We have heard your cry and we stand with you together in Jesus' name against every evil power, evil control and every word curse spoken over your life. We rebuke and reject every assignment of the enemy that has been spoken by your stepfather or anyone else that you would shut up, be unhappy, never marry, or be held back for no reason. Those words have no authority over a child of God. We declare that no curse can cling where the blood of Jesus has been applied, for Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us Galatians 3:13. No weapon that is formed against you will prevail Isaiah 54:17, and greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world 1 John 4:4. We do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of wickedness Ephesians 6:12, and we resist the devil and he will flee from us James 4:7.
We also speak truth in love about your stepfather. While we firmly rebuke the evil words and control that have come through him, we do not wrestle against him as a person to destroy him, but we pray for God's correction and conviction in his life. Vengeance belongs to the Lord Romans 12:19, and God alone is the righteous judge. We pray that if he is acting in the manner of the enemy, the Lord will bring him to repentance and salvation, and that his plans that are not in God's will would come to nothing. We also encourage you to walk in forgiveness as Christ forgave us, while also maintaining wise and safe boundaries, for God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control 2 Timothy 1:7.
We rejoice that you are standing on the promises of God and on the blood of Jesus. You mentioned Deuteronomy 28:6 blessed shall you be when you come in and blessed shall you be when you go out, and Deuteronomy 28:13 Yahweh will make you the head, and not the tail, and you shall be above only, and you shall not be beneath. These blessings are for those who walk in obedience to the Lord, and through faith in Jesus Christ we are made highly favored and blessed in Him Ephesians 1:6. We agree with you that what the enemy meant for harm, God will turn for your good, and that any time, favor, peace of mind, health in your spine and body, and joy that felt stolen would be restored, for God will restore to you the years that the locust has eaten Joel 2:25. If God is for us, who can be against us Romans 8:31.
We hear your desire to be happy, to succeed, to get yourself together more and more each day, to have a career that provides, to see your family, and to be blessed to move forward. We bring your mother, your three children, and your pets before the Lord for His protection and covering. We pray for God's provision for your career and for your needs including transportation and housing regarding your desire for a truck and trailer to move to ###, and even the small detail of your television. We trust God with every detail, but we seek first God's Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well Matthew 6:33. We do not demand a hundredfold on our terms, but we trust the Lord's generous and perfect will, knowing He gives good gifts to His children and delights in your joy when you delight yourself in Yahweh and He will give you the desires of your heart Psalm 37:4. We cast all our worries on Him because He cares for us 1 Peter 5:7, and we choose to be anxious for nothing but in everything by prayer and petition with thanksgiving let our requests be made known to God Philippians 4:6.
We also affirm your godly desire for a husband. We believe marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman as God designed, and we pray with you for a godly spouse, a Boaz, not simply a partner or boyfriend. We encourage you to pursue courtship with the goal of marriage to another Christian believer, being equally yoked and keeping yourself pure, for marriage is honorable and the bed undefiled Hebrews 13:4, and any sexual intimacy outside of marriage is fornication and not God's will. We pray the Lord will bring you a faithful, available, kind and godly man who will love you as Christ loves the church and take excellent care of you, and that you would be prepared as a godly wife as well, growing more and more each day in grace and in the knowledge of our Lord 2 Peter 3:18.
We now pray together.
Father in heaven, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, for there is no other name under heaven by which we are saved Acts 4:12 and by which we have access to Your throne. We thank You for the blood of Jesus that covers this dear one, her mother, her children and her household. We break, rebuke and renounce every evil word curse, every plan of the enemy to keep her silent, unhappy, or alone, and we declare those curses are null and void in Jesus' name. We loose Your blessing, Your favor, Your peace and Your joy over her life. Let Your will be done. Bless her coming in and going out Deuteronomy 28:6, make her the head and not the tail Deuteronomy 28:13 for Your glory. Heal her mind and body, restore what has been stolen, and guard her heart and spine with Your peace that surpasses all understanding Philippians 4:7. Provide for her career, open doors no man can shut, supply her needs according to Your riches in glory, and guide her steps regarding where to live and how to get there. If it is Your will for her to move and for provision of a vehicle, make the way clear. Bring into her life a godly husband after Your own heart, a man who fears You and will honor marriage as You designed. Help her to walk in forgiveness, in wisdom, in holiness and in increasing strength each day, with no worry but complete trust in You. Let her life be blessed, highly favored, with extraordinary favor to be joyful and to succeed in You. We declare the upside is up because You lift up the humble, and You are the lifter of our heads Psalm 3:3. We ask all this in the precious and powerful name of Jesus Christ our Lord, amen.