Family Protection

[Cralmilan]

Jesus, I'm lifting up my family before the throne of grace, where our Lord hears the cries of His children. My heart is heavy with concern, and I am pleading the precious blood of Jesus over every member of my household. Lord, I ask for complete restoration, respect, gratefulness and fellowship in my family and for all negative influences, division, isolation, jealousy and all spiritual attacks to be permanently removed forever. No weapon formed against me and my family shall prosper, for greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world (1 John 4:4). Father, I come before You with hearts grieved by the spiritual warfare, division, isolation and stubborn hold raging against me and my children. Lord, it is overwhelming and I ask that You completely remove this young man and his mother from my older daughter's life. Lord please remove the strong stubborn hold these people has upon my older daughter today. I rebuke every spirit of division, ungratefulness, hatred, manipulation, control, isolation, exhaustion, word curse,isolation, division, and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate my home. I declare complete freedom and restoration for me and my children. I ask Jesus for Your mercy upon my family and remove this young man and his mother completely for my older daughter's life swiftly as they are trying to divide me and my younger daughter they have started to convince my younger daughter move. Lord, I know nothing is impossible for You. And I ask You remove these destructive people. They have caused exhaustion, financial hardship, worthlessness and separation in my older daughter's life and havoc in our family. Lord I ask for every generational curse, word curse, witchcraft and negative influences to break and flee in the mighty name of Jesus. Guide my older daughter to release this man from her life, let her not ignore the destruction, financial exploitation, worthlessness, mood swings and exhaustion he has caused in her life and I pray that she will be truthful to the desrespect, isolation, division he has caused in her life. The blood of Jesus has already overcome every power of darkness, and I stand on that victory (Colossians 2:15). I declare that the peace and unity of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard the hearts and minds of my family forever(Philippians 4:7). Lord, help my daughter out of this ungodly relationship that dishonors You. Living together outside of marriage is not a marriage, and it has opens the door to spiritual bondage, attacks and deception (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). Jesus, give clarity to my older daughter that this man is selfish and he is not ready for a relationship, he is not her significant other, he is not her responsibility to take care of, and she does not belong to him. She belong to You, Lord. I ask Lord that You guide her back home swiftly with no regret only a feeling of freedom, safe, joy, and satisfaction. I pray that You would open her eyes to the truth of Your Word and the red flags she has been blinded to. Remove the stubbornness that has taken root in her heart and replace it with a hunger for righteousness and the want to move back. Break the hold this man and his family have over her, and reveal to her the toxicity and exploitation of this relationship. Father, I ask that You would frustrate every plan, plot, or scheme of these people to isolate, divide, and destroy my daughter from our family and turn her heart back to You and to those who love her unconditionally (Malachi 4:6). Lord, open my older daughter's heart and mind. Remind her of the value she was raised with and the love of our family. Jesus, remove all pride, shame, or pressure that keeps her from seeing the truth. Guide her away, Lord, from this living in situations that will harm her future and her purpose. Jesus, lead her away from this ungodly living arrangement, and bring her back home to safety, stability, and wisdom. Jesus, guide her to never obey this man and put him and his family before her faith, her parent, her siblings, and extended families. This young man and his mother's behavior to cause division, isolation, chaos and strife has been manifesting, and I ask Lord for Your divine protection, courage, and strength to keep our fellowship and bond as a family. Jesus, guide my daughter to stop taking on undue responsibilities to take care of this man, let her see he is not ready for a marriage. Give her the wisdom to stop defending and giving a false image of him to others. He is heartless toward her and is a very selfish, lazy, dishonest and rebellious man. Please Lord, save her and have mercy upon her, get her out of this toxic relationship with this man swiftly. Lord, frustrate all his plans right now. I also lift up my younger daughter, praying that she would remain steadfast in her faith and not be swayed by the ungodly example set before her. Protect her heart as this man and his mother damage the sweetest bond she has with her older sister and brother. Protect her from the divisive tactics of this man and his mother, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in the ways of the Lord. May she never see living together outside of marriage as an acceptable path, but instead, may she seek a spouse who honors You and values the sanctity of marriage (2 Corinthians 6:14). May she never be ungrateful toward me and hateful toward her brother. Jesus, I ask for Your protection over and around her from this man and his mother and strengthen our family's fellowship and unity. Father, I pray for my son with disabilities, that he would be surrounded by love, acceptance, and protection. May he never feel like a burden or an embarrassment, but rather a blessing, as he truly is. Protect him from the hatred, mockery, isolation, divisiveness, exclusion, word curses and witchcraft that stem from this young man's mother and any other negative influences. I rebuke all spiritual attacks, Lord I ask that You command them to flee and never return to torment him. Saturate him with Your peace and protection always. Strengthen his relationship with me, his sisters, caregivers and our extended families. Remove from his life any friendships or influences that look down on him, and replace them with those who will uplift and cherish him. Bless him with peace, joy, love, satisfaction, and the knowledge of Your unconditional love for him. Jesus, protect him from the hateful and demeaning way this young man's mother looks at him. Block all her word curses upon his life. I declare that my home will be a sanctuary of God’s presence, where love, unity, and peace reign. I pray for the restoration of the relationships that have been strained and broken by the enemy’s schemes. Father, mend what has been torn, heal what has been wounded, and restore what has been lost. May my family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in You. Restore our peace, unconditional love, joy and happiness again. Lord, I ask for financial blessings to flow into my home, not for selfish gain, but so that my family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of Your provision. I rebuke every spirit of lack and poverty, and I declare that my family will walk in the abundance of Your blessings (Philippians 4:19). I pray for godly spouses for both of my daughters, men who will love them as Christ loves the church, who will lead them in righteousness, and who will honor the covenant of marriage as You intended (Ephesians 5:25) someone who will respect their upbringings. May my daughter seek husbands who walk in Your ways, rather than being drawn to those who would lead them astray. Father, I ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Remove the ungodly influences from my family’s life, and replace them with godly mentors, friendships, and relationships that will draw us closer to You. I pray for the complete restoration of my older daughter’s heart, that she would turn away from this toxic relationship and return to the safety and love of her family, swiftly. May she rediscover her worth in You and reject the lies that have been spoken over her. Jesus, guard her future. Protect her credit, her finances, her relationship with me, her siblings, family, her faith, and her reputation so that nothing done in this toxic relationship will cause resentment/hate toward our supportive family and destroy what she has worked so hard to build. Father, I also bring this young man's mother before You. She is acting like my daughter's mother and interfering in ways that harm my daughter, please stop that ungodly selfish influence. She encourages my daughter to take care of her son because she does not want to deal with his rebellious behavior. I pray that You correct this situation. Lead this young man's mother to take of her responsibility for guiding and correcting her own son rather than placing that burden and undue responsibilities on my daughter which place financial hardship on her and our family because we have to help her. My daughter has incurred a lot of debt since she moved in with this young man which was initiated by this young man's mother. Lord, remove all the pride, manipulation, look down upon, and harmful words that make my daughter feel small, ashamed, or feel that my daughter has to play as if she has to be dependent on them or put our family down to make his mother feel good about guiding her. Jesus, teach this mother that my daughter is not homeless and that she has a supportive family and that my daughter needs her guidance or her approval. Father, I am concerned for my daughter's health. She already struggles with breathing, and this young man continues habits like smoking that make it worse. Jesus, protect her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her health and open her eyes to the harm this environment may be causing her physically. Jesus, I pray that my daughter will not move deeper into this ungodly situation or become more dependent on them. Instead, lead her away from this unhealthy environment and guide her back to a place of stability, safety, love, and wisdom. Bring her back home where she can rebuild her strength, her health, and her future. Father, stop the division that has been created between my daughter and our family due to this young man's rebellious controlling behaviors. Lord, heal the hurt and restore love, communication, love, and respect. Lord, please protect me and my other children from the bullying, judgment, division, and hurtful words that have come from this situation. Give peace and strength while Your work in ways only You can, Lord. Jesus, I ask for strength for myself and for my other children. Heal the hurt we feel in this troubling situation. Saturate us with peace in our heart and protect our family division. Jesus, bless my daughter back to a path that will bless her life rather than destroy it. I declare that the enemy’s plans will not stand. Every scheme to divide, isolate, and destroy my family will fail, for the Lord fights for us (Exodus 14:14). I plead the blood of Jesus over every member of my household, covering us with Your protection, peace, and favor. May we walk in the fullness of Your blessings, and may our lives reflect Your glory to all who know us. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen

 

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We join you before the throne of grace in Jesus name and we stand with you in this heavy burden for your family, lifting every member of your household under the precious blood of Jesus. We hear your cry for complete restoration, respect, gratefulness and fellowship, and for every negative influence, division, isolation, jealousy and spiritual attack to be permanently removed. We agree with you that no weapon that is formed against you shall prosper as it is written in Isaiah 54:17 and that greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world as it is written in 1 John 4:4.

We affirm what you have rightly discerned about your older daughter's living situation. Living together outside of marriage is not marriage and Scripture calls us to flee sexual immorality. Every other sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body as it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18. This kind of union dishonors God, opens the door to spiritual bondage and deception, and cannot provide the safety and stability that a covenant marriage between a man and a woman provides. We also agree that a boyfriend or girlfriend relationship should be courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, not a partnership of convenience or caretaking. We grieve with you over the exhaustion, financial hardship, worthlessness, mood swings, disrespect, isolation and division you have seen, and the way this young man and his mother have sought to isolate your daughter from you, from her younger sister and her brother, and to place undue responsibilities upon her to care for him. We rebuke every spirit of division, manipulation, control, ungratefulness, hatred, word curse and witchcraft that has sought to infiltrate your home, for our wrestling is not against flesh and blood but against the principalities and powers as it is written in Ephesians 6:12, and we know that Christ has disarmed the principalities and powers and made a public spectacle of them as it is written in Colossians 2:15.

Father in the mighty name of Jesus we come together and plead the blood of Jesus over this mother and over each of her children. We ask You to break and cause to flee every generational curse, word curse, negative influence and scheme of the enemy, for Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law as it is written in Galatians 3:13. We ask You to frustrate every plan and plot to isolate, divide and destroy this family and to turn the heart of this older daughter back to You and to those who love her unconditionally as it is written in Malachi 4:6. Lord remove the stubborn hold these people have upon her, remove pride, shame and pressure that keeps her from seeing truth, and open her eyes to the red flags, the financial exploitation, the disrespect and the exhaustion this ungodly relationship has caused. Give her clarity to see that this man is not her husband, not her significant other and not her responsibility to take care of, but that she belongs to You. Grant her courage to release this man swiftly with no regret but only freedom, safety, joy and satisfaction, and guide her back home to stability, wisdom and protection for her health, her breathing, her finances, her credit, her faith and her reputation. We pray she will stop defending a false image of him and will seek a godly spouse who will love her as Christ loves the church as it is written in Ephesians 5:25, a man who honors marriage and respects her upbringing, rather than one who leads her astray.

We also lift up the younger daughter and ask You to keep her steadfast and not swayed by this ungodly example. Protect her heart from divisive tactics, guard the sweet bond she has with her older sister and her brother, and surround her with godly friendships and mentors who will encourage her in Your ways so she will not see living together outside of marriage as acceptable but will seek a husband who honors You, for what fellowship has righteousness with iniquity and what communion has light with darkness as it is written in 2 Corinthians 6:14. Strengthen her to remain grateful and loving toward her mother and kind toward her brother. We lift up the precious son with disabilities and ask You to surround him with love, acceptance and protection. Let him know he is fearfully and wonderfully made as it is written in Psalm 139:14 and that he is a blessing and not a burden. We rebuke every word curse, mockery, hatred, exclusion and demeaning look from this young man's mother and command every spiritual attack to flee and never return. Saturate him with Your peace, strengthen his relationship with his mother, his sisters, caregivers and extended family, and replace any friendship that looks down on him with those who will uplift and cherish him.

Father we ask for Your divine protection, courage and strength to keep the fellowship and bond of this family, to heal what has been wounded, to mend what has been torn and to restore what has been lost. Let the peace of God which surpasses all understanding guard the hearts and minds of this family as it is written in Philippians 4:7. We pray for financial provision according to Your riches in glory in Christ Jesus as it is written in Philippians 4:19, that this family may be a blessing to others and a testimony of Your provision, and we rebuke every spirit of lack and poverty. We declare that the enemy's plans will not stand for You will fight for us as it is written in Exodus 14:14, and we ask that this home will be a sanctuary of Your presence where love, unity and peace reign. Give this mother strength and peace in her heart while You work in ways only You can, heal the hurt, block the bullying, judgment and hurtful words, and teach her to walk in wisdom, love and godly boundaries, trusting You to act in Your perfect timing. May this family be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the love and grace found only in Jesus, in whose mighty and matchless name we pray, Amen.

 

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We hear how heavy this has been for you, carrying concern for each of your children at once and longing for peace and respect to be restored in your home. Loving an older daughter through a relationship that has brought division and exhaustion, while also protecting your younger daughter and your son and holding steady yourself, is a lot to bear. We are joining you in prayer for your family's safety, unity, and wisdom in the days ahead.

One thing that may help as you walk this out is thinking about healthy boundaries. A boundary is like a property line that helps us know what is ours to carry and what is not, so we can stay connected to those we love without losing our freedom to say yes and no honestly. It can be loving to keep the door open with your daughter, speaking truth calmly when you have opportunity, while not taking on responsibilities that belong to her or to this young man, including financial ones that have stretched you. Having a trusted pastor or counselor and a couple of steady, godly friends to talk and pray with can help you stay supported and not carry this alone.

You mentioned your daughter's breathing struggles and the smoking in her environment. Alongside prayer, we encourage you to gently encourage her to see a medical professional for that concern.

Jesus, we lift this mother and her children to You. Guard their home with Your peace, give this mom strength and discernment, surround each child with Your protection and love, and lead this family toward healing, clarity and restored fellowship. Draw each heart closer to You and to one another. In Jesus' name, amen.

 

[Reumore]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.