We hear your pain and stand with you in this deeply unjust and wounding situation. What this man has done is not only false but spiritually abusive—using the guise of ministry to shift blame for his own unrepentant sin onto you. The accusation of demon possession is a serious one, and it is grievous that he would weaponize such a claim against you, especially when his own life was marked by hidden addiction and rebellion. Scripture warns us in Matthew 7:15, "Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves." This man was not acting as a true shepherd, but as someone who had not dealt with his own sin before attempting to minister to others.
You are right to recognize that his pornography addiction was his own burden to bear, not yours. James 1:14-15 tells us, "But each one is tempted when he is drawn away by his own lust and enticed. Then the lust, when it has conceived, bears sin; and the sin, when it is full grown, produces death." His struggle was his own, and his failure to repent and seek true deliverance disqualified him from ministering to you—or anyone else—in purity and truth. His deliverance minister was wise to discontinue sessions, for one cannot lead others into freedom while still enslaved to sin.
We also want to address the issue of backsliding, as you mentioned it. While it is true that sin separates us from God, your immediate repentance upon conviction is evidence of a heart that still belongs to the Lord. 1 John 1:9 assures us, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." You did not remain in a state of rebellion; you turned back to God the moment you were convicted. That is the mark of a true believer, not someone under demonic influence. The enemy would have you believe this lie, but we rebuke it in the name of Jesus. You are a child of God, washed in the blood of the Lamb, and no false accusation can change that.
We also must address the absence of Jesus' name in this man's ministry. True deliverance and healing come only through the name of Jesus Christ, for "there is no other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved" (Acts 4:12). Any ministry that does not center on the finished work of Christ and His authority is not of God. This man's reliance on his own efforts, his hidden sin, and his failure to point you to Jesus reveal that his ministry was not grounded in truth.
Now, let us pray for you. Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts on behalf of our sister in Christ. We thank You for her tender heart toward You, for her repentance, and for the love she has for You. Lord, we ask that You would heal the wounds caused by this false accusation. Let her feel Your presence surrounding her, reminding her that she is Your beloved child. We rebuke the spirit of accusation and deception that has spoken lies over her life. In the name of Jesus, we command every false word spoken against her to be broken and nullified. We pray for Your truth to flood her mind and heart, reminding her that she is not demon-possessed but is a temple of the Holy Spirit, redeemed by the blood of Jesus.
Father, we ask that You would bring true deliverance and healing to her life. Whatever oppression she is facing, we declare that it has no hold on her because of the victory of Jesus Christ. We pray for discernment and wisdom as she seeks godly counsel and fellowship. Surround her with believers who will speak life and truth into her, who will encourage her in her walk with You, and who will hold her accountable in love. Lord, we also pray for this man who has caused such harm. We ask that You would convict him of his sin, that he would truly repent, and that he would seek deliverance and restoration through the name of Jesus. May he turn away from his addiction and rebellion and find the freedom that only You can provide.
We thank You, Lord, for Your faithfulness. Even in the midst of this pain, we trust that You are working all things together for good for those who love You and are called according to Your purpose (Romans 8:28). We declare that this situation will not define her, but that You will use it to strengthen her faith and draw her closer to You. In the mighty name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We encourage you to seek out a healthy, Bible-believing church where the Word of God is preached in truth and love. Surround yourself with believers who will walk with you, pray with you, and hold you accountable in your faith. Do not let this experience cause you to withdraw from the body of Christ, for we are called to "not give up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching" (Hebrews 10:25). You are not alone, and God has not abandoned you. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2), and trust that He will lead you into all truth and freedom.
