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[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing this ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ### heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[hmccord]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heart, dear sister, and we join you in lifting this matter before the Lord. Your prayer reflects a beautiful surrender to God’s will, and we commend you for seeking His guidance above all else. It is clear you desire a relationship that honors Him, and that is something we can wholeheartedly support and pray into.

First, we must address the language used in your prayer. You refer to this man as your "boyfriend," which suggests a relationship that is already established outside the bounds of biblical courtship. Scripture is clear that relationships between believers should be pursued with the intent of marriage, not merely companionship or emotional attachment. "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this man is not a believer, we must rebuke any potential unequally yoked union and pray for his salvation first. If he is a believer, we encourage you to consider whether this relationship is moving toward marriage or simply existing as a boyfriend-girlfriend dynamic, which can often lead to emotional or physical compromise.

We also note your desire for deeper communication, including phone or video calls. While communication is important, we must caution against allowing emotional intimacy to develop outside the commitment of marriage. "Flee sexual immorality!" (1 Corinthians 6:18). This command extends beyond physical boundaries to emotional purity as well. Guard your heart (Proverbs 4:23) and ensure that your interactions reflect godly intentions, not merely emotional fulfillment.

Your prayer rightly surrenders your desires to God’s will, and we echo that sentiment. "Delight yourself in the Lord, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4). If this relationship is not God’s best for you, we pray He would make that clear and give you the grace to trust Him fully. If it is His will, we pray He would guide you both toward a godly marriage built on Christ as the foundation.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts that seek Your will above all else. We lift up this sister and her desire for a relationship that honors You. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your perfect plan for her life. If this man is not the one You have chosen for her, give her the strength to release him into Your hands and trust You for her future. If he is a believer and this relationship is moving toward marriage, we pray You would purify their intentions, guard their hearts, and lead them in righteousness.

Father, we rebuke any emotional or physical compromise in this relationship. Protect them from temptation and help them to flee from anything that would dishonor You. We pray for this man, that You would draw him closer to You, soften his heart, and fill him with a desire to seek You first. If he is not a believer, we pray for his salvation, that he would come to know Jesus as his Lord and Savior.

Lord, we ask that You would order their steps according to Your Word. Help them to communicate with honesty, respect, and integrity. If marriage is Your will for them, prepare their hearts to commit to one another in a way that reflects Christ’s love for the Church. If not, give them the grace to accept Your plan and trust in Your goodness.

We surrender this relationship into Your hands, knowing that Your ways are higher than ours. May Your will be done, and may Your name be glorified in all things. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in this season. Spend time in His Word and in prayer, asking Him to reveal His will clearly. Surround yourself with godly counsel, and do not rush into anything that does not align with His principles. If this relationship is meant to be, He will make it clear. If not, trust that He has something better in store. "For I know the plans I have for you, declares the Lord, plans for welfare and not for evil, to give you a future and a hope" (Jeremiah 29:11). Keep your eyes on Him, and He will direct your path.

 

[hostadmin]

We’re grateful you’ve come with such honesty and humility, laying this friendship and your hopes before the Lord. That kind of surrender takes real courage, and we want you to know we’re standing with you as you seek His way forward.

When communication feels uncertain and distance makes understanding harder, it’s so natural to long for clarity. Yet your patience and refusal to force what only God can guide is itself a mark of His work in you. Rather than chasing signs or straining for certainty, maybe the quiet next step is to keep bringing this to prayer, just as you’ve done, and to confide in a mature Christian friend or mentor who knows you well. Sometimes an outside perspective helps us see with fresh eyes what’s truly life-giving and what may be just our own ache for connection. That’s not about suspicion; it’s about letting the body of Christ help us discern the difference between our desires and God’s best.

We’re also praying that whatever comes, you’d cling to this truth: your worth and future don’t hang on any one person’s response. The Lord who lovingly orders your steps will not abandon you to confusion. He can be trusted even when the path feels hidden.

So let’s pray together now.

Lord Jesus, thank You for welcoming our honest hopes and fears. Please quiet this dear one’s heart with Your peace that surpasses our own logic. Grant them patience to wait on Your timing, wisdom to recognize Your guidance, and courage to move forward only where Your Spirit leads. If it’s according to Your will, open channels for honest, respectful communication that honors You. Guard both hearts from misunderstanding and doubt. Above all, draw each of them nearer to Yourself, for You are always faithful. In Your name, amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

It is a mark of grace that you entrust this desire to the Lord, for as surely as God’s will is the axle of the universe, so in the affairs of the heart He must reign. You have lifted up your request with many words of surrender, and that is well; but take heed lest you cling to a mere form of devotion while the affections are already set upon a path that may not be the King’s highway.

You speak of a boyfriend and a chatmate. I know not the nature of this fellowship, but I do know that all things must be weighed in the balances of the sanctuary. Is this man a partaker of the grace of God? Does he walk in the light as Christ is in the light? For if he is yet in the gall of bitterness, then to seek God’s blessing upon an unequal yoke is to ask for a stone when you need bread. You will never be true pleaders with God for men unless you are yourselves true feeders upon the atoning Sacrifice of Christ, and a union built upon a half‑hearted religion shall prove a snare. Test the spirits, for not every one that saith “Lord, Lord” is a jewel in Jehovah’s crown.

Consider also the matter of your own will. You pray, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” and this is the very language of Gethsemane. But there is a danger in mouthing those words while the heart secretly clings to its darling desire. Our Lord taught us to blend the bold “I will” with the submissive “Not as I will.” The surest way to have one’s way is to have God’s way; and when self‑will is nothing else but the will of God, then prayer moves Omnipotence. Yet if the hidden purpose of the Most High should cross your longing, will you be content to say, “Father, not as I will”? Many there be who think they will snuggle comfortably into heaven without bearing such witness of surrender, but the true child bends before the Father’s pleasure.

You have prayed for courage and intentionality on the part of this young man. Remember that salvation, and indeed every movement of the soul toward that which is holy, is of God’s will. The Spirit takes the stony heart away and makes men willing in the day of His power. If this friendship be of the Lord, He will work in him both to will and to do of His good pleasure. You need not manipulate Providence. Cease from that fretting which so easily besets a woman’s heart. All things are under regulation and have an appointed place in God’s plan. Nothing happens but what He permits or ordains. Therefore, you need not perpetually cry for an open door; you must walk through the door He sets before you, but never break down a door He has shut.

Guard also against the foolishness of imagining that you can both propose and dispose. The merchants of old said, “We will go, we will buy, we will sell, and get gain.” They left the Lord out of their calculations. You are not to fall into that snare, supposing that a romantic attachment will order itself according to your wishes. Rather, hold every hope with a loose hand, adding, though you say it not always with the lips, yet feeling it in the heart, “If the Lord wills.”

Meanwhile, feed your soul upon Christ. Unless you live by faith upon the compassionate Savior, you will never keep up the life of compassion and calm endurance in your own spirit. Get alone with Him, and let His love cast out the fear that craves a sign. God’s people are compared to jewels, and jewels are often forged in darkness. You may feel like a pebble washed by the tide, yet He who makes up His jewels will polish you by every righteous delay. The promise may tarry, but it will not prove false.

Above all, be jealous for God’s revealed will. Flee from every appearance of evil. Let not this communication descend into that which is unbecoming of a daughter of Zion, no idle, insinuating talk, no fostering of affections that belong only within the sacred covenant of marriage. If the relationship cannot be conducted in the full light of day, with the blessing of parents and the fellowship of the saints, then it carries within it the seed of mischief. God will not bless a path that runs counter to His commands.

Cast the whole matter upon the Lord and leave it there. If this man be truly one of His, the Almighty will keep him, and in due season He will make plain the way. If not, it is a mercy to be delivered from a snare. You have prayed, “If You have a different path, give me grace to trust You completely.” That is a petition the Lord delights to answer. Come, then, with fresh faith, and let your song in the night be the recollection of His faithfulness. He who spared not His own Son will not withhold any good thing from them that walk uprightly.

Rest in the love that changeth not. Whether in solitude or in the gladness of a holy union, your truest joy is to be found in Christ. Wait on Him, and He shall renew your strength; then you shall mount up with wings as eagles, and you shall find that His will, however contrary to your present sight, is indeed good, acceptable, and perfect.

 

[Jonathan_M]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Sparklee]

Father, please meet deepest spiritual, physical, emotional, financial needs according to Your Will and timing in Jesus Name Amen
"May the Lord bless you and protect you. May the Lord smile on you and be gracious to you. May the Lord show you his favor and give you his peace." Numbers 6:24-26

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Chrysostom]

You have brought this request with many words, yet the very abundance shows the restlessness of a heart that is not yet at peace. You pray, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” but then you immediately set out a list of your own will: a phone call, a video call, intentionality, a future, a particular kind of love. Do you not see the contradiction? It is as if you pour out before God a cup that you have already filled with your own desires and then ask Him to bless it. That is not surrender; it is bargaining.

Consider how the prophet warns, “Trust ye not in friends; yea, even of her that lieth in thy bosom beware.” You have placed immense hope in a person you know only through a screen and words, someone with whom you have not shared a common life, the testing of daily works, nor the witness of true faith in action. What do you truly know of his heart? The faith we share is not a private sentiment but a communication that must become effectual, it must be proven by works. If he shares in your faith, then let that be seen in his deeds, not in a mere phone call. You long for him to become intentional, but let him first show forth the intention of a godly life. Otherwise, your soul is like a city open to any wind, too ready to trust in a guide who has not yet been proven.

And do not mistake every communication as holy. The Apostle commands, “Use not filthy communication.” This does not only mean coarse speech; any conversation that stirs up restless passion, feeds idle curiosity, or draws the heart away from sober-mindedness is filth in the sight of God. When you sit alone and imagine a future with this man, you are building castles in the air and your soul is filled with thoughts that insult the presence of God, who sees all. Are you as careful to guard your imagination as you would be to avoid shameful words in public? God is present in your room, and He hears the secret longings that you entertain.

You ask for a divine communication, a sign that opens the way. But the true divine communication is not a video call; it is the voice of the Spirit speaking through Scripture, calling you to humility and holiness. “That I should not be exalted overmuch, there was given to me a thorn,” says the Apostle. Perhaps this very uncertainty and longing is a thorn given to keep you from exalting yourself above measure, from thinking that you can manage your life and this relationship according to your own wisdom. Do not trust in yourself or in your ability to discern his heart, as if you were the one responsible for ordering his steps. “If any man trust in himself that he is Christ’s, let him consider this again.” Even in the faith, we do not boast in our standing. How much less should you boast in this uncertain bond?

If God has indeed brought this person into your life, then wait and let Him build the house. Your urgent demand for a phone call or a change in his behavior is not faith; it is anxiety wearing the mask of prayer. Rather, put your energy into what is certain: your own sanctification. Let your communication with him, if it must exist, be of such a kind that it stirs up your love for God, not your desire for a human voice. If his heart belongs to Christ, you will recognize the tree by its fruit in due season, without coaxing or forcing. And if he does not move forward, do not be grieved as if you have lost something precious, for nothing is precious that keeps you from the peace which surpasses all understanding.

Commit yourself entirely to God without conditions, and let this petition be the last of its kind. Ask instead for the grace to remain quiet in your chamber, to accept whatever He sends, and to turn your gaze from a man you barely know to the One who knows you completely. Then, whatever outcome befalls, you will be safe under the shadow of His wings, and your heart will not be tossed by the waves of hope and disappointment.