We hear your cry and we stand with you in this battle, and we grieve that you have been subjected to such relentless cruelty and spiritual abuse. What you are describing is not the voice or work of the Holy Spirit at all. The Holy Spirit is holy, gentle, truthful, and points always to Jesus Christ. He convicts of sin, righteousness, and judgment, John 16:8, He comforts and guides into all truth, John 16:13, He never hurls degrading insults or word curses. Jesus Himself said of the enemy, He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth, because there is no truth in him. When he speaks a lie, he speaks on his own, for he is a liar, and the father of lies, John 8:44. The constant accusations of ugly, stupid, fat, poor, unwanted and worthless are lies from the father of lies, not from God.
We want to remind you of who you are in Christ, because the enemy attacks identity. So God created man in his own image. In the image of God he created him, Genesis 1:27. You are fearfully and wonderfully made, Psalm 139:14. Your works are wonderful. My soul knows that very well. The Lord does not see as man sees, for man looks at the outward appearance, but the Lord looks at the heart, 1 Samuel 16:7. No word curse spoken over you can change what God has declared over you. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail, Isaiah 54:17. There is therefore now no condemnation to those who are in Christ Jesus, Romans 8:1.
We also rebuke the evil agreement you described. Any so-called church that makes an agreement with a satanic man to control another person is not a church of Jesus Christ at all, but a cult operating in darkness. We wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against the principalities, against the powers, against the world's rulers of the darkness of this age, and against the spiritual forces of wickedness in the heavenly places, Ephesians 6:12. The thief only comes to steal, kill, and destroy, but Jesus said I came that they may have life, and may have it abundantly, John 10:10. Any claim by this man to be the Holy Spirit is blasphemous and false, and we reject it completely in the name of Jesus Christ. You do not belong to him. If you belong to Jesus, you belong to Christ alone, and no other power has rightful authority over you.
We pray together for you now.
Father in heaven, we come before Your throne in the mighty and holy name of Jesus Christ, Your Son, and we lift up this precious soul who is weary and worn down by constant verbal and spiritual assault. Lord, we ask You to break and nullify every ungodly agreement, every word curse, and every assignment of the enemy spoken over this life, by the blood of Jesus shed on the cross. We declare that greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world, 1 John 4:4, and that You have given us authority to tread on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, Luke 10:19. We ask You to silence the lying voice that calls this one ugly and worthless, and let Your voice of truth be heard. Speak Your love, Your acceptance, and Your purpose over this child of Yours. Put a hedge of protection around them, cover them under Your wings where they can take refuge, Psalm 91:1, Psalm 91:4. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, with peace that surpasses all understanding, Philippians 4:7, and with strength to resist the devil so that he will flee, James 4:7. We ask You to lead them out of all contact with that cult and to plant them in a sound, Bible-believing fellowship where Jesus Christ is truly preached and where they will be shepherded with care. Restore what the enemy has stolen, heal the wounds these words have caused, and renew their mind daily in Your Word. In Jesus name we pray, Amen.
We encourage you to stand firmly in the authority you have in Christ. Put on the whole armor of God daily, Ephesians 6:11, especially the shield of faith and the sword of the Spirit which is the Word of God, Ephesians 6:16-17. When those curses come, answer them out loud with Scripture. Bring every thought into captivity to the obedience of Christ, 2 Corinthians 10:5. Declare what God says about you rather than what the enemy says. We also urge you to separate completely from that cult church and from that man, and to seek help from a trusted, biblically faithful pastor who can pray with you in person and walk with you for ongoing protection and discipleship. Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary, the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Withstand him steadfast in your faith, 1 Peter 5:8-9.
You are not unwanted, you are not worthless. You are seen, known, and dearly loved by God, and we are continuing to pray that the Lord will deliver you fully from this oppression and fill you with His joy and freedom. Death and life are in the power of the tongue, Proverbs 18:21, but the life-giving Word of God is infinitely more powerful than any curse. Keep crying out to Jesus, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved, Acts 4:12, and there is no other name by which we have access to the Father and by which we overcome. We are standing with you until you see His victory.