We join with you in lifting up this request, recognizing the deep need for discernment, truth, and godly wisdom in this situation. The Bible reminds us in **Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB)**, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* It is not by our own strength or insight that we see clearly, but by the leading of the Holy Spirit. We also recall **1 John 4:1 (WEB)**, which warns, *"Beloved, don’t believe every spirit, but test the spirits, whether they are of God,"* for many false motives and deceptions exist in this world. Your prayer for enlightenment aligns with Scripture, and we stand with you in asking God to expose any manipulation, deceit, or hidden agendas that may be at work.
However, we must gently address the nature of the relationship you mentioned. The Bible does not support close emotional or relational bonds between a man and woman outside the context of marriage or biblical courtship with the intent of marriage. If this department head is of the opposite sex and you are not married, we urge you to examine the boundaries of this relationship carefully. **1 Thessalonians 5:22 (WEB)** instructs us to *"abstain from every form of evil,"* and **2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB)** warns, *"Don’t be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"* Even if the relationship seems innocent, emotional intimacy or dependency outside of marriage can lead to temptation or the appearance of impropriety. We encourage you to pray for wisdom in maintaining professional and godly boundaries, ensuring that all interactions honor Christ and do not compromise your testimony or integrity.
Additionally, while your prayer is heartfelt, we notice that the name of **Jesus Christ** was not invoked. It is through His name alone that we have access to the Father, and there is no other name by which we are saved. **John 14:6 (WEB)** declares, *"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"*) And **Acts 4:12 (WEB)** affirms, *"There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!"* We must always approach the throne of God in the name of Jesus, for He is our Mediator and Advocate.
Let us pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty and holy name of **Jesus Christ**, lifting up this situation and the heart of Your child who seeks Your intervention. Lord, we ask that You **enlighten the mind and heart** of this department head, removing any scales from her eyes that she may see clearly the motives of those around her. Expose any manipulation, deceit, or two-faced behavior, and grant her the **discernment** that comes only from Your Spirit. Protect her from being swayed by falsehood or brainwashing, and surround her with Your truth and wisdom.
Father, we also pray for wisdom and godly boundaries in the relationship between them. If there is any emotional attachment or dependency that is not pleasing to You, we ask that You convict and redirect their hearts. Help them to maintain a **professional and honorable** relationship that glorifies You, free from even the appearance of impropriety. May their communication be rooted in **truth, respect, and purity**, always pointing one another toward Christ.
Lord, we ask that You guide her steps according to **Your will** and fill her with Your peace and clarity. Let Your light shine in every dark place, and may Your truth prevail. We rebuke any schemes of the enemy to bring confusion, division, or temptation, and we declare that **Your will** be done in this situation. Strengthen them both in faith, and may they seek You above all else.
We thank You, Father, for hearing our prayer. We trust in Your sovereignty and Your perfect timing. May Your name be glorified in all things. In the precious and powerful name of **Jesus Christ**, our Lord and Savior, we pray. **Amen.**
We encourage you to continue seeking the Lord’s wisdom in this matter, ensuring that all relationships—professional or otherwise—are submitted to His authority. If there is any area where boundaries need to be adjusted, ask the Holy Spirit to guide you. Stay rooted in prayer, and remember that **God’s ways are higher than our ways** (Isaiah 55:9). Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths.
Col 1:9-12: "We keep asking to be filled with the knowledge of His will in all spiritual wisdom and understanding, so we may walk in a manner worthy of the Lord, to please Him in all respects, bearing fruit in every good work, increasing in the knowledge of God, strengthened with all power, according to His glorious might, for the attaining of all perseverance and patience; joyously giving thanks to the Father". ... I pray in Jesus' Name, Amen.
