Please pray that all my enemies would be totally defeated, exposed and removed from my life. Please also pray for me that God will lead me to a new church as I now believe I need to leave the church I recently joined due to the pastor disliking me a lot. I knew before I joined the church that this pastor did not like me and I was very, very hesitant when I was going through the process of joining but I didn't know how to back out. His behavior does not improve and I now believe I need to leave. I don't feel it is sensible or healthy to remain in this environment - going to a church where I have to avoid the pastor? I don't think that's right in any way. Please pray God will provide me with a way to leave without any drama and open doors for me and my mother to leave quietly - he does not mistreat my mother at all. My mother is not going to want to go to the church without me. I had to literally beg her to start attending it with me and join in the first place. Please also pray that God will provide us with a way out in which my mother will not be sad or discouraged by our having to leave or having come to a place that is not a right fit. I haven't talked with my mother about how the pastor treats me. I don't know if she notices.
Enemies & church
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We understand the heaviness of your heart in dealing with enemies and the pain of being in a church where you feel unwelcome, especially by its leader. It is never God’s will for His children to remain in places where they are mistreated, belittled, or made to feel like outsiders. The Lord calls us to unity in the body of Christ, where love and mutual edification should abound. *"By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another"* (John 13:35, WEB). If a pastor—or anyone in leadership—shows partiality, favoritism, or outright dislike without cause, this is not of God. Scripture warns us that *"if anyone says, ‘I love God,’ and hates his brother, he is a liar; for he who doesn’t love his brother whom he has seen, how can he love God whom he has not seen?"* (1 John 4:20, WEB). You are not wrong for recognizing that this environment is unhealthy, and we commend you for seeking God’s will in leaving with wisdom and peace.
As for your enemies, we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). While it is right to pray for protection and justice, we are also called to pray for those who mistreat us, that God would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Jesus said, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This does not mean you must endure abuse or remain in harmful situations, but it does mean releasing bitterness and trusting God to handle your vindication. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB). We will pray that God exposes and defeats every scheme of the enemy against you, while also softening your heart toward those who have wronged you, that you may walk in freedom and not in the bondage of resentment.
Regarding your mother, we lift her up to the Lord, asking that He would prepare her heart for this transition. It is clear you care deeply for her spiritual well-being, and we pray that God would give you the words and the timing to share your concerns with her in a way that brings understanding rather than distress. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). He knows the delicate balance of your mother’s emotions and will guide you both into a place of peace. It may be that she, too, has sensed the lack of warmth in this church but has not known how to articulate it. Ask the Lord to open her eyes and heart to His leading, that she would see this change not as a failure but as a step of obedience and faith.
We also encourage you to seek a church where the Word of God is preached boldly, where love is genuine, and where you and your mother can grow in your faith without the weight of man-made burdens. *"Not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:25, WEB). The body of Christ should be a refuge, not a source of anxiety. Pray that God would lead you to a congregation where you are welcomed, nurtured, and challenged to walk closer with Him.
Lastly, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus, and we gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). There is power in the name of Jesus—power to break chains, to heal wounds, and to open doors no man can shut. We encourage you to approach the throne of grace boldly in His name, for He is your advocate and your shield.
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**Let us pray together:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Your child who is weary from the battles they face. Lord, You see the hearts of all men, and You know the pain of being rejected and mistreated, especially within the walls of what should be a safe haven. We ask that You would expose every hidden motive and every scheme of the enemy against Your servant. Bring to light what has been done in darkness, and let every tongue that rises against them be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). Defeat their enemies, O God, and let Your justice prevail. Yet, in Your mercy, we also pray for those who have caused harm—soften their hearts, Lord, and lead them to repentance. Break the spirit of division and bitterness, and replace it with Your love and grace.
Father, we ask for Your clear direction as they seek to leave this church. Open the doors wide for a smooth and drama-free exit, and prepare the way for them and their mother to find a new church home—a place where Your Word is honored, where love abounds, and where they can worship You in spirit and in truth. Comfort their mother, Lord, and prepare her heart to receive this change with peace and even excitement for what You have ahead. Give Your child the wisdom and the words to speak to her in love, that she would not be discouraged but would trust in Your leading.
Lead them to a body of believers where they can thrive, where they are seen, valued, and discipled in Your ways. Surround them with godly relationships that will encourage and strengthen them. Heal the wounds of rejection, Lord, and fill them with the assurance that they are Your beloved, chosen, and accepted in Christ.
We rebuke every spirit of fear, anxiety, or hesitation in this transition. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). And Father, we thank You that this situation is not the end of their story—it is merely a stepping stone to something greater that You have prepared.
In the powerful and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
As for your enemies, we must remember that our battle is not against flesh and blood but against spiritual forces of wickedness (Ephesians 6:12). While it is right to pray for protection and justice, we are also called to pray for those who mistreat us, that God would convict their hearts and lead them to repentance. Jesus said, *"But I tell you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who mistreat you and persecute you"* (Matthew 5:44, WEB). This does not mean you must endure abuse or remain in harmful situations, but it does mean releasing bitterness and trusting God to handle your vindication. *"Don’t say, ‘I will pay back evil.’ Wait for Yahweh, and he will save you"* (Proverbs 20:22, WEB). We will pray that God exposes and defeats every scheme of the enemy against you, while also softening your heart toward those who have wronged you, that you may walk in freedom and not in the bondage of resentment.
Regarding your mother, we lift her up to the Lord, asking that He would prepare her heart for this transition. It is clear you care deeply for her spiritual well-being, and we pray that God would give you the words and the timing to share your concerns with her in a way that brings understanding rather than distress. *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight"* (Proverbs 3:5-6, WEB). He knows the delicate balance of your mother’s emotions and will guide you both into a place of peace. It may be that she, too, has sensed the lack of warmth in this church but has not known how to articulate it. Ask the Lord to open her eyes and heart to His leading, that she would see this change not as a failure but as a step of obedience and faith.
We also encourage you to seek a church where the Word of God is preached boldly, where love is genuine, and where you and your mother can grow in your faith without the weight of man-made burdens. *"Not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another; and so much the more, as you see the Day approaching"* (Hebrews 10:25, WEB). The body of Christ should be a refuge, not a source of anxiety. Pray that God would lead you to a congregation where you are welcomed, nurtured, and challenged to walk closer with Him.
Lastly, we notice that your request did not invoke the name of Jesus, and we gently remind you that it is only through Him that we have access to the Father. *"Jesus said to him, ‘I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me’* (John 14:6, WEB). There is power in the name of Jesus—power to break chains, to heal wounds, and to open doors no man can shut. We encourage you to approach the throne of grace boldly in His name, for He is your advocate and your shield.
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**Let us pray together:**
Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus, lifting up Your child who is weary from the battles they face. Lord, You see the hearts of all men, and You know the pain of being rejected and mistreated, especially within the walls of what should be a safe haven. We ask that You would expose every hidden motive and every scheme of the enemy against Your servant. Bring to light what has been done in darkness, and let every tongue that rises against them be condemned (Isaiah 54:17). Defeat their enemies, O God, and let Your justice prevail. Yet, in Your mercy, we also pray for those who have caused harm—soften their hearts, Lord, and lead them to repentance. Break the spirit of division and bitterness, and replace it with Your love and grace.
Father, we ask for Your clear direction as they seek to leave this church. Open the doors wide for a smooth and drama-free exit, and prepare the way for them and their mother to find a new church home—a place where Your Word is honored, where love abounds, and where they can worship You in spirit and in truth. Comfort their mother, Lord, and prepare her heart to receive this change with peace and even excitement for what You have ahead. Give Your child the wisdom and the words to speak to her in love, that she would not be discouraged but would trust in Your leading.
Lead them to a body of believers where they can thrive, where they are seen, valued, and discipled in Your ways. Surround them with godly relationships that will encourage and strengthen them. Heal the wounds of rejection, Lord, and fill them with the assurance that they are Your beloved, chosen, and accepted in Christ.
We rebuke every spirit of fear, anxiety, or hesitation in this transition. Let Your peace, which surpasses all understanding, guard their hearts and minds in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:7). And Father, we thank You that this situation is not the end of their story—it is merely a stepping stone to something greater that You have prepared.
In the powerful and holy name of Jesus, we pray. Amen.
We're right there with you, friend. It's tough feeling unwanted in a place that's supposed to be a refuge, and it's even harder when it's the church. We understand your hesitation in joining this church initially, and now, your certainty that it's time to leave. Please know that God sees your heart, and He understands your pain.
We're going to pray for God to remove your enemies from your life, just as you asked. We're also going to pray for the pastor, that God would soften his heart and lead him to treat everyone with kindness and respect. We believe in praying for our enemies, as Jesus taught us, because it's through love and forgiveness that we find true freedom.
As for your mother, we're going to pray for her too. We're asking God to prepare her heart for this change, to give her peace and understanding. We're also going to pray for you, that God would give you the right words to talk to her about this.
Lastly, we're going to pray for God to lead you both to a new church, a place where you feel welcomed, loved, and can grow in your faith together.
All of this, we pray in Jesus' name. Amen.
We're going to pray for God to remove your enemies from your life, just as you asked. We're also going to pray for the pastor, that God would soften his heart and lead him to treat everyone with kindness and respect. We believe in praying for our enemies, as Jesus taught us, because it's through love and forgiveness that we find true freedom.
As for your mother, we're going to pray for her too. We're asking God to prepare her heart for this change, to give her peace and understanding. We're also going to pray for you, that God would give you the right words to talk to her about this.
Lastly, we're going to pray for God to lead you both to a new church, a place where you feel welcomed, loved, and can grow in your faith together.
All of this, we pray in Jesus' name. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
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Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
The Encourager
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I prayed that God in Jesus' name will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. God Loves You. Thank You Jesus!!!
Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.
God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name please bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the love, grace, and knowledge of Christ Jesus. God bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, Your righteousness, and to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager-Prayer Warrior-Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach. www.theencourager.net
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