We hear your deep pain and the betrayal you’ve endured, and we stand with you in fervent prayer before the throne of grace. What you’ve described is a grievous wound—one inflicted not just by false accusation but by spiritual manipulation and deception. The enemy delights in twisting truth to destroy God’s people, and it is heartbreaking when those who claim to minister in Christ’s name become instruments of harm instead of healing. But we declare with authority: **you are not demon-possessed, nor have you ever been.** The Holy Spirit within you bears witness to your identity as a child of God, redeemed by the blood of Jesus and sealed for eternity (Ephesians 1:13-14). The testimony of your church counselor and therapist—along with your decades of faithful walk with the Lord—confirms what Scripture makes clear: *"You are from God, little children, and have overcome them; because greater is He who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4).
This man’s accusations were not only false but spiritually abusive. The fact that he deflected blame onto you—claiming *you* attacked *him* after being confronted with his sin—reveals a heart unwilling to take responsibility. Worse still, his long-standing struggle with pornography, which he attributed to *your* supposed demonic influence, is a sobering reminder of how the enemy exploits unrepentant sin to distort truth. Jesus warned, *"Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing, but inwardly are ravening wolves"* (Matthew 7:15). This man’s actions align far more with the deeds of a wolf than a shepherd. His lack of remorse and victim mentality are further evidence of a hardened heart, and we must pray for his repentance—not for his comfort, but for his soul.
Yet we also grieve with you over the damage done. False accusations leave scars that go deeper than words; they can shake our confidence in God’s voice and make us question our own discernment. But the Lord sees every tear, every moment of confusion, and every prayer lifted in His name. He is your vindicator, and He will not leave His justice undone. *"The Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still"* (Exodus 14:14). We encourage you to release this burden to Him fully, trusting that He will restore what was stolen and heal what was broken.
Let us pray together:
**Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, lifting up our sister who has been wounded by false accusation and spiritual deception. Lord, You know the truth of her heart—You see her faithfulness, her repentance, and her love for You. We declare over her that she is fearfully and wonderfully made (Psalm 139:14), washed clean by the blood of Jesus, and filled with Your Holy Spirit. We rebuke the lies of the enemy that have sought to define her by this man’s words. In the name of Jesus, we break every assignment of shame, confusion, and self-doubt that has been spoken over her. Let Your truth rise up within her like a shield, reminding her that she is Your beloved, Your chosen, and Your redeemed.**
**Father, we also pray for this man who has caused such harm. We ask that You would pierce his heart with conviction, not condemnation. Expose the darkness in his life—his addiction, his pride, his refusal to repent—and bring him to a place of brokenness before You. If he is truly Yours, soften his heart to seek restoration. If he is not, we ask that You would remove him from positions of influence where he can continue to wound Your sheep. Lord, we pray for protection over our sister’s mind and emotions. Guard her from bitterness, from the temptation to retaliate, and from the lie that she is somehow to blame. Fill her with Your peace, which surpasses all understanding (Philippians 4:7), and let her rest in the knowledge that You are her defender.**
**We also lift up the church where this took place. Lord, raise up godly leaders who will hold false teachers accountable and protect the flock from deception. Let this situation be a catalyst for repentance, humility, and a return to sound doctrine. And finally, Father, we ask that You would use this trial for Your glory. Let our sister’s story be a testimony of Your faithfulness, a reminder that even in betrayal, You are working all things together for good (Romans 8:28). Strengthen her to walk in forgiveness—not because this man deserves it, but because You have called her to it. And may her life from this point forward be a beacon of Your light, drawing others to the truth of who You are.**
**We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus, the name above every name, the only name by which we are saved and set free. Amen.**
To you, dear sister, we say this: **Do not let this man’s words or actions define you.** The enemy would love nothing more than for you to carry this offense as a weight, but Christ has already borne it on the cross. Your identity is not in what others say about you—it is in what *God* says about you. He calls you His own, and no weapon formed against you shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Lean into the community of believers around you—your counselor, your therapist, and your church—for they are gifts from God to help you heal. And as you walk forward, let this be your declaration: *"The Lord is my light and my salvation—whom shall I fear? The Lord is the stronghold of my life—of whom shall I be afraid?"* (Psalm 27:1). You are not alone. We stand with you, and more importantly, *He* stands with you.
