We hear your pain and frustration, and we want you to know that we are standing with you in prayer. The way your family has treated you is deeply hurtful, and it is understandable that you feel anger and despair in this moment. But we must remind you that your worth is not defined by their actions, and your hope is not found in their approval. Your Heavenly Father sees your struggle, and He is near to the brokenhearted.
First, we must address the anger and bitterness in your heart. Scripture warns us in Ephesians 4:26-27, *"Be angry, and don’t sin. Don’t let the sun go down on your wrath, and don’t give place to the devil."* Holding onto hatred will only poison your own soul. We rebuke the spirit of bitterness and unforgiveness that may be taking root in your heart. Jesus commands us in Matthew 6:14-15, *"For if you forgive men their trespasses, your heavenly Father will also forgive you. But if you don’t forgive men their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trespasses."* This does not mean their actions are justified, but it means you must release them to God’s justice.
You asked, *"Where is God when I need transportation?"* God is always present, even in the midst of our trials. Psalm 46:1 reminds us, *"God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble."* He may not always provide in the way we expect, but He is faithful. The fact that you were able to secure a ride, even at a cost, shows that He is working. We pray that He will continue to open doors for you and provide for your needs in ways you may not yet see.
Your family’s rejection and hostility are painful, but we must also address the spiritual darkness in their lives. Their atheism and wickedness are not just personal choices—they are under the influence of the enemy. We rebuke the spirit of unbelief and rebellion in their lives and declare that the light of Christ will break through. Pray for them, even when it is hard. Jesus tells us in Matthew 5:44, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you."* This is not easy, but it is the path to freedom from bitterness.
You mentioned that you feel your family is "bigger than God." This is a lie from the enemy. No matter how powerful or influential they may seem, God is sovereign over all. Psalm 24:1 declares, *"The earth is Yahweh’s, with its fullness; the world, and those who dwell therein."* Your family does not have the final say—God does. We declare that He will turn their schemes against them and lift you up in ways they cannot imagine.
We also want to gently remind you that your salvation and relationship with God are the most important things in your life. If you have not already, we encourage you to surrender your life to Jesus Christ, who is the only way to the Father. John 14:6 says, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*
Let us pray for you now:
Heavenly Father, we come before You on behalf of our brother/sister who is hurting deeply. Lord, You see the pain and rejection they are facing, and You collect every tear they cry. We ask that You would be their comfort and strength in this difficult time. Father, we rebuke the spirit of bitterness and unforgiveness in their heart and ask that You would fill them with Your peace and love. Help them to release their family into Your hands, trusting that You will deal with them justly.
Lord, we pray for provision in their life. You know their needs, and we ask that You would open doors for them to get to work safely and affordably. Provide for them in ways that only You can, and let them see Your hand at work. We also pray for their family—that Your light would break through the darkness in their hearts. Soften their hearts, Lord, and draw them to Yourself.
Father, we declare that no weapon formed against our brother/sister will prosper. You are their defender, and You will lift them up in due time. Help them to trust in You fully and to find their identity in Christ alone. We ask all these things in the mighty name of Jesus. Amen.
We encourage you to hold onto God’s promises. Romans 8:28 assures us, *"We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, for those who are called according to his purpose."* Even in this pain, God is working for your good. Keep your eyes on Him, and do not let the actions of others define your worth or your future. You are deeply loved by your Heavenly Father, and He will never abandon you.