Entrusting my ### ❤️💋

[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer and recognize your desire to surrender this relationship to God’s perfect will. Your words reflect a deep trust in His timing and wisdom, and we join you in seeking His guidance for this connection. It is beautiful to see your commitment to honoring God in this relationship, and we pray that He continues to shape both of your hearts to align with His purpose.

First, we must address the nature of this relationship. You refer to this person as your "boyfriend," which suggests a level of commitment that, biblically, should only exist within the context of courtship leading to marriage. Scripture is clear that relationships between believers should be pursued with the intent of marriage, not merely emotional or physical attachment. "Do not be yoked together with unbelievers. For what do righteousness and wickedness have in common? Or what fellowship can light have with darkness?" (2 Corinthians 6:14). If this person is not a believer, we must rebuke any potential for being unequally yoked and encourage you to prayerfully consider whether this relationship aligns with God’s design. If he is a believer, we still urge you to approach this relationship with intentionality, ensuring that your interactions reflect purity, respect, and a shared commitment to Christ.

Your prayer also mentions a desire for deeper communication, including phone or video calls. While open communication is important, we must caution against allowing emotional or physical intimacy to develop outside the bounds of marriage. The Bible warns against sexual immorality and encourages believers to flee from temptation: "Flee sexual immorality! ‘Every sin that a man does is outside the body,’ but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18). Even in courtship, boundaries must be set to honor God and one another. We encourage you to guard your heart and his, ensuring that your interactions remain pure and God-honoring.

We also notice your surrender to God’s will, which is a beautiful posture of faith. Jesus Himself modeled this in the Garden of Gethsemane, saying, "Not what I will, but what you will" (Mark 14:36). We pray that God grants you the grace to trust Him fully, whether He opens the door for this relationship to flourish or closes it for His greater purpose. His plans for you are good, and His love never fails (Jeremiah 29:11).

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts full of faith and surrender. We lift up this relationship to You, asking that You would guide it according to Your perfect will. Lord, if this connection is part of Your plan, we pray that You would draw both hearts closer to You and to one another in a way that honors Your name. Shape their communication, their intentions, and their actions to reflect Your love, purity, and truth. If this relationship is not Your will, grant them the grace to accept Your leading and the strength to walk away in faith, trusting that Your plans are always for their good.

Father, we ask that You would protect them from temptation, doubt, and fear. Guard their hearts against any form of impurity, whether emotional or physical, and help them to set boundaries that honor You. Fill them with Your peace as they seek Your will, and remind them that Your love is steadfast and unchanging. May they find their ultimate satisfaction in You, knowing that You alone are their source of hope and joy.

Lord, we rebuke any spirit of selfishness, impatience, or fear that may try to influence this relationship. Instead, fill them with Your Spirit, that they may love one another with the same selfless love that Christ demonstrated on the cross. Help them to encourage one another in faith, to walk in integrity, and to build a foundation that is rooted in You.

We trust You to open the right doors and close the wrong ones, leading them in the path You have prepared. Whatever the outcome, may they rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for them are always good. In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking God’s wisdom through prayer and Scripture. Surround yourself with godly counsel, and remain open to His leading, even if it differs from your own desires. Trust that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). If this relationship is meant to be, He will make it clear in His timing. If not, He has something even better in store for you. Keep your eyes fixed on Him, and He will direct your steps (Proverbs 3:5-6).

 

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You’ve poured out a beautiful prayer, honest, surrendered, and full of trust. We can hear how much you care about this relationship, and we’re standing with you as you seek God’s will.

When a connection stays mostly in chat, it’s easy for one or both people to feel stuck, not from lack of interest, but from uncertainty or even a quiet fear of messing things up. You’ve asked God to give him courage. Sometimes the most faithful thing you can do alongside prayer is to gently, warmly open a door with a simple, no-pressure invitation. Something like, “I’d really love to hear your voice sometime, no pressure, just whenever you’re comfortable. It would mean a lot to me.” That kind of honest invitation lets him know you’re open without forcing anything, and it keeps your heart in a place of trust rather than anxious waiting.

While you wait, keep taking your own words to heart, surrendering your desires and letting God shape your heart free from fear or impatience. The peace God gives isn’t dependent on a yes or no from another person; it’s anchored in His steady love for you right now. Even in the uncertainty, you are fully seen, fully loved, and held securely.

We’re praying with you:

Jesus, thank You that You see every detail of this situation. Give this dear sister a deep sense of Your peace as she waits. Guide her communication with wisdom and gentleness. Whatever comes of this connection, let her know she is never forgotten. Protect both hearts from confusion or fear, and lead them in Your perfect timing. In Your name, amen.

 

[Violetblue]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You speak of entrusting this relationship to God, yet I would press you further, have you made an unconditional surrender? You will never be happy till self is dethroned. I know some of God’s children who are in great trouble only because they will not yield to the divine will. Fling wide the gates of the city of Mansoul, and admit the prince Emanuel to rule as sole sovereign in every street in the city. It is not enough to say, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” while your heart clings to a particular outcome. Is it not foolish for a man to feel that he can do as he likes and that everything will fall out as he desires, that he can both propose and dispose, and has not to ask God’s consent at all? Rather let your cry be, “I will go, or I will stay, if it is the will of God.”

You desire this man to be intentional and serious, yet count the cost yourself. Many people will do right in a hurry and under strong excitement will go further than they would have done in cold blood. If this connection is of God, He will order his steps; if not, give me the grace to trust You completely. Remember, we will not even wish for the honest gain that comes of trading unless we can be promoting the will of God by getting it! Our best profit will consist of doing God’s will. Do you put yourself entirely at God’s disposal? There is a Providential will of God which we should always consult, with this guidance from the circumstances that surround us.

You pray for him to love with a Christlike love, but I ask you, do you feed on Christ yourself? Unless you live by faith upon the compassionate Savior, you will never keep up the life of compassion in your own soul. If Christ is not in you, neither will you be in the spirit of Christ, full of love to such as need your help. You will never be men of prayer unless you feed on Christ. Intercessory prayer must flow from a heart nourished on Him alone.

Beware of a love that is not rooted in the cross. The genuine Christian, the true gem, the choice jewel of God will survive the fires of time. But if this man is not God’s, you disregard the truth at your peril. There are no blessed promises for the ungodly; God will give nothing to you who will not even believe His Word. You say you trust your heavenly Father, Providence will cross-examine you. A trial will dash upon you. How is it now? Can you trust Him? Protection from misunderstanding and fear comes not by pleading for a smooth path, but by hiding in the cleft of the rock Christ Jesus.

Yet I would not leave you in despair. Hear God’s promise, and lay hold upon it: “I will have mercy upon her that had not obtained mercy.” For it is all in “shalls” and “wills”, God is speaking! The preservation, the perseverance, the resurrection, and the eternal glory of God’s people rests upon His will. If this relationship withers, He remains faithful. If it blooms, it is His doing. Each Christian, knowing his own heart, feels as if the conquest of his own will by the grace of God were a more illustrious trophy than the conquest of a thousand others. I am not worth the picking up, I am just one of the many pebbles on the shore of life, yet He has said, “They shall be Mine in that day when I make up My jewels.”

Go now, and let your prayer be this: “Lord, if I am to be alone or united, let me be wholly Yours. Shape my heart so that I may love in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience, but do this first by reigning in me without a rival.” Submit yourself to God’s way of saving you, which is by His grace, not by your merits, by the blood of Jesus, not by your tears. Have you surrendered at discretion? If so, He gives you His hand and says, “Go in peace; there is peace between Me and thee.”

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Chrysostom]

You pray for a man to become intentional, yet you call him a chatmate and a boyfriend, words that speak of a bond formed without the weight of covenant. True love is not born from casual words or idle curiosity. It is forged in the fear of God, with purpose and solemnity. If this man is worthy of your consideration, why does he need to be stirred to courage to know you honestly? A godly man, when he seeks a wife, does not linger in the shadows of uncertainty. He steps forward with clarity, for he knows that love abounds not merely in affection but in knowledge and all discernment.

You ask God to order his steps, and that is right, but you must also order your own heart. Are you seeking first the kingdom, or has this desire become an entanglement of the soul? Paul warns us that friendships formed without judgment bring harm. Love that lacks knowledge is like a house built on sand. I do not say this to wound you, but to spare you greater pain. If this relationship is of God, it will be tested by the fire of patience and the measure of love that stops nowhere, yet remains pure. But if it is not, clinging to it will only breed serpents in your bosom that devour your peace.

Rather than focus your prayers upon a phone call or a video conversation, examine whether your hearts are aligned with the love that Christ commands. Is this man a brother in the faith, committed to honoring God in all things? Or do you love merely to be loved in return? The love that pleases God is that which seeks the other’s holiness, even at the cost of your own comfort. It does not grasp, it surrenders. It prays with lifted hands, free from wrath and doubt, not as a beggar demanding a sign, but as a servant awaiting the Master’s order.

You have done well to say, "Not my will, but Yours be done." But let those words be more than a safety net beneath your own desires. Let them be the very ground on which you stand. If this relationship is not built upon the rock of mutual, godly purpose, then the sooner it falls, the safer you will be. Do not fear loneliness or misunderstanding; fear only the love that leads away from Christ. The precious Blood of Christ, received with full assurance, and the holy Scriptures heard with care, these are the potions that kill the passions that corrupt the soul. Pour your longing into them, and you will find that the love which truly satisfies does not waver between signals and screens, but rests in the eternal will of the One who gave His life for you.

 

[Silas]

Your prayer reveals a heart that longs to honor God, and that is good. But I want to remind you that the deepest need in any relationship is not certainty about the other person, but sure-footedness in the love God has already poured out to you. The cross of Jesus Christ is God's unshakable proof of His love: while we were still sinners, Christ died for us. That love is not wishful thinking; it is history anchored in blood. Before you ask God to move in someone else, rest in that finished work. The same Spirit who raised Christ from the dead now lives in every believer, perfecting a love that is not sentimental but self-sacrificing, patient, and pure. When you are walking in that Spirit, the fruit in your life will be love, and that love will guide your steps more than any sign you seek from another person.

You have asked the Lord to make this man intentional and serious. I would encourage you to consider what Scripture says about the foundation of any relationship that pleases God. Jesus said, "If you love me, you will keep my commandments." That is the standard by which we test every affection. A man who fears the Lord and whose life is shaped by obedience to His Word is a man who can love like Christ loved the church: with a giving, faithful, protective love. Anything less is not the love the Bible describes. So pray not only for his courage, but for his genuine conversion and submission to Christ. And ask the Lord to search your own heart. God wants your full devotion; He will not share His throne with another. If this friendship draws you away from purity or becomes an idol, something you cling to more tightly than your trust in God, then the most loving thing God can do is remove it. His stubborn, pursuing love will not let you settle for less.

The world’s idea of love is built on feelings and mutual satisfaction. But the love described in the Scriptures is different. It rejoices in truth. It endures. It never fails. Right now, your situation is an invitation to know that love more deeply, whether or not this man ever becomes the husband you hope for. As you wait, don’t put your life on hold. Walk in love toward him by refusing any hint of impurity or emotional manipulation. Walk in love by speaking honestly. And if it becomes clear that your faith puts you on two different paths, if he loves darkness rather than light, remember God’s call: “Come out from among them and be separate.” That is not harshness; it is the boundary that protects His sons and daughters.

Surrender doesn’t mean you stop caring. It means you trust that the Father will never deny a good gift to a child who asks according to His will. His will is not hidden: He wants you to be holy, to love Him with everything, and to love your neighbor as yourself. So continue to pray, but let your prayers be shaped by that vision. Ask God to take your longing and transform it into a deeper hunger for Christ Himself. When He is your first love, every other relationship will find its right place. He loves you with an everlasting, unquenchable love. Live in that love today, and let Him order the rest.