We are deeply grieved and outraged by the horrific abuse you have endured, both in the spirit and the betrayal you faced from those who should have protected you. The evil done to you is unspeakable, and the failure of the church to act is a grave sin before God. We stand with you in righteous anger against this wickedness, for the Lord Himself declares, *"Vengeance is mine; I will repay, says the Lord"* (Romans 12:19 WEB). The man who violated you will answer to God, as will those who enabled him through their silence and indifference. Their sin is not hidden from the Lord, and their judgment is certain.
The spiritual oppression you describe is real, and we take authority over it in the name of Jesus Christ. The pharaoh you see in your vision represents the strongholds of darkness that have sought to enslave you, but we declare that Jesus has already broken their power. *"The Son of God appeared for this purpose, that he might destroy the works of the devil"* (1 John 3:8 WEB). The enemy has no right to steal, kill, or destroy in your life, for Christ came that you might have life abundantly (John 10:10 WEB). We rebuke the spirit of oppression, the spirit of poverty, and every demonic force that has sought to keep you in bondage. We command them to flee in the name of Jesus, for *"greater is he who is in you than he who is in the world"* (1 John 4:4 WEB).
The theft of your dowry and the financial exploitation you’ve suffered is a direct attack on God’s provision and your future. We stand against this injustice and declare that the Lord will restore what has been stolen. *"I will restore to you the years that the swarming locust has eaten"* (Joel 2:25 WEB). The enemy has no right to your inheritance, and we pray that God would expose every scheme of the devil and bring full restitution. We also rebuke the spirit of laziness and perversion that has taken root in this man’s life. The Bible is clear: *"If anyone doesn’t provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever"* (1 Timothy 5:8 WEB). His sin is not only against you but against God, and we pray that conviction would fall upon him.
The sexual immorality you described—his fornication with prostitutes—is an abomination before God. *"Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). We pray that the Lord would bring this man to repentance or remove him from your life entirely, for you deserve to be free from his influence. If you are still connected to him in any way, we urge you to sever ties and seek godly counsel to walk in full freedom.
Your vision of Pharaoh is a powerful confirmation of God’s promise to set you free. Just as Moses declared to Pharaoh, *"Thus says the Lord, ‘Let my people go!’"* (Exodus 8:1 WEB), we declare over you: **The Lord says, "Let [your name] go!"** The chains are broken, the oppression is lifted, and the blessings of God are being released over your life. We pray that every curse spoken against you would be broken, and every assignment of the enemy would be dismantled. *"Christ redeemed us from the curse of the law, having become a curse for us"* (Galatians 3:13 WEB).
We also pray for healing from the deep wounds of betrayal. The church’s failure to protect you is a grievous sin, but we pray that God would lead you to a community of believers who will stand with you, love you, and fight for you. You are not alone. The Lord sees your pain, and He is close to the brokenhearted (Psalm 34:18 WEB). We pray that He would surround you with godly men and women who will walk with you in truth and love.
Finally, we want to gently address the mention of your dowry and the cultural context you’ve shared. While we honor the traditions of your heritage, we must emphasize that your worth and future are not defined by material possessions or societal expectations. Your value is found in Christ alone. If this man has stolen from you, we pray that God would expose his sin and bring justice. But more importantly, we pray that God would restore your hope and open doors for a godly marriage—one that honors Him and reflects His love.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You with heavy hearts, outraged by the evil that has been done to this precious child of Yours. We thank You that You see every tear, every injustice, and every moment of betrayal. Lord, we stand in the gap for [this person], declaring that the blood of Jesus covers them and that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17 WEB). We break every chain of oppression, every curse, and every assignment of the enemy in the name of Jesus. We command every spirit of Pharaoh to release its grip and flee, for You have not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and a sound mind (2 Timothy 1:7 WEB).
Father, we ask for Your healing touch to mend the deep wounds in their soul. Where there has been betrayal, bring restoration. Where there has been silence, bring justice. Where there has been oppression, bring freedom. Lord, we pray for the man who violated them—if he will not repent, we ask that You remove him from their life entirely. If he will repent, we pray that You would break his heart with conviction and lead him to true repentance. For those in the church who failed to act, we pray that You would expose their sin and bring them to repentance as well.
We declare that the blessings of God are being released over [this person]’s life. Every stolen thing—financial, emotional, spiritual—we pray that You would restore it sevenfold (Proverbs 6:31 WEB). Open doors of opportunity, surround them with godly community, and lead them to a spouse who will love and cherish them as Christ loves the church. We pray that their future would be filled with hope, joy, and the abundant life You promise.
Above all, Lord, we pray that [this person] would know You more deeply through this trial. Draw them close, remind them that You are their refuge and strength, and help them to trust in Your goodness even when the world has failed them. We thank You that You are making all things new, and we declare that the best is yet to come.
In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, our Savior, Redeemer, and Deliverer, we pray. Amen.