We stand with you in this trial, dear sibling in Christ, and we lift your burden before the Lord, for He is the righteous Judge who sees all things in secret and will bring every hidden deed—whether good or evil—to light. The behavior you describe is not merely human conflict but the work of a divisive and deceitful spirit, one that thrives in darkness and seeks to corrupt what is good. The Apostle Paul warns us in **Romans 16:17-18 (WEB)**, *"Now I beg you, brothers, look out for those who are causing the divisions and occasions of stumbling, contrary to the doctrine which you learned, and turn away from them. For those who are such don’t serve our Lord, Jesus Christ, but their own belly; and by their smooth and flattering speech, they deceive the hearts of the innocent."* This is not a battle against flesh and blood, but against spiritual forces of wickedness that seek to disrupt unity, integrity, and peace.
We praise you for bringing this before the Lord rather than retaliating in kind, for vengeance belongs to Him alone. **Proverbs 26:24-26 (WEB)** says, *"A malicious man disguises himself with his lips, but he harbors evil in his heart. When his speech is charming, don’t believe him; for there are seven abominations in his heart. His malice may be concealed by deception, but his wickedness will be exposed in the assembly."* The Lord *will* expose what is hidden. The light of Christ cannot be overcome by darkness, and truth *will* prevail. Your prayer for discernment for your department head is wise, for **Proverbs 2:6-8 (WEB)** reminds us, *"For Yahweh gives wisdom. Out of his mouth comes knowledge and understanding. He lays up sound wisdom for the upright. He is a shield to those who walk in integrity, that he may guard the paths of justice, and preserve the way of his saints."*
Yet we must also examine our own hearts in this season. While we pray for justice, we are called to love our enemies, bless those who curse us, and overcome evil with good (**Romans 12:17-21**). This does not mean tolerating sin or enabling manipulation, but it does mean responding in a way that honors Christ. **1 Peter 2:23 (WEB)** shows us the example of Jesus: *"Who, when he was cursed, didn’t curse back. When he suffered, didn’t threaten, but committed himself to him who judges righteously."* Your request for grace and patience is godly, and we join you in asking the Lord to guard your heart from bitterness. Bitterness is a root that defiles (**Hebrews 12:15**), and the enemy would love nothing more than to drag you into the same sin that ensnares this woman.
We also encourage you to set boundaries where possible. Wisdom does not require you to be a doormat. If there are opportunities to document interactions, speak truth in love when necessary, or seek counsel from godly leadership, do so. But even in this, trust the Lord to fight your battles. **Exodus 14:14 (WEB)** declares, *"Yahweh will fight for you, and you shall be still."*
Now, let us pray together over this situation:
Heavenly Father, we come before You as a body of believers, lifting up our sister/brother who is facing the relentless schemes of the enemy through this divisive and manipulative individual. Lord, You are the God who sees all things—nothing is hidden from Your sight. We ask that You expose every lie, every hidden motive, and every deceitful word that has been spoken in darkness. Shine Your light so brightly that no shadow of manipulation can remain. Open the eyes of the department head, grant them discernment to see the truth, and protect them from being swayed by flattery or falsehood.
We bind the spirit of division, strife, and deception in the name of Jesus Christ. No weapon formed against Your child shall prosper (**Isaiah 54:17**). Surround them with Your angels, Lord, and let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their heart and mind (**Philippians 4:7**). Give them the wisdom to know when to speak and when to remain silent, when to act and when to trust You to act on their behalf.
Father, we also pray for this woman who is causing such turmoil. Soften her heart, Lord. Convict her of her sin, and if she is unaware of the damage she is causing, open her eyes to repentance. Break the power of pride, selfishness, and deceit in her life. May she encounter Your truth in a way that leads her to transformation, for You desire that none should perish but that all should come to repentance (**2 Peter 3:9**).
Strengthen our sibling in Christ to walk in integrity, patience, and grace. Let their work be a testimony of Your goodness, and let their response to this trial bring glory to Your name. Remind them that their battle is not against people but against principalities, and that You have already won the victory through Christ Jesus.
We declare that truth will prevail, that justice will be done, and that Your will shall be established in this workplace. May Your kingdom come, and Your will be done, in this situation as it is in heaven. We ask all this in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.
Stand firm, dear one. The Lord is your defender, and He will not allow the enemy to triumph. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (**Hebrews 12:2**), and trust that He is working all things together for your good (**Romans 8:28**). If the burden becomes too heavy, seek godly counsel from a pastor or mature believer who can walk with you in prayer and wisdom. You are not alone in this—we are with you, and most importantly, *He* is with you.
