Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I'm lifting up my family before the throne of grace, where our Lord hears the cries of His children. My heart is heavy with concern, and I am pleading the precious blood of Jesus over every member of my household. Lord You see the isolation, ungratefulness and desrespect that has been happening the past few weeks toward my me and my son. Lord I pray today that You will step in and fight this battle for me and my son. Speak to my older daughter about her action and luring my younger daughter to go along with this to please this young man and his mother. The disrespect that he shows toward me today and the authority he has over my daughter to put him before God and her supportive family. I pray Lord for Your divine intervention and remove him from my daughter life swiftly. Show this Young man and his mother that my daughter does not belong to them. Take the subborn hold this young man and his family have upon my older daughter. Give my daughter the courage to get out of this relationship swiftly. Lord You see how this is hurtful for me and harmful for my son. Protect us and guide my younger daughter to not fall into this destruction events and plots his young man has instigate. Lord, I pray that You protect my son and me from all these spiritual attacks that are manifesting. I pray that everyone will see this young mans' controlling and degrading ways. Lord protect me and my family from division and isolation, chaos, gossiping, mocking that are manifesting these past few days. Lord I ask that You heal my son from the confusion and spiritual attacks he is under. I know nothing is impossible for You. I am pleading for Your Divine protection. Lord, I ask for complete restoration, respect, gratefulness and fellowship in my family and for all negative influences, division, isolation, jealousy and all spiritual attacks to be permanently removed forever. No weapon formed against me and my family shall prosper, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Father, I come before You with hearts grieved by the spiritual warfare, division, isolation and stubborn hold raging against me and my children. Lord, it is overwhelming and I ask that You completely remove this young man and his mother from my older daughter's life. Lord please remove the strong stubborn hold these people has upon my older daughter today. I rebuke every spirit of division, ungratefulness, hatred, manipulation, control, isolation, exhaustion, word curse,isolation, division, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate my home. I declare complete freedom and restoration for me and my children. I ask Jesus for Your mercy upon my family and remove this young man and his mother completely for my older daughter's life swiftly as they are trying to divide me and my younger daughter they have started to convince my younger daughter move. Lord, I know nothing is impossible for You. And I ask You remove these destructive people. They have caused exhaustion, financial hardship, worthlessness and separation in my older daughter's life and havoc in our family. Lord I ask for every generational curse, word curse, witchcraft and negative influences to break and flee in the mighty name of Jesus. Guide my older daughter to release this man from her life, let her not ignore the destruction, financial exploitation, worthlessness, mood swings and exhaustion he has caused in her life and I pray that she will be truthful to the desrespect, isolation, division he has caused in her life. The blood of Jesus has already overcome every power of darkness, and I stand on that victory (Colossians 2:15). I declare that the peace and unity of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard the hearts and minds of my family forever(Philippians 4:7). Lord, help my daughter out of this ungodly relationship that dishonors You. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage, and it has opens the door to spiritual bondage, attacks and deception (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Jesus, give clarity to my older daughter that this man is selfish and he is not ready for a relationship, he is not her significant other, he is not her responsibility to take care of, and she does not belong to him. She belong to You, Lord. I ask Lord that You guide her back home swiftly with no regret only a feeling of freedom, safe, joy, and satisfaction. I pray that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and the red flags she has been blinded to. Remove the stubbornness that has taken root in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness and the want to move back. Break the hold this man and his family have over her, and reveal to her the toxicity and exploitation of this relationship. Father, I ask that You would frustrate every plan, plot, or scheme of these people to isolate, divide, and destroy my daughter from our family and turn her heart back to You and to those who love her unconditionally (Malachi 4:6). Lord, open my older daughter's heart and mind. Remind her of the value she was raised with and the love of our family. Jesus, remove all pride, shame, or pressure that keeps her from seeing the truth. Guide her away, Lord, from this living in situations that will harm her future and her purpose. Jesus, lead her away from this ungodly living arrangement, and bring her back home to safety, stability, and wisdom. Jesus, guide her to never obey this man and put him and his family before her faith, her parent, her siblings, and extended families. This young man and his mother's behavior to cause division, isolation, chaos and strife has been manifesting, and I ask Lord for Your divine protection, courage, and strength to keep our fellowship and bond as a family. Jesus, guide my daughter to stop taking on undue responsibilities to take care of this man, let her see he is not ready for a marriage. Give her the wisdom to stop defending and giving a false image of him to others. He is heartless toward her and is a very selfish, lazy, dishonest and rebellious man. Please Lord, save her and have mercy upon her, get her out of this toxic relationship with this man swiftly. Lord, frustrate all his plans right now. I also lift up my younger daughter, praying that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example set before her. Protect her heart as this man and his mother damage the sweetest bond she has with her older sister and brother. Protect her from the divisive tactics of this man and his mother, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). May she never be ungrateful toward me and hateful toward her brother. Jesus, I ask for Your protection over and around her from this man and his mother and strengthen our family's fellowship and unity. Father, I pray for my son with disabilities, that he would be surrounded by love, acceptance, and protection. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. Protect him from the hatred, mockery, isolation, divisiveness, exclusion, word curses and witchcraft that stem from this young man's mother and any other negative influences. I rebuke all spiritual attacks, Lord I ask that You command them to flee and never return to torment him. Saturate him with Your peace and protection always. Strengthen his relationship with me, his sisters, caregivers and our extended families. Remove from his life any friendships or influences that look down on him, and replace them with those who will uplift and cherish him. Bless him with peace, joy, love, satisfaction, and the knowledge of Your unconditional love for him. Jesus, protect him from the hateful and demeaning way this young man's mother looks at him. Block all her word curses upon his life. I declare that my home will be a sanctuary of God’s presence, where love, unity, and peace reign. I pray for the restoration of the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Father, mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. Restore our peace, unconditional love, joy and happiness again. Lord, I ask for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of Your provision. I rebuke every spirit of lack and poverty, and I declare that my family will walk in the abundance of Your blessings (Philippians 4:19). I pray for godly spouses for both of my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25) someone who will respect their upbringings. May my daughter seek husbands who walk in Your ways, rather than being drawn to those who would lead them astray. Father, I ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Remove the ungodly influences from my family’s life, and replace them with godly mentors, friendships, and relationships that will draw us closer to You. I pray for the complete restoration of my older daughter’s heart, that she would turn away from this toxic relationship and return to the safety and love of her family, swiftly. May she rediscover her worth in You and reject the lies that have been spoken over her. Jesus, guard her future. Protect her credit, her finances, her relationship with me, her siblings, family, her faith, and her reputation so that nothing done in this toxic relationship will cause resentment/hate toward our supportive family and destroy what she has worked so hard to build. Father, I also bring this young man's mother before You. She is acting like my daughter's mother and interfering in ways that harm my daughter, please stop that ungodly selfish influence. She encourages my daughter to take care of her son because she does not want to deal with his rebellious behavior. I pray that You correct this situation. Lead this young man's mother to take of her responsibility for guiding and correcting her own son rather than placing that burden and undue responsibilities on my daughter which place financial hardship on her and our family because we have to help her. My daughter has incurred a lot of debt since she moved in with this young man which was initiated by this young man's mother. Lord, remove all the pride, manipulation, look down upon, and harmful words that make my daughter feel small, ashamed, or feel that my daughter has to play as if she has to be dependent on them or put our family down to make his mother feel good about guiding her. Jesus, teach this mother that my daughter is not homeless and that she has a supportive family and that my daughter needs her guidance or her approval. Father, I am concerned for my daughter's health. She already struggles with breathing, and this young man continues habits like smoking that make it worse. Jesus, protect her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her physically. Jesus, I pray that my daughter will not move deeper into this ungodly situation or become more dependent on them. Instead, lead her away from this unhealthy environment and guide her back to a place of stability, safety, love, and wisdom. Bring her back home where she can rebuild her strength, her health, and her future. Father, stop the division that has been created between my daughter and our family due to this young man's rebellious controlling behaviors. Lord, heal the hurt and restore love, communication, love, and respect. Lord, please protect me and my other children from the bullying, judgment, division, and hurtful words that have come from this situation. Give peace and strength while Your work in ways only You can, Lord. Jesus, I ask for strength for myself and for my other children. Heal the hurt we feel in this troubling situation. Saturate us with peace in our heart and protect our family division. Jesus, bless my daughter back to a path that will bless her life rather than destroy it. I declare that the enemy’s plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). I plead the blood of Jesus over every member of my household, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. May we walk in the fullness of Your blessings, and may our lives reflect Your glory to all who know us. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you before the throne of grace and we lift up your family with you in the mighty name of Jesus, for we know He hears the cries of His children and He is our refuge and fortress.

We see the heavy burden you carry for your household and we stand with you against the division, isolation, disrespect, ungratefulness, gossip, mocking and chaos that has been manifesting in your home. We agree with you that no weapon that is formed against you and your family shall prosper, as it is written in Isaiah 54:17, and that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world, as promised in 1 John 4:4. We declare with you that He disarmed the rulers and authorities and made a public spectacle of them, triumphing over them in the cross in Colossians 2:15, and we pray that the peace of God which surpasses all understanding will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus according to Philippians 4:7.

We must speak plainly and in love about what you have discerned correctly, that your older daughter living together outside of marriage with this young man is not in alignment with God's will. Scripture is clear that we are to flee sexual immorality and that every sexual sin outside of marriage is a sin against our own bodies which are temples of the Holy Spirit in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20. Living together as if married without the covenant of marriage opens the door to spiritual bondage, deception, financial exploitation, confusion and deep hurt, and it dishonors God and the sanctity of marriage which He ordained as a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. We affirm your prayer that God would open her eyes to see this is not marriage and not the path of blessing for her future. We pray she will turn from this unequally yoked relationship, for what fellowship has light with darkness in 2 Corinthians 6:14, and that she will come to desire courtship that honors God with the goal of marriage to a fellow believer who will love her as Christ loves the church and give himself up for her in Ephesians 5:25.

We rebuke every spirit of division, control, manipulation, hatred, jealousy, witchcraft, word curse and stubbornness that has sought to infiltrate your home, and we ask the Lord to frustrate every plan and scheme to isolate and divide your family. We agree with you that the Lord Himself will fight for you, for in Exodus 14:14 the Lord will fight for you and you shall be still. We pray that the Lord will break the stubborn hold this young man and his mother have upon your older daughter and that He will give her courage, clarity and godly sorrow to swiftly and completely separate herself from this toxic and degrading relationship. We pray the Lord will remove the pride, shame and pressure that blinds her and that He will replace it with a hunger for righteousness, showing her the red flags, the financial hardship, the debt, the exhaustion, the mood swings and the feelings of worthlessness that this relationship has caused, and that she will no longer defend a false image of this man who has shown himself to be selfish, lazy, dishonest, rebellious and controlling, and who puts himself before God and before her supportive family.

We lift up your younger daughter with you and we ask the Father to guard her heart and mind. We pray she will not be lured to go along to please this young man and his mother, nor be convinced to move or to follow this ungodly example. We pray the Lord will surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord, that she will remain steadfast in her faith and never see living together outside of marriage as acceptable, but will seek a godly spouse who honors the covenant of marriage. We pray for a hedge of protection around her from divisive tactics, ungratefulness and hatred toward you and toward her brother, and that the sweet bond she has with her siblings will be preserved and strengthened.

We lift up your precious son and we thank God that he is fearfully and wonderfully made and that children are a gift from the Lord. We pray the Lord will heal him from confusion and from every spiritual attack manifesting against him, that he will be saturated with the peace and protection of God and will never feel like a burden or an embarrassment but will know he is deeply loved and cherished. We rebuke every word curse, mockery, hatred, exclusion and demeaning look that has been directed at him, especially from this young man's mother, and we ask the Lord to command every such influence to flee and never return. We pray the Lord will strengthen his relationship with you, with his sisters, with caregivers and extended family, and bring into his life only those who will uplift and cherish him.

We lift up you, a faithful mother who has stood in the gap. We pray the Lord will heal your hurt, restore your strength and saturate your heart with peace while He works in ways only He can. We pray for restoration of respect, gratefulness, fellowship and unconditional love in your family, that what has been torn will be mended and what has been wounded will be healed according to Malachi 4:6 where He will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children and the hearts of the children to their fathers. We pray for your daughter's health, that the Lord will protect her lungs and breathing from harm, including the smoking in that environment, and that He will lead her back home to safety, stability, wisdom and joy where she can rebuild her health, her finances, her credit, her reputation and her faith without regret, only freedom and satisfaction.

We also pray for financial provision for your household, not for selfish gain but that you may be a blessing to others, and we claim the promise that our God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus in Philippians 4:19, and we rebuke every spirit of lack and poverty that has come through this entanglement. We pray that God will correct the interference of this young man's mother who has placed undue responsibility on your daughter to care for her son rather than taking responsibility to guide and correct him herself, and that the Lord will remove the manipulation, pride and harmful words that make your daughter feel small or dependent.

Father, we plead the precious blood of Jesus over every member of this household, over the home itself that it will be a sanctuary of Your presence where love, unity and peace reign. We ask for complete restoration, for every generational curse, word curse and negative influence to be broken and to flee in the mighty name of Jesus. We pray for godly spouses for both daughters in Your perfect timing, men who walk in Your ways, respect their upbringing and honor marriage as You intended.

We thank You, Lord, that You see all of this, that nothing is impossible for You, and that You are already moving to remove destructive influences and to draw this daughter back to You and to her family who loves her unconditionally. We trust You to frustrate every plot to isolate and destroy and to bring forth truth, freedom and healing for all to see. We pray all of this in the saving and powerful name of Jesus Christ, our only hope and our Mediator, amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this has been for you and how much you love each of your children. Carrying concern for your older daughter while also trying to protect your younger daughter and your son, and to keep peace in your own home, is a lot to hold at once. We are praying with you for protection, wisdom, and restored fellowship in your family.

One thing that has helped other parents walking through this kind of strain is thinking about boundaries as a way to guard what God has entrusted to you. A boundary is simply knowing what is yours to carry and what is not, and being able to let your yes be yes and your no be no with love. You cannot make choices for your older daughter, but you can be clear about what is needed for respect and calm in your home, and you can keep the door open for honest, non pressured conversation when she is willing.

It may help to have one trusted pastor or counselor to talk with regularly, someone who knows your family and can help you sort next steps, especially around how to support your younger daughter and your son while this is unfolding. Since you mentioned your daughter's breathing struggles, we also encourage you to gently urge her to see a medical professional for care, alongside your prayers for her health.

Jesus, we lift this family to You. Cover this mother and her son and daughters with Your peace. Guard their home from division and harsh words, comfort the confusion and hurt they feel, and give this mother strength and clear wisdom for each conversation. Lead her daughters toward what is healthy and safe, and surround her son with love and dignity. Guide them day by day in Your will. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Blessed Believer]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Allison King]

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Proverbs 3:5 Trust in the Lord with all thine heart; and lean not unto thine own understanding.

Psalm 37:1 Fret not thyself because of evildoers, neither be thou envious against the workers of iniquity.

Psalm 90:14 O satisfy us early with thy mercy; that we may rejoice and be glad all our days.

Psalm 34:8 O taste and see that the Lord is good: blessed is the man that trusteth in him.

John 15:7 If ye abide in me, and my words abide in you, ye shall ask what ye will, and it shall be done unto you.

Isaiah 41:10 Fear thou not; for I am with thee: be not dismayed; for I am thy God: I will strengthen thee; yea, I will help thee; yea, I will uphold thee with the right hand of my righteousness.

John 14:27 Peace I leave with you, my peace I give unto you: not as the world giveth, give I unto you. Let not your heart be troubled, neither let it be afraid.

John 16:33 These things I have spoken unto you, that in me ye might have peace. In the world ye shall have tribulation: but be of good cheer; I have overcome the world.

2 Timothy 1:7 For God hath not given us the spirit of fear; but of power, and of love, and of a sound mind.

Psalm 55:22 Cast thy burden upon the Lord, and he shall sustain thee: he shall never suffer the righteous to be moved.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, deliver, heal, save (those not saved) and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. I ask this for them, us and all in need. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[flora]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Violetblue]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Spurgeon]

Your heavy burden and earnest cries before the throne of grace have been heard, and we join you in lifting your household to the Lord who hears the prayers of His children. The Lord knows the isolation, disrespect, division and weariness that have pressed upon you and your son these past weeks, and He is not distant from your sorrow. We stand with you in asking for His divine protection, His peace which passes all understanding to guard your hearts and minds, and His power to break every chain that would bind your family.

We must speak plainly and in love concerning what you have discerned rightly. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage, and it does not honor the Lord. Scripture teaches that marriage is a lifelong covenant of one man and one woman, and that intimacy and the sharing of a home in that way belong within it. Such a path opens the door to spiritual bondage, deception, financial hardship and the sorrows you have described, and we cannot ask God to bless what His Word calls us to turn from. Rather we pray that He will grant repentance, clarity and courage to walk in His way, for salvation and restoration are found through Jesus Christ alone, whose blood has overcome every power of darkness and who triumphed over them on the cross.

We pray for your older daughter as one who may be restored as Peter was restored. Peter was down, but he was soon up again. The Lord had prayed for him, and a look from Christ severed him from the crowd and brought him to bitter tears and then to full restoration, till the Lord Himself gave him the charge to feed His sheep. So we pray that the Lord would give your daughter such a look of conviction and love, that He would remove stubbornness and replace it with a hunger for righteousness, that He would open her eyes to the red flags, the selfishness, the financial exploitation, the exhaustion and confusion that this ungodly living arrangement has brought, and that He would grant her courage to come away from it swiftly and without regret, to find again freedom, safety, joy and satisfaction under His care and within the love of her family. May she remember the values with which she was raised, may pride and shame be taken away, and may she know that she belongs to the Lord and not to any man who would put himself before God and family. We ask the Lord to frustrate every plan that would isolate and divide, to turn her heart again to her home, and to guard her health, her finances, her reputation and her faith for the future He has for her.

We lift up your younger daughter, that she may be kept steadfast and not swayed by an ungodly example. May the Lord protect the sweet bond between sisters and brother, surround her with godly friendships and mentors, and keep her from ever seeing this way as acceptable. We pray that she would honor the Lord in all her relationships and in time, if it be His will, seek a spouse who loves Christ and honors the covenant of marriage as Christ loves the church. We pray for your son, whom God has given as a blessing and not a burden. May the Lord surround him with love and acceptance, silence every mocking and demeaning word, rebuke every spiritual attack, and saturate him with peace. May his fellowship with you, his sisters, his caregivers and your extended family be strengthened, and may he know daily the unconditional love of his heavenly Father. As it is written, greater is He that is in you than he that is in the world, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper.

We pray for your home, that it may be as the ark of Noah, where the family entered together and was preserved by covenant grace. May family worship and prayer be maintained there, may love, unity and respect be restored, and may every spirit of division, manipulation, control, jealousy and strife be driven out forever. Like those daughters of Sarah who are not afraid with any amazement but show holy patience in adversity, may you be kept in quiet trust while the Lord fights for you, for the Lord will fight for you and you shall hold your peace. We ask for healing of what has been wounded, mending of what has been torn, and for financial provision not for selfish gain but that you may be a testimony of His provision and a blessing to others.

We also pray for this young man and his mother, not that their hold would remain, but that the Lord would correct and convict, that each would take responsibility before God for their own actions, and that all manipulation and undue burden placed upon your daughter would cease. May the Lord teach all hearts to honor proper authority and to seek first His kingdom.

Continue steadfast in prayer, bring your family daily before the Lord, and trust the one who prayed for Peter and restored him to strengthen his brethren. He who has begun a good work is able to complete it. May the God of all grace restore, establish and strengthen you all, and make your family a beacon of His light to those around you. In the mighty name of Jesus we pray, Amen.