which passes all understanding may guard your hearts and minds in Christ Jesus, and that no weapon formed against you shall prosper, for greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world. We pray that the Lord would frustrate every plot and scheme of the enemy to isolate and divide and destroy, and that He would expose and bring to nothing all manipulation and control and jealousy that seeks to infiltrate your home. The Lord shall fight for you and ye shall hold your peace.

For your older daughter we pray with special tenderness and urgency. You have rightly discerned that living together outside of marriage is not marriage and is not to be treated as marriage. The Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that living together and the intimacies of marriage belong only within that covenant. To step outside that holy order opens the door to deception and spiritual bondage and financial hardship and the sorrow you now witness. We do not ask God to bless what He has called outside His will, but we do ask Him to open her eyes to the truth, to remove the false sense of obligation and the stubborn chains that bind her, and to show her that this young man is not her husband nor her head nor her master, and that the burden she carries for him is not hers to bear.

There is hope in Peter's restoration. Peter was down but he was soon up again, and that restoration was wrought by a look from the Lord. One look from Christ severed Peter from the crowd and brought him to repentance. So we pray that the Lord would give your daughter such a look of love and conviction, that He would gently guide her back to Himself first, then to the faith in which she was raised, to honor for her parents, to gratitude for her work and to the fellowship of her church family. We thank God with you for the purposeful promotion He has granted her, and we pray she may see it as a stewardship from Him and not be turned aside from it. We pray that she would no longer defend what harms her, nor seek the approval of those who encourage her to dishonor God and her family, and that the Lord would replace stubbornness with a hunger for righteousness. May she find that God has found a ransom, even Christ Himself, and that deliverance is freely given through Him.

We pray also concerning the influence of this young man and his mother. We do not return evil for evil, but we do pray that the Lord would block every ungodly counsel that advises living together or bearing children before marriage, and that He would frustrate every divisive tactic meant to set sister against sister and daughter against mother. May the Lord show that woman that she has no parental authority in your daughter's life, and may He turn her heart to attend to her own household rather than to divide yours. We pray for the father of this young man too, that he would act with wisdom and call his son to responsibility. Above all we pray for the salvation of these souls, for the Lord is able to deliver even those who now oppose His ways.

For your younger daughter we pray that the Lord would keep a hedge about her as she lives nearer her school, that He would protect her studies and her health and her faith, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she remain steadfast and humble and thankful, and may she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but may she in due time, if it be the Lord's will, seek a spouse who honors Christ and values the sanctity of marriage.

For your dear son we pray that the Lord who shines His bright light into every dark space would grant him peace and joy and the full sense of being loved and included and protected. His life is precious in the sight of God and deeply loved. We rebuke every spirit of hatred and mockery and exclusion directed toward him, and we ask that the Lord would restore to him peaceful nights and steady progress without setback, and restore the loving and beautiful relationship he once knew with his sister. May He grant wisdom to you and to all his caregivers and doctors and care team as you labor daily to bring out the best in him.

For you, who have carried this burden for years, we pray for strength and wisdom and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry and fear, but the Lord has chastened you sorely and yet has not given you over unto death. You shall not die but live and declare the works of the Lord. If we had no troubles we would have less to declare, but having passed through deep waters you shall have a song of deliverance to sing. Deborah sang concerning the overthrow of Israel's enemies, but we have a far richer theme for music, for we have been delivered from worse enemies and saved by a greater salvation. Let your gratitude be deeper even in this trial.

We dedicate your home anew to the Lord with you, asking that He would anoint every room and door and window and hallway and every corner of your property, and saturate your surroundings with His light, removing all darkness from your path. We pray for safe travel for you and your family, that you may be a beacon of His light everywhere you go, and for financial provision not for selfish gain but that your family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of His provision. We pray for godly spouses for your daughters in the Lord's time, men who will love them as Christ loves the church and lead them in righteousness and honor the covenant of marriage as He intended.

Take comfort, for the clock of mercy strikes in Heaven the hour and moment of deliverance as the eternal purpose of Jehovah has decreed it. He who delivered Israel with silver and gold is able to bring your daughter forth and to mend what has been torn and heal what has been wounded and restore what has been lost. Continue steadfast in prayer, keep your home open in love, speak the truth in gentleness, and trust Him who is your habitation from generation to generation.

We plead all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer, who has found the ransom and secured our deliverance from the pit. Amen.
 

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