We understand your heart’s cry for employment, stability, and marriage, and we lift these concerns before the Lord with you. First, we must address something vital: your request did not invoke the name of Jesus Christ, through whom we have access to the Father. The Scriptures declare, *"There is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus"* (1 Timothy 2:5, WEB). It is only through faith in Him—believing in His death, burial, and resurrection for our sins—that we can approach God’s throne with confidence. If you have not yet surrendered your life to Jesus as Lord and Savior, we urge you to do so today, for *"there is no other name under heaven... by which we must be saved"* (Acts 4:12, WEB). Without Christ, our prayers lack the power and authority He provides.
Now, let us turn to your requests with the truth of God’s Word as our foundation.
On **employment and provision**, we are reminded that our Heavenly Father knows our needs before we ask (Matthew 6:8). Jesus teaches us to seek first His Kingdom and righteousness, trusting that *"all these things will be given to you as well"* (Matthew 6:33, WEB). If you are walking in obedience to Him, He will not withhold good things from you (Psalm 84:11). However, we must also examine our hearts: Are we trusting in our own efforts, or are we relying on God’s sovereignty? Proverbs 3:5-6 (WEB) commands us, *"Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don’t lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight."* If you have been diligent in seeking work but have not yet seen fruit, take heart—God’s timing is perfect. We pray He opens doors no man can shut (Revelation 3:8) and provides not just a job, but the *right* opportunity to glorify Him.
We also urge you to consider: Are there areas of disobedience or unconfessed sin in your life that may be hindering God’s blessing? The psalmist warns, *"If I cherished sin in my heart, the Lord wouldn’t have listened"* (Psalm 66:18, WEB). Repentance and surrender are key to walking in God’s favor.
Regarding **marriage**, we celebrate your desire for this sacred covenant, which God instituted as a lifelong union between one man and one woman (Genesis 2:24, Matthew 19:4-6). However, we must caution against the world’s distorted views of relationships. Marriage is not merely about companionship or personal fulfillment—it is a reflection of Christ’s love for His Church (Ephesians 5:22-33). If you are seeking a spouse, we pray God prepares you *and* your future mate in holiness, patience, and faith. But we must ask: Are you pursuing marriage with a heart fully submitted to God’s will, or are you driven by loneliness, cultural pressure, or ungodly desires?
If you are currently in a relationship outside of marriage, we lovingly but firmly rebuke any sexual immorality (fornication, adultery, or homosexuality), as Scripture commands us to flee from it (1 Corinthians 6:18-20). *"Marriage is honorable in all, and the bed is undefiled; but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers"* (Hebrews 13:4, WEB). If this applies to you, repent and turn to God’s design for purity. Courtship should be intentional, with the goal of marriage between believers (2 Corinthians 6:14), and physical intimacy reserved for the marriage bed alone.
If you are struggling with same-sex attraction or have been tempted to pursue relationships outside of God’s design, we speak the truth in love: *"Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom?... Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor men who have sex with men... will inherit God’s Kingdom"* (1 Corinthians 6:9-10, WEB). But take hope! *"Such were some of you, but you were washed. But you were sanctified. But you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus, and in the Spirit of our God"* (1 Corinthians 6:11, WEB). God’s grace is sufficient to transform and redeem. Surrender this area to Him, and He will give you the strength to walk in obedience.
Finally, we pray over you now with the authority of Jesus Christ:
*"Heavenly Father, we lift this beloved soul before You, asking for Your mercy and provision. Forgive them for any sin that has separated them from Your perfect will, and draw them closer to You through repentance and faith in Jesus Christ. If they have not yet surrendered to Him as Lord, convict their heart today and save them, for there is no other name by which we must be saved.
Lord, You know their need for employment. Open doors that no man can shut, and provide work that aligns with Your purposes. Give them favor with employers, wisdom in decisions, and patience to wait on Your timing. Remove any fear, anxiety, or trust in worldly systems, and let them rest in Your promise to supply all their needs according to Your riches in glory (Philippians 4:19).
For their desire for marriage, we ask for Your discernment and protection. Prepare them to be a godly spouse, rooted in Your Word and filled with Your Spirit. If there is any ungodly relationship or sinful behavior in their life, expose it and grant them the courage to turn away. Surround them with believers who will encourage them toward holiness and patience as they wait on Your perfect plan.
Break every chain of the enemy—whether doubt, impurity, or worldly influence—and let Your light shine brightly in their life. May they walk in victory, knowing that You are faithful to complete the good work You began in them (Philippians 1:6).
We rebuke every scheme of the devil against their life, career, and future marriage, and we declare that no weapon formed against them shall prosper (Isaiah 54:17). Let Your will be done in their life, for Your glory alone.
In the mighty and matchless name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior, we pray. Amen."*
Stand firm in faith, dear one. God hears the prayers of the righteous (1 Peter 3:12), and He is able to do exceedingly abundantly above all we ask or think (Ephesians 3:20). Walk in obedience, trust His timing, and keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith. We are praying with you!