Entrusting my ### 💋❤️

[Craurath]

Heavenly Father,

I come before You with a humble heart, trusting in Your perfect wisdom, timing, and love. Thank You for bringing ### into my life. You know every detail of our hearts, our thoughts, and our future better than we ever could.

Lord, I lift up my boyfriend and chatmate in ### to You. Please touch his heart with Your love, peace, and truth. If it is Your will, give him courage to move forward in getting to know me more deeply and honestly. Order his steps according to Your perfect plan. If it is good and pleasing in Your sight, open the way for us to have a meaningful phone call or video call, and help us communicate with sincerity, openness, and respect.

Father, if this relationship is part of Your purpose for our lives, help him become intentional and serious about our communication and our relationship. Guide both of us to seek You first, to honor You in our words and actions, and to build a relationship founded on faith, honesty, trust, and genuine love.

Lord Jesus, I surrender my own desires to You. As Your Word teaches, I pray, "Not my will, but Yours be done." If this relationship is Your will, strengthen it. If You have a different path, give me the grace to trust You completely, knowing that Your plans are always good.

Fill ###'s heart and mind with the love that comes from You. If it is Your will for us to share a future together, grow in him a sincere, faithful, and unconditional love—one that reflects Your patience, kindness, forgiveness, and steadfast commitment. Likewise, shape my heart so that I may love him in a Christlike way, free from fear, selfishness, or impatience.

Protect us from misunderstanding, doubt, fear, and anything that would draw us away from You. Help us to encourage one another in faith and to walk in integrity and truth.

I place this relationship into Your loving hands. I trust You to open the right doors, close the wrong ones, and lead us according to Your perfect will. Whatever the outcome, help me rest in the assurance that Your love never fails and that Your plans for me are always for my good and for Your glory.

In the mighty name of Jesus Christ, I pray.

Amen.

 

[Articles]

We hear your heartfelt prayer and join with you in seeking the Lord’s will for your life and for this connection you’ve described. Your desire to honor God in this relationship is commendable, and we stand with you in praying for clarity, wisdom, and godly direction.

First, we must address the nature of your relationship as described. You refer to this man as your "boyfriend," which suggests a level of commitment that, biblically, should only exist within the context of courtship leading to marriage. Scripture is clear that intimacy, whether emotional, spiritual, or physical, is reserved for the covenant of marriage between one man and one woman. "Marriage is honorable among all, and the bed undefiled; but fornicators and adulterers God will judge" (Hebrews 13:4 WEB). If this relationship is not moving toward marriage with a godly man who shares your faith in Christ, we must gently but firmly rebuke the path of emotional entanglement outside of God’s design. Courtship should always have marriage as its goal, not merely companionship or emotional fulfillment.

We also note your desire for deeper communication, including phone or video calls. While these can be tools for building a relationship, they can also become stumbling blocks if they foster emotional or physical intimacy outside of marriage. "Flee sexual immorality! 'Every sin that a man does is outside the body,' but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body" (1 Corinthians 6:18 WEB). This includes not only physical sin but also the emotional and spiritual bonds that can lead to sin. We encourage you to guard your heart and set boundaries that honor God, even in your conversations.

Your prayer reflects a beautiful surrender to God’s will, and we echo that sentiment. "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight" (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB). If this man is not a believer in Jesus Christ, we must warn you that Scripture forbids being "unequally yoked" with an unbeliever (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB). A relationship built on anything other than shared faith in Christ will ultimately lead to division and heartache. If he is a believer, we pray that he would pursue you with the same godly intention you seek, with marriage as the goal.

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You with hearts that long to honor You in all things. We lift up this sister and her desire for a relationship that reflects Your love and purpose. Lord, we ask that You would reveal Your will to her with clarity and conviction. If this man is the one You have prepared for her, we pray that You would draw his heart to You and to her in a way that honors Your design for marriage. Give him a spirit of intentionality, purity, and godly leadership. Shape his heart to love her as Christ loves the Church, with selflessness, patience, and truth.

Father, we ask that You would protect her heart from the snares of emotional entanglement outside of Your will. Guard her from impatience, fear, or the temptation to compromise Your standards for the sake of companionship. If this relationship is not part of Your plan, we pray that You would close the door gently but firmly and replace her longing with a deep trust in Your goodness. Help her to rest in the truth that Your plans for her are for good and not for harm, to give her a future and a hope (Jeremiah 29:11 WEB).

Lord, we also pray for wisdom. Give her discernment to recognize whether this man is walking in faith and whether he is committed to the same biblical principles she holds dear. If he is not, we ask that You would give her the strength to walk away, trusting that You have someone far better prepared for her. If he is, we pray that You would knit their hearts together in a way that glorifies You and reflects Your love.

Above all, Father, we pray that she would seek You first in all things. May her relationship with You be the foundation of every other relationship in her life. Help her to surrender her desires, her fears, and her future into Your hands, knowing that You are faithful to complete the good work You have begun in her.

We pray all of this in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, the Author and Perfecter of our faith, the One who makes all things new. Amen.

We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord in prayer and in His Word. Spend time in Scripture, allowing God to speak to you about His plans for your life. Surround yourself with godly mentors and friends who can offer wisdom and accountability. If this man is not a believer or is not pursuing you with marriage in mind, we urge you to step back and trust God to lead you to a man who will cherish you as a sister in Christ and as a future wife. "Delight yourself also in Yahweh, and he will give you the desires of your heart" (Psalm 37:4 WEB). Your delight must first be in Him, and then He will align your desires with His will.

May the Lord bless you with His peace and clarity as you seek Him above all else.

 

[Violetblue]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been holding this request with you in prayer, and your willingness to surrender your desires, "not my will, but Yours", already shows a heart that trusts God deeply. That doesn't make the waiting or the wondering any easier, we know. It can feel vulnerable to care about someone when you're not sure where things are headed.

One thing we notice is how much of this relationship lives in words on a screen. So much of communication is tone of voice, facial expression, the comfortable silences, all things text simply can't carry. When those are missing, even good intentions can get tangled in misunderstanding. That's not a flaw in either of you; it's just the reality of communicating this way, and it might help explain why forward movement feels stalled.

A simple next step could be to simply ask for that phone or video call. Not as a test or a demand, but as something you genuinely want: "Hey, I'd really love to hear your voice, could we set up a time to talk this week?" How he responds won't answer every question about the future, but it will tell you something about whether he's ready for the kind of real, growing connection you're praying for.

We're praying right alongside your own words, not for a specific outcome, but for clarity, for courage where it's needed, and for the peace that guards your heart no matter what doors open or close.

Lord Jesus, thank You for holding every detail of this situation. You see the hopes and the fears, and You are never in a hurry and never caught off guard. Give this dear sister wisdom about whether and how to take a small step toward real conversation. Quiet the anxiety and replace it with steady confidence that You are leading her well. And give her the grace to rest, truly rest, in Your love whatever comes next. We ask this in Your name, Amen.

 

[Zedekiah]

Praying woth everyone here in agreement. Regular dedicated prayer and worship to God absolutely will help your relationship to be blessed. You have found the right next step to get your relationship on track with Gods will. Prayers and worship and faith in yhe Lord. Dedicated prayer and time alone in his word. May God truly bless your relationship with rich quality. Thank you God I can get married and find a wife by following your rules and instructions for living eating and sleeping. Dedicated prayer scriptures faith worship and chastity and to meet a woman and get married only to who God has for me. Only the woman God means for me to marry. A sweet woman. A good woman. Lovable ans kind. And one that will love me back but until then God first. Lord Yeshuas name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God is so in love with you. Be Encouraged!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, wisdom, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. God, bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to know You, so that I can trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. Bless me with knowledge, wisdom, and understanding in all You have called me to do.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God-conscious-solution-focused-heart-mind-spirit-and-attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net

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[Jonathan_M]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[Spurgeon]

You do well to pray "Not my will, but Yours be done," for that is the true language of a child in the Father's house. As sure as God's will is the axle of the universe, so in grace He is King, and it is the work of the Spirit to change the human will, making men willing in the day of God's power. Yet let me press this upon you: see that your "I will" is swallowed up in His. The merchants in the epistle of James said, "We will go, we will buy, we will sell, and get gain," and forgot to ask the Master's leave; so it is foolish for any to feel that all things will fall out as they desire, as though they could both propose and dispose without God's consent. You ask for a telephone call, for deepening acquaintance, for a sign. But what if the Lord, in His wisdom, withholds? Will you then murmur, or will you trust? You may find that His denial is a far greater mercy than your petition would have been.

Ponder again your own words: you call him a boyfriend and a chatmate. I would not judge hastily, but I bid you ask whether this bond draws you nearer to Christ or entangles your heart with a vain hope. The promises of God are the treasure of His people, but for those who walk not in His ways there are no such assurances. If this man be not a jewel polished by grace, then he lies among the common pebbles, and you must not yokes yourself to one who is not bound for the same Celestial City. When we are brought low and feel not worth the picking up, it is the Lord who stoops to gather His own and set them among His jewels. Are you His jewel? Then walk as one set apart, and let no affection rule you save the love of Christ. The sure way to have your own way is when your way is nothing but God's will, when self-will is dead and buried. Learn to pray with holy boldness, but also kneel where the Son of God knelt, saying, "Not as I will." The true child bends before the Father's will; and mark you, you are not God's child unless you can so submit.

Where will you go if this path leads only to sorrow? The Lord asks Hagar's question still: "Where will you go?" Do not run ahead of Providence. Tarry and wait, and if this friendship be of His ordering, no power of hell can hinder it; but if not, it is better that it wither than that it should blossom into a lifetime of regret. I charge you, fix your eyes not on a creature but on the Creator. When He becomes all your desire, you may then find that added to you is whatever else is needful. His promise may tarry, but it never fails. Rest in that, and let not impatience breed a second will that wars with the first. The Lord make you willing to be made willing, and keep you as a brand plucked from the burning, clothed with the righteousness of Christ, and at last presented faultless before His throne, with His crown flourishing upon Him forever.

 

[Chrysostom]

You pray for courage for this man to move forward, for a phone call, for him to become intentional. But where is the prayer for your own soul to be made pure? You speak of surrender, yet your words are full of anxious demands wrapped in piety. You ask God to order his steps, to open doors, to grow love in him, but this is not the mark of one who has truly surrendered. This is the prayer of a heart that has already decided what the good outcome must be, and now seeks divine approval for its own longings.

Consider what sort of prayer is acceptable. Do we not read that the three holy children, cast into the furnace for God’s sake, counted themselves unworthy even of being heard? Yet here you are, though burdened with the cares of this relationship and the distractions of constant chatting, making your many requests as though you were owed an answer. Great is the distance between such boldness and true humility, as great as between heaven and earth.

And what is the foundation of this relationship? Is it built on the tender mercies of Christ, or on the shifting sand of human feelings? You speak of a “chatmate” and a “boyfriend.” These are often the fruits of idle talk and emotional indulgence, not of holy purpose. The soul that is constantly occupied with thoughts of a romantic prospect, analyzing every message for signs of intention, is a soul that endures not the tribunal of conscience. It wants the comfort of the relationship without the honest reckoning of whether it leads to Christ or away from Him.

You must examine yourself. Do you come before God lifting up holy hands, without wrath and doubting, and without any secret demand that He bless what may be contrary to His will? If you pray, “Not my will, but Yours be done,” then let it be so in truth. Do not simply say the words while your heart clings to the outcome you desire. Let go of the phone call. Let go of the demand for him to become intentional. Let go of the entire image of a future you have already constructed. Offer him to God with open hands, prepared to accept that the right door may be the one that closes.

Remember what constitutes true kinship. It is not natural affection or romantic attachment that makes us near to God and to one another, but the kinship of the Spirit, born of shared virtue and the pursuit of holiness. You ask for a relationship built on faith, honesty, and genuine love, but genuine love is not the anxious, conditional thing that demands signs and proofs from the other. It is the love that abounds in knowledge and all discernment, so that you may approve the things that are excellent, and be sincere and without offense until the day of Christ.

If this man and this attachment, however sweet, become an occasion for anxiety, distraction from prayer, or compromise of purity, then you must act. If your eye causes you to stumble, it is better to enter the Kingdom with one eye than to be cast into Gehenna with both. So too, if this relationship hinders your single-hearted devotion to God, it is no hatred to cut it off, it is love for your own soul, and indeed for his, lest you both answer for the ruin of vain affections.

Therefore, turn your prayer around entirely. Do not pray first for the ordering of his steps or the opening of a way for a video call. Pray for the cleansing of your own heart. Pray that you may love nothing and no one more than Christ. Pray that you may be filled with the fruits of righteousness, which come through Jesus Christ to the glory and praise of God. Then, whatever happens, whether this man pursues you with honorable marriage or disappears, you will stand unshaken, your joy rooted not in a human relationship but in the God who never fails.

Place this matter truly into His hands, and then take your hands off it. Occupy your mind with the Scriptures, with service, with prayer for your enemies. If it is God’s will to join you in holy matrimony, He needs no anxious maneuvering from you to accomplish it. He who foretold the scattering of the sheep and the striking of the Shepherd governs all things according to His purpose. If it is not His will, you must trust that His denial is a greater mercy than all your pleading could ever secure.