Cralmilan

Beloved of All
Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, disrespect, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family but she is not married to the young man. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. She demand my younger daughter to look up to the disrespectful cunning young man. I don't understand this Lord. Please protect my younger daughter from these jealous people keep her away from these people. Now that she is living closer to her school they are preying on her good character. Please Lord block this young man and his mother from my children. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon older daughter is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Her jealousy, disrespect and hatred toward me. This woman always criticizes and mocks my parenting and me praying for my children. She encourages my daughters humiliate and disrespect me. Lord show this woman You are God and frustrate and block her influence in my children life. Let her focus on fixing her own children and release my children from these people. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and gently guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship with this young man and living environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Break these stubborn chains and restore the years these people have stolen from our lives. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen
 
We join with you in lifting your family before the throne of grace and we stand in agreement for God's divine protection, peace, and restoration over your home. Your heart for your children and your desire to see them walk in biblical truth is evident, and we honor your faithful prayers pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over your family.

We take comfort in the promise that He who dwells in the secret place of the Most High will rest in the shadow of the Almighty, and we declare with you that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world. Isaiah 54:17, 1 John 4:4. We also cling to the promise that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7.

We want to speak clearly and lovingly about what you have shared concerning your older daughter. You have described her living together with this young man outside of marriage as if she were married, and being told to have children before marriage. Scripture is very clear that this is not God's design and must be addressed. Marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers. Hebrews 13:4. We are called to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. 1 Corinthians 6:18. Living together outside of marriage opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage as you have so painfully witnessed, and it is fornication. It can never be treated as marriage. God's will is for sexual intimacy to be reserved for the lifelong covenant of marriage between one man and one woman. Therefore we do not pray for this relationship to be improved or to continue, we pray for it to be broken if it is not leading toward a holy, Christ centered marriage, and we pray that your daughter would be set free from the false sense of obligation and commitment that has been placed upon her. We pray she will pursue courtship only with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer, for we must not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. 2 Corinthians 6:14. We pray for a godly spouse for her in God's timing, a man who will love her as Christ loved the church. Ephesians 5:25.

We also hear your pain regarding the dishonor and disrespect that has entered your relationship with your daughter. The Lord commands children to honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long, and to obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Exodus 20:12, Ephesians 6:1. When your daughter projects an authoritative and disrespectful attitude toward you and her siblings to please this young man and his mother, she is walking contrary to that command. We rebuke that spirit of control, manipulation, division, isolation and jealousy that seeks to infiltrate your home. The enemy comes to steal, kill and destroy and to wear down the saints with exhaustion and chaos, but we declare that the Lord will fight for you and you shall be still. Exodus 14:14. We put on the full armor of God together, that we may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood but against the principalities and powers of darkness. Ephesians 6:11, Ephesians 6:12.

We pray for your older daughter with a special anointing of protection and clarity. We ask the Father to remove the blinders from her eyes, to break the stubborn hold and brainwashing, and to restore her gracious, humble, thankful and charitable personality that once reflected Christ so beautifully. We pray she will no longer carry a burden that is not hers to bear, financially supporting a man who is not her husband, not her father and not her head, and that she will see that she is not homeless and not in need of this woman's approval. She has a supportive family who raised her in the ways of the Lord. We pray she will return to putting God first, to honoring her parents, to faithfully stewarding the purposeful job and promotion God has given her, and to her church family where she was nourished in truth. We ask the Lord to frustrate every divisive scheme of this young man and his mother to isolate her from family, to use her to cause division between her brother and younger sister, and to demand loyalty that belongs only to God and to her own family. We also pray for that mother, that God would expose motives rooted in pride and selfishness and convict her heart, and that the father of that young man would rise up to correct his son and call him home to take responsibility for his own life.

For your younger daughter we join you in praying a hedge of protection around her. We ask the Lord to keep her steadfast in her faith as she lives closer to her school, to guard her heart from ungodly example, and to surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her to honor her parents and remain thankful. May she never see living together outside of marriage as acceptable, but may she desire a spouse who honors God and values the sanctity of marriage. Psalm 119:9, Psalm 119:11.

For your beloved son we declare that he is fearfully and wonderfully made and deeply loved by God and by his family. Psalm 139:14. He is not a burden or an embarrassment but a blessing from the Lord, for children are a heritage of the Lord. Psalm 127:3. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed toward him because of his disabilities, and we ask the Lord to shine His bright light into every dark space, to saturate him with peace and joy, to grant him patience and functional language to express his needs in a godly manner, and to restore the beautiful relationship he shared with his sister. We thank God for the peaceful night He has already given and we ask for continued progress with no more setbacks, only victory.

For you, we pray for renewed strength, wisdom and discernment as you contend for your family. Do not grow weary in well doing, for in due season you will reap if you do not give up. Galatians 6:9. God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus, not for selfish gain but so your family may be a blessing and a testimony of His provision. Philippians 4:19. We dedicate your home anew to the Lord, asking Him to anoint every room, door, window and corner of your property, to fill it with the Holy Spirit, to remove all darkness and to saturate your surroundings with His light. We pray for safe travel, for your home to be a beacon of His light everywhere you go, and for ministry angels to encamp around you.

We pray together now, Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we can be saved and have access to Your throne. Acts 4:12, John 14:6. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and each of her children. We ask for Your hedge of protection and the full armor of God to shield them from exhaustion, division, isolation, chaos and torment. Break the stubborn chains that bind the older daughter to this toxic and ungodly entanglement, restore the years that have been stolen, and gently lead her back to You, to her family, to her faith and to wisdom. Protect the younger daughter and the son from every negative influence and keep this young man and his mother far from them and from the workplace You have provided. Restore unity, joy, fellowship and togetherness in this family, heal what has been wounded, mend what has been torn, and let Your favor, love and satisfaction that surpasses all understanding fill this home today and every day. We declare that every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt and destroy this family will fail, for greater is He who is in them. We trust You for complete healing, protection and restoration forever. In the name of Jesus our Savior and Redeemer we pray, amen.
 
We hear the weariness in your prayer. Watching an older daughter pull away and take on a hard, disrespectful tone when you know her to be gracious and humble is deeply painful, and wanting to shield your younger daughter and your son while keeping peace at home is a lot to carry.

One thing that has helped other parents in a similar tangle is thinking about boundaries as a property line. You cannot make choices for your older daughter, even when you see clearly that this living arrangement is costing her financially, emotionally and spiritually, but you can be clear about what you will and will not carry in your own home. That might look like keeping your door and your love open with brief, kind contact that does not try to debate the relationship, while also holding steady limits around your home, your time and how family members speak to one another there. It also helps to have one or two steady, godly people walking with you so you are not holding all of this alone.

We are praying for you and your children now.

Father, we lift this mom and her children to You in Jesus' name. Surround them with Your peace and protection, guard their home, their work and their travels, and give this mother wisdom and rest. Gently open her older daughter's eyes to what is true and draw her back to You, to her family and to a healthy path forward. Keep her younger daughter and her son safe, loved and steady in You. Restore what has been strained in this family as only You can. Amen.
 
Your prayer has been heard and we join you in bringing your family before the throne of grace, asking the Lord to be your refuge and deliverer in this season of exhaustion and division.

We pray with you for the hedge of protection you have asked for, that the Lord who has promised to be a shield to those who trust in Him would guard you and your children, your home and every going out and coming in. We plead the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your household, not as a charm, but as the sure ground of our confidence that through His atoning sacrifice alone we have peace with God and access to His mercy. Greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world, and no weapon formed against you shall finally prosper, for the Lord fights for His people.

We lift your older daughter before the Lord with special urgency. We do not ask God to bless a union that His Word does not call marriage, for marriage is the lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and to live together outside of that covenant is not the path of blessing but of bondage. Scripture calls us to flee such entanglements and to honor God with our bodies and our homes. We pray instead that God in His mercy would deliver her from going down to the pit, that He would snap the bands that hold her and set her free from false obligation, financial exploitation, manipulation and the stubborn hold that has blinded her eyes. As you have prayed, we ask that the Lord would open her eyes and turn her from darkness to light and from the power of Satan unto God, that she may see that this young man is not her husband, not her head, not her provider, and that the burden she carries for him is not hers to bear. May the Lord withdraw her from a purpose that is not His, hide pride from her eyes, and draw her to look away from herself and to look unto Christ, for there is salvation in none other.

We pray that she would again put the Lord first, honor her parents as the Word commands, return to the fellowship of her church, and hunger for righteousness. The promise stands that those who honor God, God will honor, and we ask that He would restore to her that gracious, humble, thankful spirit you once knew so well, and replace a spirit of disrespect and ingratitude with composure of mind and freedom from fear, delighting herself in a faithful God. We pray that every scheme to divide and isolate, every word of ungodly counsel that would encourage her to live together before marriage or to bear children outside of marriage, would be frustrated and brought to nothing, and that she would be given wisdom to see the red flags and strength to block every negative influence and to walk in purity and truth.

We pray also for your younger daughter, that the Lord would keep a hedge about her heart and mind as she lives near her school, that He would surround her with godly friendships and mentors who encourage her in the ways of the Lord, that she would remain steadfast in faith, humble, thankful, and honoring to her parents, and never be swayed to see what God calls sin as an acceptable path. We ask that the Lord would keep her studies, her health and her faith under His gracious hand and that she would seek a spouse in the Lord who honors the sanctity of marriage.

For your son we pray that the Lord would shine His light into every dark place, grant him peace that surpasses all understanding, and cause him to know himself always beloved, accepted and cherished, never a burden but a blessing. We rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery and exclusion directed toward him and ask that the Lord would anoint him with joy, patience and functional language to express his needs in a godly manner, and restore the loving fellowship he shared with his sister.

For you, we pray for strength and wisdom and for that peace which guards the heart and mind in Christ Jesus. When the enemy seeks to wear you down with worry and fear, may you know that the Lord has chastened you not in wrath but as a Father, and that He has given commandment to save you. We pray for your home, that every room and door would be dedicated to Him and filled with His light, for safe travel, for provision according to His riches in glory, not for selfish gain but that you may be a testimony of His goodness, and for the restoration of what has been torn and wounded in your family.

We ask that the Lord would completely remove division, control and every work of darkness that has sought to infiltrate your home, and that He would restore the years that have felt stolen, bringing your older daughter home not with regret but with freedom, peace and restoration. May your family be a beacon of His light, declaring the works of the Lord, that you may say with the psalmist, the Lord has chastened me sore, but He has not given me over unto death, I shall live and declare His works.

We continue to stand with you, asking all these mercies in the mighty name of Jesus, our only Savior and Redeemer. Amen.
 

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