Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Lord, I ask for Your Divine protection over me and my children. Protect us from the exhaustion, division, isolation, chaos and torment that are stemming from this young man, his mother and negative influences. Lord I ask that You remove them from our lives. I plead the blood of Jesus Christ over me and children. Lord, I ask that You saturate me and my children with Your peace, favor, unity and protection. The kind that surpasses all understanding. I declare that no weapon formed against us shall prosper, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). I declare Lord, by Your stripes my family unity, joy, fellowship, togetherness and relationship are completely healed, protected and restored forever. Lord, I ask for a ministry angels, hedge of protection, full armor over me and my children to protect us from the manifestation of the plots and scheme from this young man and his mother hatred, division, isolation and jealousy to destroy the unity of me and my family. It is difficult to see how this man disrespect our family, puts my daughter down and his mother encourage and enables this, then his mother tries to be the hero and ungodly mentors my daughter telling her to forgive him. This has been going on for years. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to remove the stubborn hold, the false obligaton this man and this mother has on her. Jesus, I ask for a special anointment of protection over my daughter today. Guide her to put You first in her life again, follow the biblical teachings, to honor her parent and be grateful for her jobs. Lord, have mercy upon her and guide her to block these people negative influences as I am witness now that it is negatively affecting her jobs, her relationship with our family and all aspect of her life. Lord restore my daughter's graceous humble personality and not project this young man authoritative, disrespectful, hateful personality toward her family. Lately my older daughter has be projecting this young man authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful behaviors toward me and her work to please this young man and his mother. It is hurtful to witness this because she was alway graceous, grateful, thankful, polite, humble, charitable and follows the biblical teachings. Lord, I pray that my daughter will focus on her work, respect, honor her parent again and follow the biblical teachings. Lord, take away the authority, control, divisive and isolation this young man and his mother has upon my older daughter. Lord protect her workplace and keep this jealous disruptive woman and her son away from her workplace. I pray my older daughter will stop putting this young man and his mother before her supportive family, job and her faith. My older daughter could sometime be very distance toward me and her siblings to gain acceptance from this young man and his mother. These people will use divisive tactics to cause division between her brother and her younger sister just to prove to this young man and his mother that she would do anything for them and they are her new family. My daughter demand that our family to obey her new family. She is not even married to his young man. I don't understand this Lord. This stubborn ungodly hold they have upon her is changing her Godly personality and disobeying the Biblical teachings. The loyality this young man's mother demand to have over me is ungodly. Lord, I ask that You have mercy upon my older daughter and guide her back to the biblical teachings and out of this toxic relationship and environment with these people. It breaks my heart to see her so blinded and corrupted by these people. Lord, I ask that You remove this young man, his mother and anyone else away from me and my children that have causes havoc in my family unity, division/isolation/chaos in my family, disrespect and mockery to our faith and my son disablities. Lord I ask for Your ministry angels, hedge of protection and full armor to shield us for all division, exhaustion, chaos, isolation, jealousy, negative influence and spiritual attacks. I pray that me and my family will have safe travel, let us be a beacon of Your light everywhere we go and everything we do. I pray Lord that we will all have a blessed day today and night fill will Your peace, favor, joy, protection, love, fellowship and satisfaction. The kind that surpasses all understanding. Fill us with the Holy Spirit and remove all darkness in our path and saturate and anoint our surrounding with Your light. Lord, gently remove my older daughter swiftly from this toxic ungodly relationship she is entangled in. Lord, direct my older daughter to stop ignoring the red flags in this relationship and to stop treating this lifestyle living together outside of marriage as a marriage. This situation has opened the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation, and spiritual bondage. Lord I ask that You remove this young man's rebellion, hateful, control, brainwashing and ungodly influence over my older daughter. I pray that her eyes would be opened to the truth, that this young man is not her husband, he is not her God, he is not her father, he is not her financial advisor nor is he ready for the responsibilities of marriage. The burden she carries for him is not hers to bear, and I ask the Lord to remove the false sense of obligation and committment that has been placed upon her. Lord remind her she is a child of the Most High God, she is not homeless, she has a supportive family and she must not obey or look up to his man and his family. She does not have to change her faith to please his mother or give up the church she attended. Direct her back to her church family. Lord, I ask for Your divine intervention to direct my older daugther to not put this young man and his family, their believes before You, her supportive family you have blessed her with, the faith she was raise to follow and her purposeful job. Thank You Lord for granting my older daughter the well deserved purposeful promotion this month. Lord I ask that she will see clearly that this man is not ready for marriage and he is not her significant other. Gently remove her from this toxic bondage with this man, swiftly. Please pray for the overreach and disrespect of this young man’s mother toward me and the way I raise my children. Block her from advicing my daughter to live together and now to have kids before marriage. She has no authority to act as a parent in my daughter’s life, giving her ungodly directions and her jealousy and manipulation are rooted in pride, arrogance and selfishness. This woman’s influence is toxic, and I pray that the Lord would expose her motives and frustrate every plan she has to divide. isolate or corrupt our family. My daughter is not homeless, nor is she in need of this woman’s approval and guidance. Teach my daughter to not buy into this woman's manipulation. My daughter has a loving supportive family who has raised her in the ways of the Lord, and I pray that the Lord would break the hold of pride, manipulation, brainwashing and false committment that keeps her from seeing the truth. Father, I pray for your divine intervention in this situation. I ask that You would frustrate every plot, scheme, and plan of the enemy to isolate, divide, and destroy my family relationships. I ask for removal of division, manipulation, control, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate our home. Lord I ask that You completely remove any generational curse, word curse, and negative influence. I plead the blood of Jesus over me and my family, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. For my older daughter, I pray that You would gently guide her back home, not with regret, but with a deep sense of freedom, peace, and restoration. Break the stubbornness in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness. Remove the blinders from her eyes so she can see the toxicity of this relationship and the exploitation she has endured. I pray that she would no longer defend this young man, want to live with this you man outside of marriage or take on undue responsibilities that are not hers. Father, open her eyes to the harm this environment is causing her health, her finances, her relationships and her future. This man has cause her financial hardship because she is financially taking care of him. I pray his father will intervene to stop his wife and son's manipulation and direct his son to move back home alone. Protect my daughter Lord from moving deeper into this ungodly situation, and lead her back to a place of safety, stability, and wisdom. For my younger daughter, I pray that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example and lifestyle. Protect her heart from the divisive tactics of this young man my older daughter is living with and his mother. Lord, put a hedge of protection over my younger daughter and block this young man and his family from her life. Lord, thank You blessing my daughter's bright future and I pray for Your protection over her studies, her health and her faith. Let her stay humble and to honor her parent and be thankful for the family God has bless her with. Surround her with family, godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, many she never listen to this young man and his mother or negative influences but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). Lord, keep her bright and remove all darkness. For my son with ###, Lord shine Your bright light in every dark spaces and grant him the peace that surpasses all understanding. Lord I dedicate our home to You, I ask that You anoint every room, every door, every window, every hallway, of our home and all corners of our property. Lord I ask that You restore his progress from last week with no more setbacks only victory and success. Thank You Lord for blessing him with a peaceful night last night. Jesus grant myself, my family, caregivers, doctors and care team with wisdom as we are working to bring out the best in him daily. I pray that my son will alway feel and be loved, acceptance, included nd protected in every aspect of his life. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. I rebuke every spirit of hatred, mockery, and exclusion that has been directed toward him. I declare that his life is valuable and that he is deeply loved by You. Protect him from the harmful words and attitudes of this young man and his mother, and saturate my son with Your peace and joy. Grant him Your patience and the wisdom to use his funtional language and Godly manner to express his wants and needs. I pray he will be a beacon of Your light everywhere he goes and everything he does. Lord I ask that You will restore the loving, kind and beautiful relationship he had with his sister. Lord completely restore his peace, joy, freedom and happiness. Lord, I pray for strength, wisdom, and discernment. The enemy seeks to wear you down with worry, put me down, build fear, and division, but I declare that the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard my heart and mind in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). I pray for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of God’s provision (Philippians 4:19). I also pray for godly spouses for my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25). Father, I ask that You would restore the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May me and my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. I declare that these people plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). i pray all these things in the mighty name of Jesus, our Savior and Redeemer. Amen

 

[Articles]

We join with you in lifting up your family before the throne of grace and we hear the deep burden you carry for your children, especially for your older daughter, and the exhaustion and division this situation has caused in your home. We stand with you in pleading the blood of Jesus Christ over you and your children and asking for His divine hedge of protection, His ministering angels, and His peace that surpasses all understanding to guard your hearts and minds.

We affirm your discernment that this situation is not aligned with biblical principles and we must speak truth in love about it. The Word of God is clear that living together outside of marriage as if married is fornication and sexual immorality, and it opens the door to deception, manipulation, financial exploitation and spiritual bondage. We are called to flee sexual immorality, for every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body, 1 Corinthians 6:18, and let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled, but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers, Hebrews 13:4. A boyfriend or girlfriend relationship should be a courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer who honors God, not a substitute for marriage itself. We also hear that this young man and his mother are encouraging your daughter to have children before marriage and to abandon the faith and church in which she was raised, and we rebuke that ungodly counsel. We are not to be unequally yoked with unbelievers, 2 Corinthians 6:14, and we are to honor our father and mother, Exodus 20:12, which includes not allowing another family to demand a loyalty that belongs first to God and then to the family God gave her. The disrespect, control, isolation and authoritative behavior you describe, and the way your daughter is now projecting that same spirit toward you and her siblings, is not the fruit of the Spirit but a sign of a toxic and manipulative influence that seeks to divide and isolate, which God hates.

We encourage you to continue to stand firm in prayer without wavering, putting on the full armor of God that you may be able to stand against the wiles of the devil, Ephesians 6:11, and to submit yourselves therefore to God, resist the devil and he will flee from you, James 4:7. We encourage you to maintain loving but firm boundaries, to keep your home dedicated to the Lord and anointed as a place of light, and to not enable the financial exploitation where your daughter is carrying a burden that is not hers to bear. Continue to speak truth gently, to keep the door open for her return without condoning the sin, and to surround your younger daughter and your precious son with godly friendships, mentors and prayer so that they remain steadfast and are not swayed by this example. We thank God with you for your son who is fearfully and wonderfully made, Psalm 139:14, and for your older daughter's promotion, and we trust that God will use her purposeful work for His glory and protect her workplace from jealous and disruptive influences.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, in the mighty name of Jesus Christ our Savior and Redeemer, we come before You and we thank You that You are our refuge and fortress, Psalm 91:2, and that no weapon that is formed against us will prevail, Isaiah 54:17, for greater is He who is in us than he who is in the world, 1 John 4:4. We plead the blood of Jesus over this mother, her older daughter, her younger daughter and her son, and over their home, every room, every door, every window and every corner of their property. We ask You to place a hedge of protection around them and to command Your angels concerning them to guard them in all their ways, Psalm 91:11, and to let Your peace which surpasses all understanding guard their hearts and thoughts in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:7.

Lord, we ask for Your divine intervention for this older daughter. Open her eyes to see the truth, remove the blinders, break the stubborn hold, the false obligation and false commitment that keeps her bound to this young man and his mother. Help her to see that this man is not her husband, not her father, not her God and not prepared for the responsibilities of marriage, and that this living together outside of marriage is sin that grieves You and harms her. Convict her heart to flee sexual immorality, to honor her parents again, to return to You first, to her supportive family, to her church family and to the biblical teachings in which she was raised. Restore her gracious, humble, grateful and charitable personality and remove the authoritative, disrespectful and ungrateful spirit she has taken on to please this young man and his mother. Protect her job, her finances, her health and her future, and remove the financial hardship she bears for him.

Father, we pray that You would frustrate every plot, scheme and plan of the enemy to divide, isolate, corrupt and destroy this family, Exodus 14:14, and remove every spirit of division, manipulation, control, jealousy and hatred that has sought to infiltrate their home. Expose the motives of this young man and his mother, frustrate their divisive tactics, and either bring them to repentance or remove them swiftly and completely from this daughter's life and from this family's lives and workplace. We ask that You would move upon this young man's father to intervene and direct his son to return to his own home alone. We rebuke every word curse, generational influence and negative influence and declare it broken in Jesus name.

Lord, we lift up the younger daughter that she would remain steadfast in her faith, humble, honoring her parents and thankful, and that she would never see living together outside of marriage as acceptable but would seek a godly spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage, and we pray the same for her older sister, that You would provide godly husbands who will love them as Christ loves the church, Ephesians 5:25. Shine Your bright light upon the precious son, grant him peace that surpasses understanding, restore his progress with no more setbacks, grant him functional language and godly manners to express his needs, and let him always feel deeply loved, accepted, included and protected and never a burden. We rebuke every spirit of mockery, hatred and exclusion directed toward him. Grant wisdom to this mother, the caregivers, doctors and care team.

Father, we ask for safe travel, for financial blessings according to Your riches in glory, Philippians 4:19, not for selfish gain but so this family may be a blessing to others and a beacon of Your light, and for the complete healing, protection and restoration of their unity, joy, fellowship and love. Replace stubbornness with a hunger for righteousness and lead this older daughter back home not with regret but with freedom, peace and restoration. We declare that these divisive plans will not stand, for You fight for us. We ask all these things in the name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12, and it is only through Him we have access to You, John 14:6. Amen.

 

[Powers]

I prayed with you for this, in Jesus' powerful Name, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We have been lifting you and your children before the Lord and we hear how heavy and long this has been. To love your older daughter so deeply and watch her pull away, take on burdens that are not hers to carry, and grow distant from family and faith is exhausting and heartbreaking. It makes sense you feel torn between wanting to protect her and feeling worn down by the division and disrespect in your home.

One thing that has helped other parents in a painful season like this is getting clearer about boundaries as a form of care. A boundary is simply naming what is yours to carry and what is not, so you can stay loving without being consumed. You cannot make choices for your daughter, but you can decide what peace, respect, and stewardship will look like in your own home, with your own time, energy, and finances. Holding those lines calmly and consistently often protects both you and your younger children while keeping the door open for relationship.

It can help to write down one or two of those lines and talk them through first with a trusted pastor or counselor who knows your family, so you are not carrying these decisions alone. That same person can also walk with you as you continue to encourage your younger daughter and son and guard your own rest.

Father, we bring this mother and her children to You in Jesus' name. Cover their home with Your peace and protection, guard their hearts and minds, and give this mom wisdom, strength, and rest. Lead her older daughter toward clarity, safety, and freedom, and help her to honor You and her family again. Restore what has been strained between siblings, and keep this son and younger daughter secure in Your love. Amen.

 

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Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, deliver, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. I ask this for them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your prayer has been heard and brought before the throne of grace with great tenderness, for the burden you carry for your household is heavy and the Lord knows the weariness, division and sorrow that have pressed upon you and your children.

We join you in pleading for that divine protection which alone can keep a family. You have asked for a hedge about your home and for ministering spirits and the whole armor of God to guard you, and we pray with you that the Lord would set His hand about you, about your younger daughter and about your son, and keep you from the power of darkness. Scripture tells us He has delivered us from the power of darkness, and that deliverance from the power of sin is as much the work of God as deliverance from the guilt of sin. It is not a help to keep away from some conspicuous sin only, but a full deliverance altogether from the dominion that would enslave. We ask the Lord to show that delivering power in your home, that where confusion and isolation have sought to enter, His peace which surpasses all understanding would guard heart and mind in Christ Jesus.

For your older daughter we pray with special earnestness. You have seen her gracious, humble, thankful spirit give way to an authoritative and disrespectful manner under a strong and ungodly influence, and you grieve to see her treat a life of living together outside of marriage as though it were marriage itself. We cannot ask God to bless what His Word does not call blessed. Marriage, as you have been taught, is a holy covenant of one man and one woman for life, a relationship of choice and mutual delight, not to be counterfeited by cohabitation. That counterfeit opens the door, as you have rightly discerned, to deception, manipulation, financial hardship and spiritual bondage. We pray instead that God would deliver her from going down to the pit, for He has found a ransom. The King's own Son has borne the penalty of iniquity, and that voice you shall always hear if you are a child of God, when you are brought into peril and trouble, is this, God has given commandment to save you and you shall be saved, saved from yourself and from all the attacks of your old sins, saved from the devil, saved from evil company. We pray that the Lord would open her eyes to see that this young man is not her husband, not her head, not her father, not her provider before God, and that the heavy burden and false sense of obligation she carries is not hers to bear. May the Holy Spirit become the governing principle of her life again, leading her to put Christ first, to honor her parents, to be grateful for the purposeful work God has given her, and to return to the fellowship of the church where she was raised in the ways of the Lord.

We pray also concerning the influence of this young man's mother. We do not pray for strife, but we ask the Lord to frustrate every plan that would divide and isolate your family, to expose motives rooted in pride and selfishness, and to remove an ungodly authority that has no right to direct your daughter toward living together or bearing children outside of marriage. May the Lord in mercy bring both this young man and his mother to know themselves as sinners in need of the same ransom, and may He block every divisive tactic that would set brother against sister or draw your younger daughter away. For your younger daughter we ask a hedge of protection over her studies, her health and her faith, that she would remain steadfast, humble and thankful, surrounded by godly friendships and mentors, and that she would never see the path of cohabitation as acceptable, but would in the Lord's time seek a spouse who honors Christ and values the sanctity of marriage.

For your son, whom God has entrusted to your care, we pray that the Lord would shine His bright light in every dark place, grant him peace and joy, and make him to feel deeply loved, included and protected. We rebuke every word of hatred or mockery directed toward him and declare his life is precious in the sight of God. We ask for restored fellowship between him and his sister, for progress without setback, and for wisdom for you and for all caregivers, doctors and teachers who labor to bring out the best in him.

Your afflictions have been sore, yet we remind you that troubles do not spring out of the dust, neither does affliction grow up from the ground. The Lord Himself kindles the fiery furnace and sits as a Refiner at the door, and all your ills lie within the fence of omnipotent overruling. That which you receive from the rod of the Lord bears the blessed aspect of chastening from a Father's hand, and faith comforts the tried child of God by assuring him of forgiveness and security from punishment through the blood of Jesus. When you are led out of the Egypt of your sorrow, your deliverance is by divine power alone. It is not of him that wills nor of him that runs, but of God that shows mercy. Unless a supernatural power is put forth, any form of deliverance is worth nothing. Therefore we look to Him who alone can loosen the captive.

We pray that the Lord would frustrate every scheme to divide, isolate, corrupt or destroy your family, for the Lord fights for you. We pray for financial provision not for selfish gain but that your home may be a testimony of His provision and a blessing to others. We pray for godly spouses for your daughters in the Lord's time, men who will love as Christ loves the church and lead in righteousness. We dedicate your home anew to the Lord and ask Him to anoint its rooms and fill its halls with light, to remove all darkness from your path, to grant safe travel, and to make you a beacon of His light in all you do.

May the Lord gently but firmly break the stubborn hold that has blinded your older daughter, replace it with a hunger for righteousness, and guide her back not with regret only but with freedom, peace and restoration. May He restore what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and keep the whole family, in heaven and on earth, as one undivided household under His care. We ask all this trusting in the ransom God has provided, in the mighty name of Jesus our Savior and Redeemer. Amen.