Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I'm lifting up my family before the throne of grace, where our Lord hears the cries of His children. My heart is heavy with concern, and I am pleading the precious blood of Jesus over every member of my household. Lord, I ask for complete restoration, respect, gratefulness and fellowship in my family and for all negative influences, division, isolation, jealousy and all spiritual attacks to be permanently removed forever. No weapon formed against me and my family shall prosper, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Father, I come before You with hearts grieved by the spiritual warfare, division, isolation and stubborn hold raging against me and my children. Lord, it is overwhelming and I ask that You completely remove this young man and his mother from my older daughter's life. Lord please remove the strong stubborn hold these people has upon my older daughter today. I rebuke every spirit of division, ungratefulness, hatred, manipulation, control, isolation, exhaustion, word curse,isolation, division, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate my home. I declare complete freedom and restoration for me and my children. I ask Jesus for Your mercy upon my family and remove this young man and his mother completely for my older daughter's life swiftly as they are trying to divide me and my younger daughter they have started to convince my younger daughter move. Lord, I know nothing is impossible for You. And I ask You remove these destructive people. They have caused exhaustion, financial hardship, worthlessness and separation in my older daughter's life and havoc in our family. Lord I ask for every generational curse, word curse, witchcraft and negative influences to break and flee in the mighty name of Jesus. Guide my older daughter to release this man from her life, let her not ignore the destruction, financial exploitation, worthlessness, mood swings and exhaustion he has caused in her life and I pray that she will be truthful to the desrespect, isolation, division he has caused in her life. The blood of Jesus has already overcome every power of darkness, and I stand on that victory (Colossians 2:15). I declare that the peace and unity of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard the hearts and minds of my family forever(Philippians 4:7). Lord, help my daughter out of this ungodly relationship that dishonors You. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage, and it has opens the door to spiritual bondage, attacks and deception (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Jesus, give clarity to my older daughter that this man is selfish and he is not ready for a relationship, he is not her significant other, he is not her responsibility to take care of, and she does not belong to him. She belong to You, Lord. I ask Lord that You guide her back home swiftly with no regret only a feeling of freedom, safe, joy, and satisfaction. I pray that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and the red flags she has been blinded to. Remove the stubbornness that has taken root in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness and the want to move back. Break the hold this man and his family have over her, and reveal to her the toxicity and exploitation of this relationship. Father, I ask that You would frustrate every plan, plot, or scheme of these people to isolate, divide, and destroy my daughter from our family and turn her heart back to You and to those who love her unconditionally (Malachi 4:6). Lord, open my older daughter's heart and mind. Remind her of the value she was raised with and the love of our family. Jesus, remove all pride, shame, or pressure that keeps her from seeing the truth. Guide her away, Lord, from this living in situations that will harm her future and her purpose. Jesus, lead her away from this ungodly living arrangement, and bring her back home to safety, stability, and wisdom. Jesus, guide her to never obey this man and put him and his family before her faith, her parent, her siblings, and extended families. This young man and his mother's behavior to cause division, isolation, chaos and strife has been manifesting, and I ask Lord for Your divine protection, courage, and strength to keep our fellowship and bond as a family. Jesus, guide my daughter to stop taking on undue responsibilities to take care of this man, let her see he is not ready for a marriage. Give her the wisdom to stop defending and giving a false image of him to others. He is heartless toward her and is a very selfish, lazy, dishonest and rebellious man. Please Lord, save her and have mercy upon her, get her out of this toxic relationship with this man swiftly. Lord, frustrate all his plans right now. I also lift up my younger daughter, praying that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example set before her. Protect her heart as this man and his mother damage the sweetest bond she has with her older sister and brother. Protect her from the divisive tactics of this man and his mother, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). May she never be ungrateful toward me and hateful toward her brother. Jesus, I ask for Your protection over and around her from this man and his mother and strengthen our family's fellowship and unity. Father, I pray for my son with disabilities, that he would be surrounded by love, acceptance, and protection. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. Protect him from the hatred, mockery, isolation, divisiveness, exclusion, word curses and witchcraft that stem from this young man's mother and any other negative influences. I rebuke all spiritual attacks, Lord I ask that You command them to flee and never return to torment him. Saturate him with Your peace and protection always. Strengthen his relationship with me, his sisters, caregivers and our extended families. Remove from his life any friendships or influences that look down on him, and replace them with those who will uplift and cherish him. Bless him with peace, joy, love, satisfaction, and the knowledge of Your unconditional love for him. Jesus, protect him from the hateful and demeaning way this young man's mother looks at him. Block all her word curses upon his life. I declare that my home will be a sanctuary of God’s presence, where love, unity, and peace reign. I pray for the restoration of the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Father, mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. Restore our peace, unconditional love, joy and happiness again. Lord, I ask for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of Your provision. I rebuke every spirit of lack and poverty, and I declare that my family will walk in the abundance of Your blessings (Philippians 4:19). I pray for godly spouses for both of my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25) someone who will respect their upbringings. May my daughter seek husbands who walk in Your ways, rather than being drawn to those who would lead them astray. Father, I ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Remove the ungodly influences from my family’s life, and replace them with godly mentors, friendships, and relationships that will draw us closer to You. I pray for the complete restoration of my older daughter’s heart, that she would turn away from this toxic relationship and return to the safety and love of her family, swiftly. May she rediscover her worth in You and reject the lies that have been spoken over her. Jesus, guard her future. Protect her credit, her finances, her relationship with me, her siblings, family, her faith, and her reputation so that nothing done in this toxic relationship will cause resentment/hate toward our supportive family and destroy what she has worked so hard to build. Father, I also bring this young man's mother before You. She is acting like my daughter's mother and interfering in ways that harm my daughter, please stop that ungodly selfish influence. She encourages my daughter to take care of her son because she does not want to deal with his rebellious behavior. I pray that You correct this situation. Lead this young man's mother to take of her responsibility for guiding and correcting her own son rather than placing that burden and undue responsibilities on my daughter which place financial hardship on her and our family because we have to help her. My daughter has incurred a lot of debt since she moved in with this young man which was initiated by this young man's mother. Lord, remove all the pride, manipulation, look down upon, and harmful words that make my daughter feel small, ashamed, or feel that my daughter has to play as if she has to be dependent on them or put our family down to make his mother feel good about guiding her. Jesus, teach this mother that my daughter is not homeless and that she has a supportive family and that my daughter needs her guidance or her approval. Father, I am concerned for my daughter's health. She already struggles with breathing, and this young man continues habits like smoking that make it worse. Jesus, protect her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her physically. Jesus, I pray that my daughter will not move deeper into this ungodly situation or become more dependent on them. Instead, lead her away from this unhealthy environment and guide her back to a place of stability, safety, love, and wisdom. Bring her back home where she can rebuild her strength, her health, and her future. Father, stop the division that has been created between my daughter and our family due to this young man's rebellious controlling behaviors. Lord, heal the hurt and restore love, communication, love, and respect. Lord, please protect me and my other children from the bullying, judgment, division, and hurtful words that have come from this situation. Give peace and strength while Your work in ways only You can, Lord. Jesus, I ask for strength for myself and for my other children. Heal the hurt we feel in this troubling situation. Saturate us with peace in our heart and protect our family division. Jesus, bless my daughter back to a path that will bless her life rather than destroy it. I declare that the enemy’s plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). I plead the blood of Jesus over every member of my household, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. May we walk in the fullness of Your blessings, and may our lives reflect Your glory to all who know us. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We join you in lifting your family before the throne of grace and we stand with you in the mighty name of Jesus, for we know He hears the cries of His children and He is our refuge and fortress.

We hear the heaviness in your heart over the division, isolation, exhaustion and spiritual warfare that has sought to infiltrate your home, and we especially hear your burden for your older daughter who is entangled in an ungodly relationship and living arrangement. We affirm what you have rightly discerned. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage and the Word of God calls it sexual immorality. It is fornication and it dishonors God and opens the door to spiritual bondage, deception and destruction. Scripture is clear when it says flee sexual immorality, every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body, or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God, you are not your own, for you were bought with a price, therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's, 1 Corinthians 6:18-20. And again, marriage is to be held in honor among all, and the bed undefiled, Hebrews 13:4. We must gently but firmly rebuke this cohabitation as sin before God, not to shame your daughter but to call her to freedom, for God desires that courtship be pursued with the goal of marriage between a man and a woman who are believers in Christ, and that our daughters seek godly husbands who will love them as Christ also loved the assembly and gave himself up for it, Ephesians 5:25, and that they not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity, or what fellowship has light with darkness, 2 Corinthians 6:14.

We also hear your discernment regarding manipulation, control, disrespect, financial exploitation, and the divisive influence of this young man and his mother. We agree with you that no weapon that is formed against you will prevail, Isaiah 54:17, and that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world, 1 John 4:4, and that having stripped the principalities and the powers, He made a show of them openly, triumphing over them in it, Colossians 2:15. The blood of Jesus has already overcome every power of darkness and every word curse, witchcraft and generational influence must flee at His name, for there is no other name under heaven by which we have access to the Father and by which we are saved except Jesus Christ, John 14:6 and Acts 4:12. We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but we do pray that every scheme to divide, isolate and destroy your family will fail, for Yahweh will fight for you, and you shall be still, Exodus 14:14.

We pray together now.

Father in heaven, in the name of Jesus we come before You and we plead the precious blood of Jesus over this mother, her older daughter, her younger daughter, and her son. Lord, we ask You to completely remove the stubborn hold this ungodly relationship has upon this older daughter. Open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and to the red flags she has been blinded to. Remove stubbornness, pride, shame and pressure from her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness and a desire for Your will. Reveal to her the selfishness, laziness, dishonesty, financial exploitation, exhaustion, worthlessness and disrespect that this relationship has brought, and give her clarity to see that this man is not her husband, not her responsibility to care for, and that she belongs not to him but to You. Lord, frustrate every plan and scheme to isolate her from her family and to convince her younger sister to follow the same destructive path. Turn her heart back to You and to those who love her unconditionally, as You promised He will turn the hearts of the fathers to the children, and the hearts of the children to their fathers, Malachi 4:6.

Father, we lift up the younger daughter and ask You to protect her heart and mind. Guard her from divisive tactics and from seeing cohabitation as acceptable. Surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her to pursue purity and to wait for a godly spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage. Keep her grateful, respectful and in sweet fellowship with her mother and siblings.

Lord, we lift up this precious son. You formed him and You call him wonderfully made, Psalm 139:14. We thank You that he is not a burden or an embarrassment but a blessing. Protect him from hatred, mockery, word curses, exclusion and every spiritual attack that has come through this young man's mother and any other negative influence. Command those attacks to flee and never return. Saturate him with Your peace, joy and the knowledge of Your unconditional love. Strengthen his bond with his mother, his sisters and his extended family and caregivers, and remove any friendship that looks down on him and replace it with those who will cherish and uplift him.

Father, we ask for Your healing and protection over the older daughter's health, especially her breathing, and we ask You to convict her about the harm of this environment including smoking and ungodly habits. Lead her away from this unhealthy place and guide her back home to safety, stability, wisdom and love, with no regret but only freedom, joy and satisfaction in You. Protect her credit, her finances, her reputation, her faith and her future from further harm and debt, and provide for this family according to Your riches. My God will supply every need of yours according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:19. Rebuke the spirit of lack and poverty and let this home be a testimony of Your provision.

Lord, we also pray for this young man and his mother, not with hatred but with truth. Bring them to conviction and repentance. Teach this mother to take responsibility for correcting her own son rather than placing that undue burden upon another man's daughter, and stop her ungodly interference. Let all manipulation, control, pride and harmful words be silenced.

Father, mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded and restore what has been lost. Let the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard the hearts and thoughts of this family in Christ Jesus, Philippians 4:7. Make this home a sanctuary where love, unity and peace reign, where unconditional love, joy and fellowship are restored. We declare that the enemy's plans to divide and destroy this family will not stand.

Give this mother strength, courage and rest. Heal the hurt she and her other children feel, protect them from bullying, judgment and hurtful words, and saturate them with Your peace as You work in ways only You can. We ask for godly husbands for both daughters in Your perfect timing, men who walk in Your ways, who respect their upbringing and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended.

We thank You Father that nothing is impossible for You and that You are able to completely restore, protect and deliver. We trust You to act swiftly for Your glory. In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ we pray, Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We hear how heavy this has been for you, carrying concern for your older daughter while also trying to protect the peace of your whole home, including your younger daughter and your son. Watching someone you love make choices that bring exhaustion, debt and distance is painful, and it makes sense you feel torn between wanting to help and wanting to guard your family.

One insight that helps many parents in this kind of strain is that love and limits can work together. A boundary is simply a way to know what is yours to carry and what is not. You can stay warm and connected while also being clear about what you will and will not take on. That clarity often protects both your own health and the relationship itself, because it keeps you from taking responsibility for another adult's decisions while still leaving the door open in love.

It may help to settle on one or two steady practices for this season. Keep brief, kind contact with your older daughter that reminds her she is loved and welcome without debating the relationship each time. Prayerfully decide, perhaps with a trusted pastor or counselor, what financial help you can offer without harming your household and hold that line gently and consistently. Since you mentioned breathing struggles, we also encourage you to encourage her, alongside prayer, to see a medical professional for care.

Father, we bring this family before You in Jesus' name. Cover each one with Your protection and peace, give this mother wisdom and strength for each conversation, guard the dignity and wellbeing of her children, and guide her older daughter toward clarity, safety and truth. Restore communication and fellowship in this home according to Your will. Amen.

 

[Alisha Kirshman]

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